Bullying Radar Slides Courage Crew • Lesson 1
20-Minute SEL Mini-Lesson
Tune Your Bullying Radar
How to spot the difference between an accidental mean moment, everyday conflict, and real bullying.
Notice
Spot clues fast
Weigh
Use 3 key rules
Respond
Prepare to act
The 3 Bullying Signals
All 3 Are Present
1. On Purpose
It is not an accident or a misunderstanding. The person aims to hurt feelings or cause harm.
Signal: Hurtful intention
2. Repeated
It happens more than once over time, or creates a constant fear that it will keep happening.
Signal: Pattern over time
3. Power Gap
The target feels unable to defend themselves due to size, popularity, numbers, or age.
Signal: Unfair advantage
Remember: If it happens once by accident, it is an unkind moment. If all three fit, our radar rings!
Radar Check: Conflict or Bullying?
Turn & Talk (2 Mins)
Case 1 Playground
Mia and Sam both want the same basketball. They argue loudly, yell "It's my turn!", but play together later.
Radar Result: Everyday Conflict
Equal power, one-time disagreement, solved together.
Case 2 Cafeteria
Every day at lunch, two older students block Leo from sitting down and whisper mean jokes about his shoes.
Radar Result: Bullying
Repeated daily, intentional hurt, power in numbers.
When our radar detects bullying, what can we do? We become Upstanders!
Courage Crew Mission #1
Next Step
Your Mission Today
Complete your Radar Spotter Worksheet. Read each school situation, check the 3 signals, and decide whether it is conflict, an unkind moment, or bullying!
Key Rule: Upstanders pay attention. We don't ignore what our radar spots.
Radar Spotter Worksheet Courage Crew • Radar Spotter
Lesson 1 Activity: Calibrate Your Bullying Radar
Name:
Date:
The 3 Signals: 1. On Purpose (Intent) • 2. Repeated (Pattern) • 3. Power Gap (Unfair advantage)
All 3 = Bullying
Part 1: Scenario Radar Scan (Check all signals that apply)
Case 1
During kickball, Maya accidentally trips when running to first base and knocks Jordan down. Maya quickly yells, "I'm sorry, I slipped!" and helps Jordan pick up his hat.
On Purpose Repeated Power Gap
Type: Conflict / Accident
Case 2
Three 4th graders corner a smaller 3rd grader behind the gym at recess every Tuesday and Thursday. They take his lunch snack and laugh when he asks for it back.
On Purpose Repeated Power Gap
Type: Bullying
Case 3
Noah and Eli argue loudly over who gets to play the blue video game controller in after-school club. Noah says an unkind word, but they agree to take 10-minute turns.
On Purpose Repeated Power Gap
Type: Peer Conflict
Part 2: Upstander Reflection
Why is it important to know if something is a one-time accident versus repeated bullying before deciding how to help?
Courage Crew Commitment: I keep my eyes and ears open to protect others.
Lesson 1 of 10
Courage Crew Teacher Guide Courage Crew • Teacher Guide
Educator Facilitation & Implementation Guide (Grades 3–4)
10 Daily 20-Min Lessons
The 20-Minute Daily Lesson Protocol
3 Minutes Hook & Check-In
Slide 1 • Activate schema
7 Minutes Explicit Mini-Lesson
Slides 2-3 • Teach skill
7 Minutes Active Practice
Student Action Sheet
3 Minutes Mission Wrap-Up
Slide 4 • Class commitment
Unit Scope & Sequence At A Glance
Lesson Focus Concept Key Strategy Learning Objective & Outcome Lesson 1 The Bullying Radar 3 Signals Scan Distinguish accident, peer conflict, and intentional repetitive bullying. Lesson 2 The Bystander Freeze Courage Spark Normalize bystander hesitation; understand the 10-second ripple effect. Lesson 3 The Upstander Choice The 4 D's Intro Examine the Four D's toolkit; commit to safety-first intervention choices. Lesson 4 Direct Words 1. DIRECT Master calm, assertive verbal boundaries with upright posture and steady voice. Lesson 5 Distract Move 2. DISTRACT Redirect attention away from aggressor via friendly invitations and questions. Lesson 6 Delegate Help 3. DELEGATE Differentiate tattling from reporting; map a 3-person adult safety network. Lesson 7 Delay Support 4. DELAY Offer post-incident emotional first aid, active listening, and peer inclusion. Lesson 8 Cyber Shield Digital Ally Apply upstander habits to gaming, group chats, and student device interactions. Lesson 9 Courage In Action Scenario Arena Practice low-risk group simulations across cafeteria, bus, and recess contexts. Lesson 10 The Upstander Oath Classroom Pact Synthesize commitments, recite class oath, and certify Courage Crew members.
