Sweet Choices Lesson Plan
Kindergarten SEL • Guidance Lesson
Sweet Choices: Boss of Me
15 Minutes
Book: Cake & I Scream! (M. Hall)
Core Focus
Bossiness, interrupting, worrying about classmates, and self-management.
"I Can" Goal
"I can manage my own words, hands, and scoop without bossing my friends."
SEL Standards
CASEL: Self-Management & Relationship Skills (ASCA B-SMS 1 & B-SS 2).
Fast-Paced 15-Minute Delivery Schedule
Time Phase & Purpose Action & Key Student Routine
0:00 - 2:00 Warm-Up Hook:
"Who Is the Boss?" Counselor asks students to point thumbs to their own chests: "Who is the boss of your hands? You! Who is the boss of your words? You!" Introduce the secret scoop: we are each the boss of our own scoop, not our friend's scoop!
2:00 - 9:00 Interactive Read-Aloud:
Cake & I Scream! Read with high-energy voice. Pause at 3 targeted moments to address: (1) yelling/interrupting, (2) staring at Cake's plate, and (3) demanding rules. Students model "quiet scoop" listening hands.
9:00 - 13:00 Active Game Practice:
"Sweet Scoop or Bossy Scoop?" Counselor shares 4 quick scenarios. Students give two thumbs up for a "Sweet Choice" (self-control) or cross arms over chest for a "Bossy Scoop" (trying to control someone else).
13:00 - 15:00 Wrap-Up & Handout:
The Sweet Scoop Pledge Recite the 3-line rhyme together with hand gestures. Leave the "Sweet Choices Activity Sheet" with the classroom teacher for small-group center work or calm-down reflection.
Materials Needed for 15-Minute Flow
Cake & I Scream! book
Companion slide deck
Sweet Choices handouts
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Facilitator Script & Discussion Guide
Targeted prompts during and after reading *Cake & I Scream!*
Kindergarten Ready
Read-Aloud Stopping Points (7 Minutes)
Stopping Point 1 • When Ice Scream Shouts & Interrupts Min 3:30
Counselor Prompt: "Uh-oh! Look at Ice Scream's mouth—wide open, shouting right over Cake! How does Cake feel when someone shouts and won't let them finish? What can we do with our lips when someone else is talking?"
→ Student gesture: Zip lips gently and show "listening scoops" (hands cupped behind ears).
Stopping Point 2 • Watching Cake's Plate & Getting Bossy Min 5:15
Counselor Prompt: "Ice Scream is staring at Cake's plate, counting sprinkles, and telling Cake how to eat! Is Ice Scream in charge of Cake's plate? No! Whose plate should Ice Scream look at? Their own!"
→ Teach the phrase: "Mind your own scoop!" (Hands circle in front of own body).
Stopping Point 3 • Making a Sweet Friendship Repair Min 7:30
Counselor Prompt: "Look what happens when they use polite words and wait their turn! The party gets happy and fun again. When we stop bossing our friends, everyone enjoys the treat together."
Tattling vs. Reporting (K-Level)
Tattling: Telling on a friend to get them in trouble because you're watching their scoop.
Reporting: Telling a grown-up right away if someone is hurt, unsafe, or in danger.
The "Boss of Me" Rule
I am the boss of: My hands, my words, my feet, my choices.
I am NOT the boss of: My friend's words, who they play with, or how they color!
The Sweet Scoop Closing Rhyme (Call & Response)
1 Minute Chant
🍦 "I scoop my words, I scoop my hands!" (Pat chest)
🍰 "I am the boss of where I stand!" (Stamp feet softly)
🍒 "Mind my own scoop, sweet and kind!" (Circle hands in front of body)
Teacher Note: Use the verbal prompt "Check your scoop!" during the school day whenever kindergarteners begin bossing peers or peeking at classmates' papers.
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Sweet Choices Slides
🍦 Kindergarten Guidance Lesson
⏱️ 15 Sweet Minutes
Sweet Choices
Being the Boss of ME!
🧁 Hands to Myself
🍨 Mind My Own Scoop
🍒 Kind Words
Put your hands on your lap and let's explore our big secret!
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Read-Aloud Storytime
Cake & I Scream!
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Meet Cake!
Cake likes calm, happy party games, polite words, and sharing fun with friends.
🍦
Meet Ice Scream!
Ice Scream shouts, bosses everyone around, and worries about everyone else's plate!
Listen closely: What does Ice Scream learn about being a sweet friend?
Big Lesson Secret
Who Is the Boss of You?
🌟
I Am the Boss of ME!
- ✓ My own hands and feet
- ✓ My voice and polite words
- ✓ My work and choices
Point thumbs to your chest: "I boss ME!"
🛑
I Am NOT the Boss of:
- ✕ My friend's hands or feet
- ✕ How my friend colors or draws
- ✕ Who my friend plays with
Shake head gently: "Not my scoop!"
When we try to boss our friends, nobody has fun!
🍨 Rule Number One
Mind Your Own Scoop!
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Eyes on Your Work
Look at your own paper, not what your neighbor is doing!
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No Bossy Voice
Don't tell friends what they "have" to do or how to play.
🙌
Stay in Your Space
Keep your body and belongings in your own personal bubble.
"Check your scoop!" = Check yourself, not your neighbor!
Polite Words & Calm Lips
Wait for the Cherry! 🍒
How to share your thoughts without shouting or interrupting
1
Zip Lips
When a friend or teacher talks, keep your voice quiet and soft.
2
Listen In
Use listening ears to hear all of their words until they finish.
3
Raise Hand
Raise a calm, quiet hand when you have something sweet to say!
Ice Scream learned: Waiting for your turn makes the party sweeter!
Let's Practice!
Sweet Choice or Bossy Scoop?
Thumbs UP for Sweet Choice 👍 | Arms Crossed for Bossy Scoop 🙅
Sweet Choices Activity Sheet
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Kindergarten Guidance • Cake & I Scream!
Sweet Choices: Boss of Me!
Name:
Date:
1
Color the Scoops YOU Control!
You are the Boss of YOU!
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Scoop 3 MY WORDS
Scoop 2 MY HANDS
Scoop 1 MY CHOICES
BOSS
OF ME!
Use your favorite crayons to color each scoop! Remember:
I control my words: polite & kind.
I control my hands: gentle & safe.
I mind my scoop: focus on me!
"Who bosses me? ONLY ME!"
2
Sweet Choice or Bossy Scoop? Circle the Match!
Read with your teacher and fill in the circle
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Waiting quietly for my turn while a friend is talking.
Sweet Choice
Bossy Scoop
👉
Telling a friend: "You have to color your cake blue, not green!"
Sweet Choice
Bossy Scoop
👀
Keeping my eyes on my own paper and minding my own work.
Sweet Choice
Bossy Scoop
🗣️
Shouting out answers when someone else was called on.
Sweet Choice
Bossy Scoop
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My Sweet Pledge:
"I will mind my own scoop and be the boss of ME today!"
Color Star: ⭐