Spark Guide Lesson Plan Spark Guide
Session 1: Introduction to Respectful Language
Time
20 Minutes
Audience
Elementary / Tier 3
Objective
Introduce respect concepts and set positive foundations.
The "Why"
Using respectful language empowers students to engage confidently with adults, fostering safer and more effective communication which is crucial for personal growth.
Prep Work
Review Spark Slides and Spark Sketchpad.
Access video: A Little Respectful Spot
Prepare prompts for student reflection.
The Approach
1
Introduction (5 mins)
Greet the student and introduce the topic of respectful language. Ask: "What do you know about respect? Why is it important when talking to grown-ups?" Explain that today we are learning about "sparking" positive connections with our words.
2
Story Time (7 mins)
Play the video story. Encourage the student to observe how characters interact respectfully.
Pause & Prompt:
"How did the Spot show respect there? How do you think that adult felt?"
3
Reflection (5 mins)
Discuss what respectful language looks like. Use the Spark Sketchpad to draw or write one "Respectful Word" they used today. Connection: "Has there been a time someone used a kind word with you?"
4
Wrap-Up (3 mins)
Summarize key points. Reinforce that kind words are like keys—they open doors to good relationships. Preview: "Next time, we'll practice our 'Power Plays' for different situations!"
Spark Slides Presentation Respectful Spark
Unlocking the Power of Your Words
What is Respect?
"Respect is like a Spark..."
Using kind words with others.
Listening when someone speaks.
Caring about people's feelings.
Think About It:
Why do we use extra careful words with adults like teachers or parents?
Story: A Little Respectful Spot
Click to Watch Story
bsdvt.lennylearning.org/view/story-a-little-respectful-spot
Watch closely for how the Spot uses kind words!
Let's Reflect
Observation
What was one thing the character did that was respectful?
Feelings
How do you think it feels when someone is respectful to you?
Next Step
What is one "Key Word" we can use with adults today?
Spark Sketchpad Worksheet Spark Sketchpad
Session 1: Unlocking My Power Words
Name:
Date:
1. THE KEY WORD
What is one "Respectful Word" or phrase you learned today?
2. SHOW THE SPARK
Draw a picture of you using your respectful words with a teacher or parent.
3. MY FEELING
How do you feel when you are respectful? (Circle one or draw your own!)
Happy
Kind
Proud
Other
Power Play Guide Lesson Plan Power Play Guide
Session 2: Active Practice & Power Words
Time
20 Minutes
Focus
Role Play & Fluency
Materials
Scenario Keys, Play Slides
The Objective
To practice specific "Power Words" in simulated adult-student interactions, building muscle memory for respectful responses when students feel frustrated or need help.
Prep Steps
Cut out the Scenario Keys (role play cards).
Set up Play Slides for visual cues.
Activity Sequence
1
Power Word Recall (3 mins)
Review the "Spark Words" from last session. Introduce the 3 "Master Keys": "Please," "Thank you," and "May I?" Discuss how these words change the energy of a conversation.
2
Teacher Model (5 mins)
The teacher acts out two ways to ask for a snack or a break: one "Locked" (rude) and one "Unlocked" (respectful).
"Watch my face and listen to my voice. Which one makes you want to help me more?"
3
Power Play Scenarios (10 mins)
Use the Scenario Keys. The student picks a card and practices the respectful response. Provide immediate "Power Ups" (positive feedback) for eye contact, calm voice, and specific words.
4
Victory Lap (2 mins)
Acknowledge the student's effort. Choose one specific "Power Play" they did well today to tell their regular classroom teacher or parent about.
Power Play Slides Presentation Word Power Play
Session 2: Practice Makes Progress
The 3 Master Keys
"PLEASE"
The word that shows you value the other person's help.
"THANK YOU"
The word that shows you noticed their kindness.
"MAY I?"
The words that show respect for rules and space.
Respectful Level Up
Voice Volume
Keep it calm and indoor-sized.
Eye Contact
Look at the person you are talking to.
Face Spark
Try to have a neutral or friendly face.
Timing
Wait for a pause before speaking.
Ready to Play?
Pick a Scenario Key. Let's practice using your Master Keys to unlock the situation!
"I can do this!"
Scenario Keys Activity Cards Scenario Keys
Cut these out and practice your Power Plays!
The Hunger Spark
You are really hungry and want a snack, but your teacher is talking to another student.
The Master Key:
"Excuse me, may I have a snack please?"
The Break Request
You feel frustrated with your math work and you need a 2-minute break to calm down.
The Master Key:
"I'm feeling frustrated. May I take a break?"
The Helpful Hand
An adult opens the heavy door for you while you are carrying your backpack.
The Master Key:
"Thank you for helping me with the door!"
The Question Call
You don't understand the directions for the game and you need to ask for help.
The Master Key:
"Could you please explain that one more time?"
Your Own Power Play
Think of a time you need a key word!
The Master Key:
Victory Awaits!
Remember: Tone and Face matter too!
Champion Guide Lesson Plan Champion Guide
Session 3: Real-World Scenarios & Goal Setting
Time
20 Minutes
Goal
Maintenance & Generalization
Materials
Champion Slides, Goal Tracker
The Mission
Move from practice to reality. The student will identify a specific person and time they will use their respectful keys outside of this session and create a plan for accountability.
Prep Steps
Review the Goal Tracker worksheet.
Coordinate with classroom teacher for follow-up.
The Final Steps
1
The Power of Choice (4 mins)
Quickly recap the Spark words and Master Keys. Discuss how using respect is a choice that gives them power in social situations. Question: "Who is one adult you really want to have a good conversation with?"
2
High-Stakes Scenarios (6 mins)
Present harder scenarios: Being told "No" by a parent or being corrected by a teacher. Use the Champion Slides to visualize the "Respectful Pivot."
"Even if we don't like the answer, we can still use our keys. Let's try saying 'Okay, thank you' even when it's hard."
3
Goal Tracker (8 mins)
Fill out the Goal Tracker together. Make it specific: "I will use 'May I' when I want to use the iPad today." Agree on a "check-in" time tomorrow.
4
Commissioning (2 mins)
Hand over a "Communication Champion" sticker or certificate if available. Remind them: "You have the keys now. Go unlock some great interactions!"
Champion Slides Presentation Communication Champion
Session 3: Mastery
The "Hard" Situations
The Situation:
An adult says "No" or "Not right now" to something you really want.
The Champion Response:
Take a deep breath. Use your Key Word: "Okay, thank you for telling me."
The Champion's Secret
Respect Builds Trust
When adults see you being respectful, they trust you with more choices and freedom.
Calm is Contagious
When you stay respectful, adults usually stay calm too. This helps everyone feel better.
You Are a Champion!
You have learned how to use your words to open doors and build great relationships. Keep using your keys!
Next Mission: Your Goal Tracker!
Champion Goal Tracker Worksheet Goal Tracker
Becoming a Communication Champion
Hero Name:
Target Adult:
Place Badge Here
Upon Completion
My Mission Plan
1 What "Master Key" word will I use today?
2 When is the best time for me to use it?
3 How will I know I succeeded?
My Power Progress
M
T
W
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F