Trauma-Informed Implementation Guidelines
Never force personal disclosures: Use the provided fictional scenarios rather than asking students to describe real bullying incidents in front of peers.
Courage Crew Teacher Script Courage Crew • Teacher Script
Verbatim Facilitation Scripts & Dialogue Prompts (Lessons 1–5)
Word-for-Word Delivery
Delivery Tip: Use a warm, steady, and conversational tone. Read the highlighted "Say" blocks verbatim.
Lesson 1: The Bullying Radar Min 1–8
SAY: "Good morning, Crew! Have you ever seen something happen at recess and wondered: was that an accident, a normal fight, or bullying? Today we turn on our Bullying Radar. Bullying isn't just someone having a bad day. It requires all three signals: it is done on purpose, it is repeated, and there is a power gap where the target feels trapped."
ASK: "If someone accidentally bumps into you during soccer and apologizes, did our radar detect bullying? Why not?"
Lesson 2: The Bystander Freeze Min 1–8
SAY: "Raise your hand silently if you've ever seen someone being mean and felt frozen in place. That is 100% normal—scientists call it the Bystander Effect. We wait because we think someone else will act, or we're scared they'll turn on us. But here is the secret: research shows when just ONE student steps up, bullying stops in under 10 seconds!"
ASK: "What is one thought you can tell your brain to melt that freeze when you feel stuck?"
Lesson 3: The Upstander Choice Min 1–8
SAY: "A bystander stands by and watches. An upstander stands UP. But you don't need to be a superhero or get in a physical fight. You have a toolkit with 4 superpowers: Direct, Distract, Delegate, and Delay. We call them the 4 D's. Today, we're exploring which power fits your personality."
ASK: "Why do you think keeping ourselves physically safe is always rule number one?"
Lesson 4: Direct Words Min 1–8
SAY: "Power #1 is DIRECT. Watch my body: I stand tall, shoulders relaxed, and make calm eye contact. I don't yell or insult them back. I say firmly: 'That's not cool. We don't talk like that.' When you stay calm, you hold the power. Yelling starts a fight; calm words set a boundary."
CHALLENGE: "Turn to your partner right now. Stand tall, take a breath, and practice saying: 'That's not cool.'"
Lesson 5: Distract Move Min 1–8
SAY: "Power #2 is DISTRACT. Bullies love an audience. If you step in and redirect the spotlight, the mean behavior deflates. You don't even have to address the bully! Walk right up to the person targeted and say: 'Hey, come see what we found on the field!' or ask: 'What time does recess end?'"
ASK: "Why does asking a silly or unrelated question help cool down a heated moment?"
Courage Crew Curriculum • Teacher Instructional Script Page 1 of 2
Verbatim Scripts (Lessons 6–10)
Facilitation Dialogue & On-The-Spot Intervention Prompts
Lessons 6–10
Bystander Freeze Slides Courage Crew • Lesson 2
20-Minute SEL Mini-Lesson
Why Do We Freeze?
Ever see something mean happen and feel completely stuck? You are not alone. Discover the science of the Bystander Freeze.
Truth: Freezing doesn't mean you don't care. It means your brain is startled. Today, we melt the ice!
The 3 Freeze Traps
Why Bystanders Stay Silent
1. Crowd Waiting
"Everyone else is just watching, so someone else will probably fix it."
The Bystander Effect
2. Target Worry
"If I speak up, will the mean person turn around and pick on me next?"
Fear of Retaliation
3. Word Blank
"My mind went completely blank. I just didn't know what words to say."
Needing a Script
When you know these 3 traps, you can spot them in your brain and choose courage!
The 10-Second Ice Breaker
Research Power
57%
Bullying stops within 10 seconds when someone steps up.
It doesn't take an argument or a fight. It takes just ONE peer saying, "Hey, stop," or inviting the person over!
You don't have to be a superhero.
You just need one simple move.
When you move, others follow.
Group Reflection: What makes it easier to act when you're with a friend?
