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How to Stop A Bully

How to Stop A Bully

In this engaging and practical presentation, youth speaker Brooks Gibbs explains the sociology behind bullying, reframing it not as random meanness, but as 'dominance behavior' driven by a desire for power. He illustrates that bullying is a game of winners and losers: the bully wins when the victim gets upset, and the victim wins when they remain calm and resilient. Gibbs argues that teaching students to develop 'thick skin' and emotional resilience is more effective than merely telling bullies to stop. The video features a clear distinction between verbal bullying (hurting feelings) and physical violence (crimes like assault), emphasizing that crimes require adult intervention while social insults can often be handled by the students themselves. Gibbs posits that empowering students to solve their own social problems is the key to building genuine self-esteem, self-confidence, and self-worth. To demonstrate his method, Gibbs invites a student on stage for a role-play exercise. Through a humorous and memorable demonstration, he shows exactly how reacting with anger fuels the bully, while reacting with kindness, agreement, or indifference shuts the bullying down instantly. This video provides teachers with a concrete, actionable strategy for Social Emotional Learning (SEL) and conflict resolution units.

7mins 5s

are you okay? | Award-Winning Short Film

are you okay? | Award-Winning Short Film

This poignant animated short film explores the suffocating impact of cyberbullying through the eyes of two students, Raquelle and Noah. The narrative follows Raquelle, a quiet artist who witnesses Noah being bullied both physically and online. When she attempts to help by reporting the incident to a school counselor, the system fails her; her anonymity is compromised, and she becomes the new target of harassment, labeled "Rat-quelle." The film utilizes a powerful visual metaphor—a heavy, purple sludge—to represent the lingering emotional weight of shame and abuse that clings to the victims, isolating them from their peers and families. Key themes include the failure of adult support systems, the reality of digital harassment, and the healing power of empathy. The story critically examines well-meaning but ineffective adult advice, such as a father telling his daughter to "just block them" or a counselor claiming they cannot "police the internet." It highlights the disconnect between the adult perception of online bullying and the visceral, 24/7 reality experienced by students. The narrative arc moves from isolation to connection, demonstrating how shared vulnerability can bridge the gap between victims. For educators, this video is a vital tool for Social-Emotional Learning (SEL) and digital citizenship curricula. It moves beyond generic "don't bully" messaging to address the nuance of bystander intervention and the emotional aftermath of harassment. The visual metaphor of the sludge provides a concrete language for students to articulate feelings of depression and anxiety. It is particularly useful for sparking discussions about how to genuinely support friends, the limitations of current anti-bullying policies, and the profound difference a simple check-in like "Are you okay?" can make.

Fight Child Abuse

8mins 46s

Emotional Intelligence

Emotional Intelligence

This animated video provides a clear and accessible introduction to the concept of Emotional Intelligence (EI or EQ), based on the model developed by psychologists John Mayer and Peter Salovey. It breaks down EI into four distinct skills: perceiving emotions, using emotions, understanding emotions, and managing emotions. Through simple yet effective illustrations, the video explains how these skills function individually and collectively to help individuals navigate social interactions and personal feelings. Key themes include self-awareness, empathy, emotional regulation, and the connection between emotional intelligence and academic or professional success. The video emphasizes that while some people are naturally gifted with these skills, EI is something that can be improved and developed over time through mindfulness, education, and practice. It frames emotions not as obstacles but as data points that can be used for better decision-making. For educators, this video is a valuable tool for Social Emotional Learning (SEL) curriculums. It provides a shared vocabulary for students to discuss their feelings and offers a scientific framework for why emotions matter in learning and life. The video is short enough to serve as a perfect hook for lessons on conflict resolution, stress management, or interpersonal communication skills.

3mins 24s

You Don't Find Happiness, You Create It | Katarina Blom | TEDxGöteborg

You Don't Find Happiness, You Create It | Katarina Blom | TEDxGöteborg

In this engaging TEDx talk, psychologist Katarina Blom challenges the common misconception that happiness is something we stumble upon, instead arguing that it is a skill we must actively practice. Drawing on neuroscience and psychology, she explains why the human brain is evolutionarily wired for negativity—prioritizing survival over happiness—and how this "negativity bias" impacts our daily lives and relationships. Blom explores the science behind our thoughts and emotions, revealing that positive thinking alone is insufficient because our minds naturally wander and focus on threats. Instead, she advocates for "positive action"—concrete behavioral changes that rewire our brains for well-being. She emphasizes that we are socially driven creatures and that strengthening our relationships is the most powerful "psychological smoothie" for long-term happiness. For educators, this video is a powerful tool for teaching Social Emotional Learning (SEL) concepts. It provides a scientific basis for gratitude, kindness, and relationship-building. The content is practical and relatable, offering students tangible strategies to manage anxiety, build resilience, and cultivate a supportive community within the classroom.

15mins 33s

RSA Short | Vivek Murthy on Loneliness and the Power of Connection

RSA Short | Vivek Murthy on Loneliness and the Power of Connection

This animated video features former U.S. Surgeon General Vivek Murthy explaining the biological and evolutionary roots of loneliness. He reframes loneliness not as a character flaw or a sign of being broken, but as a natural biological signal—like hunger or thirst—alerting us that we lack necessary social connection. The narrative explores how our ancestors relied on community for safety and survival, and how modern loneliness can create a negative feedback loop that damages self-esteem and makes reconnection difficult. The video delves into the insidious nature of chronic loneliness, illustrating how it often manifests in unexpected ways such as anger, irritability, or withdrawal rather than just sadness. Murthy argues that recognizing these alternative expressions of loneliness can help us respond to others with compassion instead of judgment. By understanding that loneliness is a common human experience, we can break the cycle of shame often associated with it. For educators, this resource provides a powerful tool for social-emotional learning (SEL). It offers a vocabulary for students to discuss feelings of isolation and provides actionable advice on how to help others: simply showing up and listening with full attention. The video's message emphasizes that listening validates another person's worth, making it an excellent starting point for lessons on empathy, active listening, community building, and mental health awareness.

