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Courage Crew

A comprehensive 10-lesson scaffolded SEL curriculum for 3rd and 4th grade students focused on bullying prevention, empathy, and upstander skills. Through 20-minute daily sessions, students learn to recognize bullying, overcome bystander hesitation, and apply four actionable intervention strategies. The sequence culminates in real-world scenario practice and a classroom community upstander pledge.

NCNadine Cenord
The Bullying Radar

Students discover how to distinguish between peer conflict, accidental mean moments, and repetitive bullying behavior. They explore the three core markers of bullying: imbalance of power, intent, and repetition. By tuning their social awareness radar, students learn to recognize when peers need help.

The Bystander Freeze

Students investigate why witnesses often freeze or stay silent when they notice unfair treatment. They explore the bystander effect, fear of embarrassment, and the worry of becoming a target. Normalizing these natural hesitations empowers students to understand how small acts of courage break the silence.

The Upstander Choice

Students contrast the passive bystander role with the proactive upstander identity. They are introduced to the Four Ds framework: Direct, Distract, Delegate, and Delay as practical safety-first options. Learners assess how choosing even one action transforms school culture.

Direct Words

Students master the Direct intervention strategy by using clear, calm, and assertive verbal boundary statements. They practice standing tall, keeping an even tone, and setting firm peer limits safely. Role-play guidelines ensure students protect their own physical safety while setting boundaries.

Distract Move

Students practice the Distract strategy to interrupt bullying without confronting the aggressor directly. They discover creative ways to redirect group attention, invite the target into another activity, or change the topic. This low-risk method gives students immediate confidence to intervene peacefully.

Delegate Help

Students analyze the Delegate strategy by mapping trusted adults who can provide support at school and at home. They unpack the crucial difference between tattling to get someone in trouble versus reporting to keep someone safe. Practical communication scripts help students ask adults for assistance clearly.

Delay Support

Students focus on the Delay strategy by learning how to comfort and check in with peers after an unkind incident occurs. They explore the healing power of being present, actively listening, and extending genuine inclusion. Hands-on exercises help students craft supportive check-in messages.

Cyber Shield

Students translate upstander values to digital devices, group chats, gaming, and online school apps. They identify online bullying signs such as nasty comments, exclusion from digital rooms, or unwanted sharing. Safe action steps teach students to screenshot, pause, report, and support online peers.

Courage In Action

Students test their skills in simulated scenario challenges spanning the playground, cafeteria, bus, and hallways. Working in teams, they choose between Direct, Distract, Delegate, and Delay based on safety and context. Structured debriefs build reflective confidence and collective allyship.

The Upstander Oath

Students celebrate their growth across the unit and synthesize their commitments into a shared Upstander Oath. They design personal courage shields and sign a classroom community agreement. The lesson establishes ongoing routines to sustain an upstander culture all year long.

Courage Crew

A comprehensive 10-lesson scaffolded SEL curriculum for 3rd and 4th grade students focused on bullying prevention, empathy, and upstander skills. Through 20-minute daily sessions, students learn to recognize bullying, overcome bystander hesitation, and apply four actionable intervention strategies. The sequence culminates in real-world scenario practice and a classroom community upstander pledge.

NCNadine Cenord
  • Maintain an anonymous Courage Box: Keep a secure question box in your room where students can submit worries or requests for check-ins privately.
  • Safety precedes bravery: Emphasize daily that physical intervention or fighting back is prohibited; students must always prioritize self-protection.
  • Courage Crew Curriculum • Teacher Facilitation Guide Page 1 of 2

    Facilitation Coaching & Support

    Teacher Scripts, Differentiation & Escalation Procedures

    Grades 3–4 SEL Standards

    Turnkey Facilitation Scripts for Challenging Moments

    When a student says: "Snitches get stitches"

    "We hear that in movies, but in our classroom, keeping peers safe is our highest honor. Telling to protect someone from hurt is courageous reporting, not tattling."