Courage Crew Mission #2
Next Step
Melt the Freeze
Open your Freeze Breaker Activity Sheet. Identify which trap feels most familiar to you, and write your personal courage spark!
Squad Motto: Silence helps the bully. Action helps everyone.
Freeze Breaker Activity Courage Crew • Freeze Breaker
Lesson 2 Activity: Understand Hesitation & Find Your Spark
Name:
Date:
Did You Know? When just ONE person speaks up or steps in, bullying stops within 10 seconds over 50% of the time!
Part 1: My Freeze Traps (Check which thoughts make you freeze)
Everyone feels nervous sometimes. Which of these traps is hardest for you when you witness something mean?
The Crowd Trap
"No one else is doing anything, so maybe it's not a big deal or someone else will step in."
Bystander Effect
The Target Trap
"I'm worried that if I speak up, they will turn around and start picking on me."
Fear of Retaliation
The Blank Trap
"I care deeply, but my brain freezes and I simply don't know what words or actions to use."
Need Action Tools
Part 2: My Courage Spark
When your body freezes, what is one helpful thought or courage reminder you can tell yourself to get unstuck?
Part 3: The 10-Second Courage Spark
Write one sentence describing what you will do next time you feel tempted to look away:
Courage Crew: Overcoming the freeze is a superpower we practice every day.
Lesson 2 of 10
Upstander Choice Slides Courage Crew • Lesson 3
20-Minute SEL Mini-Lesson
The Power of the Upstander
A bystander stands by and watches. An upstander stands UP and takes action to help.
Bystander
Watches silently, laughs along, or ignores the problem.
Upstander
Chooses safe, helpful ways to protect and support peers.
The 4 Upstander Powers (The 4 D's)
Your Super Toolkit
1. Direct
Use your voice
Say something calm, firm, and clear right in the moment.
"That's not cool."
2. Distract
Change focus
Interrupt the situation gently without picking a fight.
"Come sit with us!"
3. Delegate
Get adult help
Tell a teacher, coach, or adult when safety is at risk.
"Teacher, we need help."
4. Delay
Check in after
Comfort the person after it happens so they aren't alone.
"Are you okay? I'm here."
Rule #1: Your physical safety always comes first! Pick the move that is safest for you.
Safety Always Comes First!
Crucial Guideline
What Upstanders DO
Speak with a calm, steady voice
Stand with supportive friends
Find an adult right away if unsafe
Show kindness to the person targeted
What Upstanders NEVER Do
Never push, hit, or fight back
Never yell mean insults or swear
Never put yourself in physical danger
Never film or share video of bullying
Courage means doing the right thing with wisdom and care.
Courage Crew Mission #3
Next Step
Chart Your 4 Powers
Pick up your Four Powers Organizer. Match each power with the right moment and pick the one you feel most confident using today!
Squad Creed: Four ways to stand up. Always a safe choice.
Four Powers Organizer Courage Crew • The 4 Powers
Lesson 3 Graphic Organizer: Master The Four D's
Name:
Date:
Safety First Rule: Never fight or put yourself in danger. Pick the power that keeps you and others safe!
Part 1: Explore Your 4 Powers
1 DIRECT
Speak up calmly and clearly to stop the behavior right away.
"That's mean. We don't treat people like that."
2 DISTRACT
Change the subject or pull the person away safely to defuse tension.
"Hey Sam, come see this drawing over here!"
3 DELEGATE
Get help from an adult when the situation feels unsafe or serious.
"Excuse me Mr. Gomez, someone needs help at the swings."
4 DELAY
Check in after it happens to comfort the person so they aren't alone.
"I saw what happened. That wasn't fair. Are you okay?"
Part 2: Quick Match (Write: Direct, Distract, Delegate, or Delay)
1. Two older kids are pushing someone against a locker. Power:
2. A classmate is sitting alone crying after being left out at lunch. Power:
3. Someone makes a rude comment about a classmate's art project. Power:
Part 3: My Go-To Power
Which of the 4 D's feels most comfortable for you to use right now, and why?
Courage Crew: Every upstander has a choice. Every choice matters.
Lesson 3 of 10
Direct Words Slides Courage Crew • Lesson 4
Power #1: DIRECT
Speak Up With Direct Words
How to say something clear, calm, and strong right when you see unkind behavior happening.
