Social Detectives Scenario Worksheet
Social Detectives Case Files
Investigate everyday school situations and choose the kindest, smartest path!
Detective:
Date:
Clue Kit:
Talk & Listen: Use "I feel..." & wait for your turn.
Cool Down: Take 3 deep breaths before reacting.
Fix It: Trade, take turns, or ask an adult.
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Skill 1: Clear & Respectful Communication
Read and circle the best response.
CASE #1
During science partners, Maya keeps talking and will not let Leo share his idea for the solar system poster. Leo feels frustrated and unheard.
What is the most respectful way for Leo to respond?
A. Shout over Maya loudly so she has to stop talking.
B. Wait for a brief pause, then say: "Maya, I like your idea. May I share mine now too?"
C. Cross his arms, put his head down, and refuse to help with the poster.
CASE #2
Julian needs the teal colored pencil to finish his map, but Sam is currently using it. Julian feels rushed because art time is almost over.
Write what Julian could say to express his need politely:
"Excuse me, Sam,
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Skill 2: Managing Big Emotions & Frustration
CASE #3
At indoor recess, Chloe's tall block tower is accidentally knocked over by a classmate who bumped the table. Chloe's heart starts racing and she feels furious.
Step 1: Calm Down
What should Chloe do first before saying or doing anything?
Step 2: Safe Action
What words or action can Chloe choose next?
Think before you react: Words have superpower effects! Page 1 of 2
Social Detectives • Field Missions
Solving playground puzzles & knowing when to call backup.
Mission Part II
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Skill 3: Peaceful Problem-Solving & Getting Help
CASE #4
At recess, Liam and Marcus both sprint to the last open tire swing. Both claim they touched it first and start pulling on the rope angrily.
What is a fair compromise Liam and Marcus could make?
Detective Ideas: • Count pushes (50 each) • Rock-Paper-Scissors • Swing together if safe
CASE #5
During hallway transition, David sees an older student repeatedly blocking a first grader from getting to their line and teasing them until they cry.
Should David handle this completely by himself or find a trusted adult?
A. Ignore it because it does not involve him.
B. Push the older student to teach them a lesson.
C. Tell a teacher or duty monitor immediately because someone is feeling unsafe or hurt.
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Detective Challenge: My Action Plan
Think of a time this week when you felt angry, left out, or had a disagreement. How will you use your Detective Skills next time?
If I feel upset, I will:
Instead of yelling, I can say:
A trusted adult I can ask is:
Detective Oath & Self-Check
Check each skill you are ready to use today!
Listen First Calm Breaths Fair Solutions
Case Closed: Great social skills build great friendships! Page 2 of 2