Make Amends Graphic Organizer
Social-Emotional Learning • Grade 3
Make Amends Graphic Organizer
Step-by-Step Planner
Name:
Date:
This is for:
Remember: A true apology has no excuses! Avoid saying "I'm sorry, but..." and focus on taking responsibility.
1
Own It • What Happened?
Stem: "I am sorry for..." or "I made a mistake when I..."
Be honest and name your specific action without blaming anyone else.
2
Empathy • How Did It Affect Them?
Stem: "I realize this made you feel..."
Put yourself in their shoes:
hurt sad left out embarrassed frustrated
3
Change It • What Will You Do Next Time?
Stem: "Next time, I will..."
What better choice will you make if you are upset, tired, or in this situation again?
4
Make It Right • How Can You Rebuild Trust?
Stem: "To make things right, I can..."
Ways to help:
fix/replace item invite them to play give space help clean up
Ready? Turn to Page 2 to combine your 4 steps into a finished apology note!
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Putting It Together
My Heartfelt Apology Note
Final Letter & Checklist
Use your plan from Page 1 to write your full apology note neatly on the lines below. 4 Sentences Total
Sincere
Dear ,
1. Own It
2. Empathy
3. Next Time
4. Make It Right
Sincerely,
Your Signature
Apology Check-Up
Own It: I said what I did without saying "but" or making excuses.
Empathy: I thought about how the other person felt.
Change: I promised a better choice for next time.
Make It Right: I offered a way to fix things or rebuild trust.
Delivery Plan
Read it aloud privately
Hand deliver the folded note
Ask a teacher to help us talk
Remember: They might need time before they are ready to talk. That's okay!
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