Calm Voice
Steady, not shouting
Tall Posture
Eye contact & space
Clear Words
Short & respectful
Assertive vs. Aggressive
Key Difference
ASSERTIVE (Courage Crew)
Firm, calm, and respectful. You state the boundary without attacking the person.
"That's mean. We don't talk like that in our class."
AGGRESSIVE (Unsafe)
Yelling, name-calling, threatening, or shoving. This escalates the fight and makes things worse.
"You're terrible! Get out or I'll punch you!"
Upstander Secret: Calm words carry the most power. When you stay calm, you stay in control.
Pocket Scripts (Keep These Ready!)
Try Saying Them Aloud
Script 1: When someone says an insult
"That's not funny. That's just hurtful."
Script 2: When someone is excluded
"Anyone can play here. There's room for everyone."
Script 3: When teasing won't stop
"Leave them alone. They asked you to stop."
Script 4: Setting a group standard
"We don't do that in 4th grade. Knock it off."
Practice with a neighbor: Stand tall, look them in the eyes, and say your favorite phrase!
Courage Crew Mission #4
Next Step
Build Your Direct Script Cards
Open your Speak Up Script Cards Sheet. Write down your go-to direct phrase and practice your assertive posture with a partner!
Remember: If the person is physically aggressive or you feel unsafe, use DELEGATE instead!
Speak Up Script Cards Courage Crew • Speak Up Scripts
Lesson 4 Practice: Assertive Direct Words
Name:
Date:
The Calm Power Rule: Speak firmly without shouting. Say what you see, state the boundary, and stop.
Part 1: Assertive Posture Checklist (Practice with a Partner)
Stand Tall
Feet shoulder-width apart, shoulders back, hands at sides.
Eye Contact
Look directly at their forehead or eyes calmly.
Steady Voice
Deep breath, even pitch, no whining or yelling.
Part 2: Pocket Script Cards (Select your top 2 phrases to star ★)
Script A
"That's not cool. We don't say that."
★
Script B
"Leave them alone. They asked you to stop."
★
Script C
"That's not funny. That's just mean."
★
Script D
"Everyone gets a turn here. Step back."
★
Part 3: My Signature Direct Script
Write your own calm, assertive sentence that you feel confident speaking out loud on the playground:
Courage Crew: Direct words are peaceful words with backbone.
Lesson 4 of 10
Distract Move Slides Courage Crew • Lesson 5
Power #2: DISTRACT
Master The Distract Move
The stealthiest upstander move. Stop bullying without an argument simply by changing the focus!
The Secret: Bullies rely on having an audience. When you redirect attention, the tension disappears!
3 Ninja Distract Tactics
Low Risk • High Impact
1. The Invite-Away
Walk up to the target and invite them to come do something else with you immediately.
"Hey Alex, come help me on the swings!"
2. The Off-Topic Question
Interrupt with an urgent or funny question that breaks the mean mood instantly.
"Does anyone know what time lunch ends?"
3. The Accidental Drop
"Oops! I dropped my pencil box!" or walk right between them to deliver a paper.
Creates a peaceful pause
You don't even have to talk to the person being mean! Focus 100% on the target.
See It in Action: Hallway Locker Case
Playground Test
Situation: A student is being surrounded by two classmates who are laughing at their backpack.
Bystander Reaction
Freezes, looks down at shoes, or snickers nervously. Bullying continues.
Distract Move (Upstander)
Walks up with a smile: "Hey Jamie! Mr. Davis asked if we could bring in the basketballs. Come with me!"
Result: Jamie is freed safely, the circle breaks apart, and no fight starts!
Turn to a neighbor: What's your go-to excuse to invite someone away?
Courage Crew Mission #5
Next Step
Build Your Distraction Playbook
Pick up your Distraction Playbook Card. Brainstorm 3 realistic questions and invitations you can use anywhere at school!
Courage Law: You don't need to fight to win. You just need to change the story!
Distraction Playbook Sheet Courage Crew • Distraction Playbook
Lesson 5 Practice: The Art of Safe Redirection
Name:
Date:
Why Distraction Works: It redirects the social energy away from the bully without creating a confrontation.
Part 1: Favorite Playbook Moves
Move 1: The Invite
Step up with an enthusiastic smile and invite the target to join you elsewhere right now.
"Hey! Can you come check out this awesome bug with me?"
Move 2: The Question
Interrupt with a completely unrelated question to break the circle's negative focus.