    When a student says: "I'm too scared to say anything"

    "That feeling is completely normal! That is why we have 4 D's. You don't have to speak directly; you can secretly get a teacher (Delegate) or comfort them at lunch (Delay)."

    When a student says: "They were just playing"

    "Teasing is only playful when EVERYONE is smiling and having fun. As soon as one person is sad, uncomfortable, or asking to stop, the game is over."

    When students laugh during role-play practice

    "Laughter often comes from nervous energy. Let's pause, take one deep breath, reset our scene, and treat our actors with respect."

    Differentiation & Accessibility Strategies

    For 3rd Grade / Emerging Writers

    • • Pair with reading buddies for scenario worksheets.
    • • Allow students to draw facial expressions or comic bubbles in reflection boxes.
    • • Focus heavily on simple physical scripts: "Stop, that's not cool."

    For 4th Grade / Advanced Learners

    • • Appoint students as Peer Mediators or Playground Ambassadors.
    • • Have them script multi-step responses combining Distract + Delegate.
    • • Challenge them to analyze subtle digital exclusion in gaming lobbies.

    ELL & Neurodivergent Students

    • • Display visual icon cue cards for the 4 D's in your classroom permanently.
    • • Practice hand gestures for Direct (palm forward), Distract (point away).
    • • Offer non-verbal reporting options (sticky notes, gesture codes).

    Mandatory Incident Escalation Protocol

    If a student makes an active disclosure of severe bullying, physical harm, self-harm ideation, or cyber harassment during any Courage Crew lesson:

    1. Acknowledge & Protect "Thank you for being brave and telling me. You are safe now."

    2. Document Objective Facts Record dates, names, locations, and direct quotes immediately.

    3. Notify Support Team Contact School Counselor, Admin, and follow district reporting policies.

    Courage Crew Curriculum • Teacher Facilitation Guide Page 2 of 2

    Lesson 6: Delegate Help Min 1–8

    SAY: "Power #3 is DELEGATE. Some kids worry that telling an adult is tattling. Let's make this crystal clear: Tattling is telling to get someone in trouble over something minor. Reporting is telling to keep someone safe when they are being harmed. If someone is hurting or scared, reporting is your courageous duty."

    MODEL: "'Ms. Smith, someone is blocking the water fountain and pushing people. Can you please come look?'"

    Lesson 7: Delay Support Min 1–8

    SAY: "Power #4 is DELAY. Sometimes you can't step in safely right when it happens. But what you do afterward is just as powerful. We call it emotional first aid. Walking up after the crowd leaves and saying: 'I'm sorry that happened. That was wrong. Want to sit with me?' can save someone from feeling totally alone."

    KEY RULE: "Never tell them to 'just ignore it.' Validate their feelings and offer your companionship."

    Lesson 8: Cyber Shield Min 1–8

    SAY: "Today we take our courage digital. When someone is being roasted or excluded in a group chat or video game, silence is like clapping. Upstanders use the 3-step Cyber Shield: Screenshot the proof, don't forward or like the cruelty, and tell an adult or post: 'Let's keep this chat kind.'"

    ASK: "Why do you think people sometimes type mean things online that they wouldn't say to someone's face?"

    Lesson 9: Scenario Arena Min 1–8

    SAY: "Today is our Scenario Challenge! Remember: we are practicing acting skills to build muscle memory. If anyone feels uncomfortable, call 'FREEZE' and we reset. Choose whether you'll Direct, Distract, Delegate, or Delay!"

    Lesson 10: The Oath Min 1–8

    SAY: "Look at how far we have come! You now know how to spot bullying, break the freeze, and stand up with wisdom. Raise your right hands together as we recite our classroom Upstander Oath and receive your certificates!"

    Quick Hallway & Playground Reinforcement Prompts

    When witnessing bystander hesitation: "Courage Crew, what power can we use right now to help our friend?"

    When praising an upstander in real time: "I noticed how you used Distract at the lunch table. That took true leadership!"

    Courage Crew Curriculum • Teacher Instructional Script Page 2 of 2

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