You Don't Find Happiness, You Create It | Katarina Blom | TEDxGöteborg

TEDx Talks

In this engaging TEDx talk, psychologist Katarina Blom challenges the common misconception that happiness is something we stumble upon, instead arguing that it is a skill we must actively practice. Drawing on neuroscience and psychology, she explains why the human brain is evolutionarily wired for negativity—prioritizing survival over happiness—and how this "negativity bias" impacts our daily lives and relationships. Blom explores the science behind our thoughts and emotions, revealing that positive thinking alone is insufficient because our minds naturally wander and focus on threats. Instead, she advocates for "positive action"—concrete behavioral changes that rewire our brains for well-being. She emphasizes that we are socially driven creatures and that strengthening our relationships is the most powerful "psychological smoothie" for long-term happiness. For educators, this video is a powerful tool for teaching Social Emotional Learning (SEL) concepts. It provides a scientific basis for gratitude, kindness, and relationship-building. The content is practical and relatable, offering students tangible strategies to manage anxiety, build resilience, and cultivate a supportive community within the classroom.