"Wait, does anyone know where the library line is forming?"
Move 3: The Drop
Gently cause a harmless interruption like dropping a folder or asking to borrow an eraser.
"Oops, sorry! Did anyone see my blue marker cap?"
Part 2: Create Your Own Distraction Plays
Play 1: Write an invitation you could use to safely invite a classmate away at recess:
Play 2: Write an off-topic question you could ask in the cafeteria or hallway to change the subject:
✓ Partner Challenge: Practice saying your distraction line with a neighbor. Did you speak with friendly energy?
Courage Crew: A clever distraction can be a superpower for kindness.
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Delegate Help Slides Courage Crew • Lesson 6
Power #3: DELEGATE
Call In Reinforcements: Delegate!
You never have to handle bullying alone. Learn how and when to get trusted adults involved quickly.
Big Idea: Asking for adult help isn't giving up. It is the smartest, safest move you can make!
Tattling vs. Reporting
Know the Difference
TATTLING
Telling to get someone IN TROUBLE.
• Nobody is hurt or unsafe
• Can be solved by kids directly
• Often done to see someone get disciplined
"Teacher, Caleb took the blue crayon first!"
REPORTING
Telling to keep someone SAFE.
• Someone is hurt, scared, or in danger
• Repeated mean behavior won't stop
• Done to protect peers and restore safety
"Teacher, two students are blocking the bathroom door."
Courage Creed: Reporting is ALWAYS the right choice when someone is hurting.
The 3-Step Reporting Formula
Clear Communication
1
Who & Where
Tell the adult exactly who needs help and where it is happening right now.
2
What Happened
State just the facts calmly without exaggerating or gossiping.
3
Ask for Action
Ask: "Can you please check on them?" or "Can you help them right now?"
Example: "Ms. Patel, Alex is crying near the swings because older kids took his jacket. Can you please come look?"
Courage Crew Mission #6
Next Step
Map Your Safety Shield
Open your Safety Shield Map. Identify at least 3 trusted adults across your school you can delegate to whenever needed!
Shield Motto: Trusted adults are on our side. Reporting protects our school community.
Safety Shield Map Courage Crew • Safety Shield Map
Lesson 6 Practice: The Delegate Strategy & Trusted Adults
Name:
Date:
Reporting Rule: Tattling is to get someone in trouble. Reporting is to keep someone safe!
Part 1: Tattle or Report? (Circle T or R)
1. "Devon didn't put his scissors back in the blue bin!" [ T / R ]
2. "Two students are pushing someone behind the gym wall and threatening them." [ T / R ]
3. "Someone keeps sending cruel text messages to my friend after school." [ T / R ]
Part 2: My 3 Trusted Adults at School
1 In My Classroom
Adult's Name:
Role / Room:
2 On the Playground/Lunch
Adult's Name:
Role / Zone:
3 Anywhere on Campus
Adult's Name:
Role / Office:
Part 3: Write Your Reporting Message
Imagine you saw a peer being pushed repeatedly by older students. Complete the reporting message you would say to an adult:
Courage Crew: Reporting takes bravery. You help make our school safe for everyone.
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Delay Support Slides Courage Crew • Lesson 7
Power #4: DELAY
Healing Words: Delay & Comfort
What you do AFTER an incident happens can heal a hurt heart. Learn the art of emotional first aid.
Heart Truth: Even if you couldn't stop the moment right then, checking in later tells the person: "You matter, and you are not alone."
The 3 Steps of Emotional First Aid
Simple Caring Moves
1. Check In
Walk over quietly when the crowd clears. Ask simply: "Are you okay?"
Notice their feelings
2. Listen & Validate
Let them speak without interrupting. Say: "That wasn't fair. I'm sorry that happened."
Confirm it wasn't their fault
3. Include & Connect
Offer an invitation: "Do you want to walk to class together or sit by me at lunch?"
Rebuild social connection
You don't need a speech. A 30-second quiet check-in can turn someone's entire day around!
Supportive Words vs. Hurtful Words
Empathy Guide
WORDS THAT HEAL
• "That was wrong of them to do."
• "I'm really glad you're in my class."
• "Do you want me to walk with you to tell a teacher?"
• "You don't have to talk, but I can sit with you."
WORDS TO AVOID
• "Just ignore it, it's not a big deal."
• "Why didn't you just punch them?"
• "You're crying over that?"
