Words That Lift Lesson Plan Words That Lift
Foundational SEL Lesson
Audience
7th Grade
Duration
30 Minutes
Learning Objective
Students will learn why kind language matters and practice replacing put-downs with positive words to promote empathy and a respectful classroom environment.
The "Why"
Cultivating kind communication reduces bullying, builds empathy, and creates a supportive environment where every student feels valued and safe to participate.
Preparation
Print Brainstorm Sheets
Cut Role-Play Cards
Print Reflection Worksheets
Post Kindness Pledge
Gather markers/pens
Materials Needed
Kind Words Brainstorm Sheet
Role-Play Scenario Cards
Kindness Reflection Worksheet
Kindness Pledge Poster
Lesson Flow
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Introduction & Discussion
Building Awareness
Define: Write "Kind Language" on the board: Using words that encourage, comfort, or uplift others.
Discuss: Ask students for examples of kind words or compliments they've heard recently.
Compare: Briefly discuss the emotional physical response to put-downs vs. compliments.
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Brainstorming Kind Words
Vocabulary Building
Activity: Distribute the Brainstorm Sheet.
Timer: Give students 2 minutes to list as many positive phrases as possible.
Share: Students share their top three with a neighbor.
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Role-Play Scenarios
Applied Practice
Pair Up: Assign pairs and give each one a scenario card.
Double Take: Pairs act out the "Put-down" version, then immediately replay the "Kind" version.
Reflect: Discuss as a class how the atmosphere in the room changes with kind words.
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Reflection & Pledge
Commitment
Reflect: Hand out the Reflection Worksheet (5 mins).
Share: Volunteers share one way they'll use kind language this week.
Pledge: Students sign the Kindness Pledge Poster to close the lesson.
Words That Lift Slides Words That Lift
Using kind language to build a better classroom.
Kindness Communication Community
TEACHER NOTES: Welcome, everyone! Today we’ll explore how our words can lift others up. First, I’ll introduce our objective: to learn why kind language matters and practice using positive words instead of put-downs.
What is Kind Language?
Definition
Kind language uses words that encourage, comfort, or uplift others.
Think-Pair-Share:
1. Share a kind word you’ve received and how it felt.
2. Share a put-down you’ve heard and how it felt.
TEACHER NOTES: Write the definition on the board. Invite two or three students to share examples of kind words they’ve heard and how those made them feel. Then ask for examples of put-downs and discuss the difference in feelings.
Brainstorming Kind Words
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Take a Brainstorm Sheet
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List phrases for 2 minutes
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Share top 3 with a partner
Ready, Set, Go!
TEACHER NOTES: Distribute the Kind Words Brainstorm Sheet to each student. Set a two-minute timer. When time’s up, have students turn to a partner and share their top three words.
Role-Play Challenge
Pair up and pick a scenario card.
Act it out using put-downs .
Replay it using kind words .
Notice how the impact changes!
TEACHER NOTES: Explain that each pair will act out both versions of a scenario. Model one example quickly if needed. After each role-play, lead a brief discussion on how the tone and feelings changed.
Personal Reflection
Your Commitment:
One specific way you will use kind language this week.
The Reason:
Why this commitment matters to you.
Take your time and be honest with yourself.
TEACHER NOTES: Hand out the Kindness Reflection Worksheet. Encourage students to write thoughtfully and personally. Circulate to offer support and invite a few students to share key ideas.
The Kindness Pledge
"I pledge to use my words to LIFT others, build my community, and spread positivity every single day."
Sign the Pledge Poster!
Your words have the power to change someone's world.
TEACHER NOTES: Invite volunteers to read aloud. Once reflections are shared, have the class sign the Kindness Pledge Poster together. Reinforce that practicing kind words daily will help build a respectful, supportive classroom.
Kind Words Brainstorm Sheet Worksheet Kind Words Brainstorm
Filling our toolkit with positivity!
The Challenge
List as many kind words, compliments, or positive phrases as you can think of. Aim for at least 10 to share with a partner. Think about words that make you feel good when you hear them!
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Bonus
"Kindness is a language that the deaf can hear and the blind can see."
Role-Play Scenario Cards Activity Role-Play Scenario Cards
Cut along the dotted lines. Act out Version A (Put-down), then Version B (Kindness).
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The Hallway Trip
Scenario: A student trips over a backpack and drops their books.
Version A: "Way to watch where you're going, clumsy!"
Version B: "Are you okay? That looked painful—let me help you."
Card 2
Lunch Table Invitation
Scenario: A student is standing alone at lunch and approaches your group.
Version A: "Go sit somewhere else—this is our table."
Version B: "Hey! Sure, pull up a chair. We'd love to have you."
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Group Project Mix-up
Scenario: One partner forgets to bring needed materials for the project.
Version A: "You’re so useless—now we’re doomed!"
Version B: "No worries. Let’s figure out what we can do together."
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Missed Basketball Shot
Scenario: During recess, a friend misses an easy basketball shot.
Version A: "Nice shot—if you were blind!"
Version B: "Good try! Keep practicing, you’ll nail it next time."
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Wrong Answer in Class
Scenario: A classmate volunteers to answer but gives the wrong answer.
Version A: "Seriously? That’s the dumbest thing I’ve heard."
Version B: "Thanks for trying—who can help refine that idea?"
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Sharing Creative Work
Scenario: A friend shows you a drawing they made and asks for your thoughts.
Version A: "That looks terrible—did a toddler draw this?"
Version B: "I love your colors! What inspired this piece?"
Kindness Reflection Worksheet Worksheet Name:
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Kindness Reflection
Words That Lift
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One specific way I will use kind language this week is:
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This commitment matters because:
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I will remind myself to practice kind language by:
"Your words are like seeds. What you plant in others will grow. Plant kindness."
Keep this in your notebook as a daily reminder!
Kindness Pledge Poster Activity The Kindness Pledge
Classroom Commitment
We will encourage others daily and notice their efforts.
We will replace put-downs with positive, helpful words.
We will listen with respect and value every voice.
We will build a supportive community where everyone feels safe.
Signed with commitment:
Our words lift us higher!