3mins 49s

How we can overcome stigma

How we can overcome stigma

This educational video outlines seven actionable strategies for combating the stigma surrounding mental illness, emphasizing both personal responsibility and community action. The content moves from broad societal goals like scientific research to specific interpersonal behaviors, such as careful language choice and compassionate listening. It provides a structured framework for understanding how individual actions contribute to a larger cultural shift in how mental health is perceived and treated. The video explores key themes including the power of language (person-first language), the importance of open dialogue, the normalization of mental health care as equal to physical health care, and the role of social media in advocacy. It directly addresses misconceptions that link mental illness to moral failings or character flaws, reinforcing the scientific basis of these conditions. The narrative promotes empathy, suggesting that small, consistent actions like checking in on friends can create significant positive change. For educators, this resource is a valuable tool for social-emotional learning (SEL) and health curricula. It serves as an excellent prompt for discussions about empathy, communication skills, and destigmatization. Teachers can use the video to launch projects about mental health awareness, role-play supportive conversations, or analyze media representations of mental illness. Its clear, numbered structure makes it easy for students to take notes and recall specific action items.

Brain Health Bootcamp

5mins 16s

Materials

Survival Quest Final Log Form Trimmed

Survival Quest Final Log Form Trimmed

Final one-page Survival Quest parent feedback form. Optimized with a constrained 820px height and tightened vertical spacing to guarantee it fits on a single printed page while maintaining readable font sizes for the interview and reflection questions.

Pam Muise

Blast Off Sticker Chart Printable

Blast Off Sticker Chart Printable

A high-contrast, print-optimized version of the Blast Off Sticker Chart. The grid background is now a neutral, very light slate wash, ensuring the pure white 1-inch sticker spots and their bold indigo-600 dashed outlines are extremely easy to see and use.

Shani Whilby

Morning Diner Menu Cover

Morning Diner Menu Cover

A retro diner-themed cover page for student folders or binders with an extra-large red neon signboard and a kid-friendly, rounded font style. The "Best Day Ever!" sticker has been relocated to the top-right corner of the Guest Check (positioned inside its border to avoid clipping) to avoid overlapping the marquee signboard.

Genevieve Wharton

Conscious Discipline Monthly Guides

Conscious Discipline Monthly Guides

A professional, highly encouraging 9-page planner packet of monthly classroom support guides for elementary educators. Designed with the Classroom Discussion Bank as the dominant visual focal point on each page, featuring a dedicated list of highly engaging questions for grades 4–6 without subcategories, set to be utilized during homeroom time. Features 4 quick activity options (Connect, Calm, Commit, Celebrate) on each page. Optimized to fit perfectly on standard printable pages with zero layout overflow, with custom Kitley Counseling branding in the footer.

Heather.Koke

Chat Catalyst Cards

Chat Catalyst Cards

A set of printable conversation starter cards designed for students to break the ice and build new friendships. The cards feature varied prompts across categories like favorites, adventures, school life, and imagination.

Melissa Premo

Friendship Fix-It Exit Ticket Compact

Friendship Fix-It Exit Ticket Compact

A ultra-compact version of the Friendship Fix-It Exit Ticket, specifically designed to fit comfortably on a single 8.5x11 page when printed. All elements have been scaled down for maximum space efficiency while remaining clear and easy for a 3rd grader to complete.

Emily Condon

Session Snapshot Notes Expanded Fixed Final v1

Session Snapshot Notes Expanded Fixed Final v1

A comprehensive two-page session note-taking template for counselors. Page one tracks observation data like mood, day ratings, and behavior hurdles, while page two provides extensive space for clinical narrative, session synthesis, and planning. Strict page containment prevents messy overlap between printed pages.

gwadsworth

Growth Map Reflection Sheet

Growth Map Reflection Sheet

A comprehensive mid-year reflection worksheet for 5th graders, covering academic growth, social interactions, mindset, and goal-setting with both open-ended questions and rating scales. Now includes a Subject Spotlight for core subjects. Now expanded to a two-page layout for more reflection space.

mfraser

Shared Commitments Poster

Shared Commitments Poster

A professional and calming 11x17 office poster for a high school social worker, featuring shared commitments for respect, safety, and personal growth.

Tonya Hinke

Kindness Quest Bingo Card

Kindness Quest Bingo Card

A colorful 5x5 kindness bingo card designed for PK-5 students, featuring 24 actionable acts of kindness and a central free space. It includes engaging icons and clear instructions to encourage positive social interactions.

Michelle Grady

Blended Families Navigator Guide

Blended Families Navigator Guide

A single-page, highly visual infographic and roadmap guide designed to accompany the 'Navigating the Waters of Blended Families' presentation. It features key statistics, core challenges and benefits, and detailed actionable steps for the 3 pillars of blended family success (Communication, Bonding, and Identity), beautifully formatted for families and practitioners.

Michaela Gagne

Cultural Autobiography Slides

Cultural Autobiography Slides

Lengthened the blank bubble on the title slide to w-[600px] to accommodate long URL placements, while keeping it entirely free of text and symbols. All other slide content, including references and citations, remains intact.

Emma Storm