• "Maybe you shouldn't have worn that shirt."
Never blame the target. Always let them know they are supported and safe with you.
Courage Crew Mission #7
Next Step
Write Your Kindness Care Notes
Pick up your Kindness Care Notes Sheet. Design two pocket encouragement cards that you could give to anyone who has had a rough moment!
Empathy Law: Kindness after the storm helps the sunshine return.
Kindness Care Notes Courage Crew • Kindness Care Notes
Lesson 7 Practice: Emotional First Aid & Delay Support
Name:
Date:
The Delay Superpower: Checking in after someone was hurt shows them they are valued and not alone.
Part 1: Empathy Word Bank (Ideas for Your Notes)
Validation:
"I'm sorry that happened to you. That wasn't fair."
Affirmation:
"You are an awesome classmate and friend."
Invitation:
"Want to sit together at lunch or draw together?"
Part 2: Write Two Care Cards (Ready to share or save)
Care Card #1: The Quick Check-In To: ____________________
From your Courage Crew friend: ____________________
Care Card #2: The Uplifting Cheer To: ____________________
From your Courage Crew friend: ____________________
Courage Crew: A small note of kindness can save someone's day.
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Cyber Shield Slides Courage Crew • Lesson 8
Digital Upstander
Activate Your Cyber Shield
Bullying doesn't just happen at recess. Learn how to be a courageous upstander in group chats, video games, and online apps.
Screen Truth: Words typed behind a screen hurt just as much as words spoken in person. What you post and share matters!
Spotting Cyberbullying Online
Digital Clues
1. Mean Comments
Posting cruel remarks, mocking gamer tags, or sending hurtful emojis in group chats.
Flaming & Teasing
2. Digital Exclusion
Purposely kicking a classmate out of a game party or group text to make them feel isolated.
Online Outcasting
3. Spreading Screenshots
Forwarding embarrassing photos, videos, or messages without permission.
Digital Gossip
If you receive hurtful media: Never forward or like it! Forwarding makes you part of the problem.
The Cyber Upstander Rules
Action Steps
1. Save Proof
Take a screenshot or keep the message so you have evidence for a trusted adult.
2. Reply or DM
Type a direct line in the chat: "Not cool, let's keep it kind," or send a private kind message.
3. Show an Adult
Show your parents, guardian, or teacher. Adults can block accounts and help keep everyone safe.
Golden Digital Rule: Don't type anything online you wouldn't say to their face in front of your teacher!
Courage Crew Mission #8
Next Step
Your Digital Ally Checklist
Pick up your Digital Ally Checklist Sheet. Read the group chat scenario and practice how you would respond with upstander power!
Online Creed: Courage travels across every screen and every chat.
Digital Ally Checklist Courage Crew • Digital Ally Checklist
Lesson 8 Practice: Stand Up Online & In Chats
Name:
Date:
The Digital Code: Never forward, like, or comment on hurtful posts. Stand up or screenshot and tell an adult!
Part 1: The Cyber Shield Checklist (Check all that apply)
Don't Feed the Flame
I will not like, laugh at, or forward mean messages or pictures.
Save the Proof
I know how to take a screenshot before deleting or leaving a chat.
Speak Up in the Thread
I will post a clear boundary: "Let's keep this chat friendly."
Private Heart Message
I will send a kind private message to the person who was targeted.
Part 2: Case Study (Video Game Chat)
Player_Max: "Hey everyone, ready to build our fortress?"
Gamer_X: "Don't let Lucas join. He's totally terrible at this game and ruins everything."
Player_Z: "Yeah haha kick Lucas out of the lobby!"
Part 3: What Would You Type?
Choose one: Write what you would type in the public chat to shut down the teasing, OR write a private message you would send Lucas:
Courage Crew: Digital kindness makes the online world safer for everyone.
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Courage Action Slides Courage Crew • Lesson 9
Scenario Challenge Arena
Courage In Action!
Time to put all four upstander powers together. Test your decision-making in real-world school simulations!
Direct
Speak Up
Distract
Redirect
Delegate
Get Help
Delay
Comfort
Arena Practice Ground Rules
Keep It Safe
1. Practice, Not Real
Remember we are practicing acting skills. No real insults, name-calling, or physical touching allowed!
2. Freeze Word
Anyone can call "FREEZE" at any moment to pause the scene, breathe, and reset if it feels uncomfortable.
3. Cheer the Courage
Applaud teammates for trying out new strategies and speaking with calm, assertive confidence.
Great practice creates real courage when it matters most!
The 5-Second Decision Check
Decision Guide
Ask: Is it safe for me?
If someone is physically pushing, hitting, or threatening violence:
➔ Choose DELEGATE immediately!
Ask: Can I defuse it?
If it is verbal teasing or an unfair exclusion:
➔ Choose DIRECT, DISTRACT, or DELAY!
Every situation is different. Trust your gut and put safety first!
Courage Crew Mission #9
Next Step
Scenario Roleplay Challenge
Team up in pairs or trios with your Scenario Roleplay Cards. Choose a card, pick your upstander power, and act out the solution!
Squad Motto: Practice builds confidence. Confidence builds change.
Scenario Roleplay Cards Courage Crew • Scenario Cards
Lesson 9 Practice: Upstander Action Arena
Name:
Date:
Your 4 Options: • Direct (Speak) • Distract (Redirect) • Delegate (Adult) • Delay (Comfort)
Scenario A: Recess Four-Square
During four-square, two players keep yelling "Out!" at Elena every single round, even when the ball clearly bounced in. She looks close to tears and steps back.
Best Power Choice:
[ ] Direct [ ] Distract [ ] Delegate [ ] Delay
What would you say or do?
Scenario B: School Bus Seat Block
A 3rd grader walks down the crowded bus aisle looking for an open seat. A student puts their heavy backpack on the empty seat and snaps, "Saved! You can't sit here."
Best Power Choice:
[ ] Direct [ ] Distract [ ] Delegate [ ] Delay
What would you say or do?
Scenario C: Cafeteria Lunch Table
Marcus sits down with a traditional lunch his grandmother packed. Two students at the next table pinch their noses, point, and make gagging noises loudly.
Best Power Choice:
[ ] Direct [ ] Distract [ ] Delegate [ ] Delay
What would you say or do?
Scenario D: Hallway Lockers
Near the water fountain, a bigger student has pinned someone's jacket against the wall and says, "Give me your mechanical pencil or I'll trip you on the stairs."
Best Power Choice:
[ ] Direct [ ] Distract [ ] Delegate [ ] Delay
What would you say or do?
Role-Play Partner Signature:
We practiced at least 2 scenarios safely!
Courage Crew: Real courage happens when we act with safety and heart.
Lesson 9 of 10
Upstander Oath Slides Courage Crew • Lesson 10
Grand Finale & Oath
The Official Upstander Oath
You've mastered the radar, broken the freeze, and unlocked the 4 Powers. Today, you officially join the Courage Crew!
10
SEL Lessons
4
Super Powers
100%
Class Allies
1
Safe School
Our Upstander Arsenal
Always In Your Pocket
DIRECT
"That's not cool. Leave them alone." Speak calm, clear boundary words.
DISTRACT
"Come sit with us!" Shift the spotlight and interrupt the mean moment safely.
DELEGATE
"Teacher, we need help over here." Report to a trusted adult to keep everyone safe.
DELAY
"Are you okay? I'm with you." Comfort and include the person afterward.
Pick the tool that matches the moment and keeps you safe.
The Courage Crew Oath
Recite Together
Raise Your Right Hand
"I promise to keep my radar tuned for unfair treatment."
"I promise not to freeze or laugh when someone is hurt."
"I promise to speak up, redirect, report, or reach out with kindness."
"Together, we are the Courage Crew!"
Give two teammates near you a high-five or fist bump!
Your Official Certificate
Final Honor
Sign Your Upstander Certificate
Complete your Courage Crew Certificate. Sign your name, write your personal commitment shield, and proudly take it home!
Forever Rule: Once an Upstander, always an Upstander!
Courage Crew Certificate Official Recognition
Courage Crew Certificate
This certifies that the student named below has successfully completed all 10 scaffolded Upstander Training Lessons.
Awarded With Pride To:
Student Name
DIRECT
Calm words
DISTRACT
Safe redirect
DELEGATE
Adult help
DELAY
Heart comfort
The Upstander Pledge
"I pledge to keep my social radar sharp, break the freeze when someone needs help, and choose safe, kind upstander actions. I will stand up for classmates and help make our school a welcoming community."
My Personal Upstander Goal for This Year:
Student Signature & Date
Teacher / Principal Signature