Little Peacebuilders Slides K-2 Classroom Lesson
We Are Little Peacebuilders!
How to use our bodies and minds to solve big problems with our friends.
15-Minute Adventure
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Big Feelings!
Step 1: Check In
When something bugs us, our bodies might feel:
π₯ Hot and tight like fire
πͺ Thumping heartbeat like a drum
π Ready to erupt like a volcano
QUICK CHAT
Turn & Talk!
Where in your body do you feel anger or frustration? Point to it and tell your partner!
Turn and talk to a partner
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Our Peace Shield
Step 2: Self-Regulate
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STOP
Freeze! Put hands in pockets or on belly. Don't yell or touch.
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THINK
Ask: "What is my big feeling?" Name it inside your mind.
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BREATHE
Smell the flower, blow out the candle. Do it 3 slow times.
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GO
Now you are ready! Choose a helper tool from the Peace Wheel.
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Practice: Take 3 deep breaths together as a class!
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The Peace Wheel
Step 3: Pick a Tool
What can we choose to do?
When we feel calm, we can look at our classroom Peace Wheel to pick a smart action.
π‘ Rule of Peace: Both friends must agree on the tool to solve the problem!
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Share & Trade
Play together or swap toys
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Walk Away
Go play something else
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Say "Stop"
Use a strong, friendly voice
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R-P-S
Rock-Paper-Scissors to decide
These are healthy powers we have!
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Let's Try It!
Step 4: Practice
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The Colored Pencil Tug!
"Leo and Mia both want to use the red colored pencil at the exact same time. Leo pulls it, Mia pulls back, and they both start to feel very angry."
π 1. Stop
Let go of the pencil and take a step back.
π¨ 2. Breathe
Take 3 deep tummy breaths until feeling calm.
π€ 3. Solve
Which Peace Wheel tool solves this?
Roleplay: Show how Mia and Leo can solve this!
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Our Peace Promise
Our Pledge
"I am a Peace Builder!"
I promise to STOP when I'm mad, BREATHE to feel calm, and use the PEACE WHEEL to solve problems with my friends.
Happy Classroom
Kind Hearts
Strong Friendships
Raise your hand if you make this promise!
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Little Peacebuilders Classroom Tools We Are Peace Builders
My Peace Builder Tool!
Easy steps to handle big feelings and solve conflicts with our friends.
1
STOP
Freeze! Hands in pockets.
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THINK
"What is my big feeling?"
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BREATHE
Smell flower, blow out candle.
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GO
Solve with the Peace Wheel!
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The Peace Wheel Choices
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Share and Trade
Share toys or play together.
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Walk Away
Go find another fun game.
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Say "Please Stop"
Use strong, friendly words.
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Rock-Paper-Scissors
Flip a coin or RPS to decide.
We are kind, we are safe, we are friends!
K-2 Anchor Poster
Printable Desk Reminder Strips
Cut along the dotted lines. Tape to student desks or place in the calm-down corner.
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My Peace Builder Reminder
Keep calm and find friendly solutions!
π STOP
π THINK
π¨ BREATHE
π€ CHOOSE
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Calm Down Corner Helper
I can breathe and relax my body.
1. Smell the Rose πΉ
2. Blow the Candle π―οΈ
βοΈ CUT STRIP 3
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Peace Wheel Options
What is my smart choice today?
π€ Share πΆ Walk Away β Say Stop β RPS
βοΈ CUT STRIP 4
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Kind Talk Prompt
Friendly words resolve problems!
"I feel ________ when ________. Can we ________?"
Classroom Peace Builders β’ K-2 Desk Kit
Little Peacebuilders Role Play Cards Small Group Practice
Little Peacebuilders Practice Cards
Cut these cards out. Use them in pairs or small groups to practice resolving conflicts.
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Scenario 1
The Block Battle
"You are building a super tall block tower. Another friend knocks it down by accident and then starts laughing."
Practice: π Stop & π¨ Breathe 3 times.
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Scenario 2
The Grabby Hand
"You are coloring a blue sky. Your partner reaches over and grabs your favorite blue crayon right out of your hand!"
Practice: π€ Ask to "Share & Trade".
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Scenario 3
The Line Cutter
"You are standing in line for the slide. A classmate runs up and squeezes right in front of you."
Practice: β Say "Please stop and go to the back."
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Scenario 4
Meanie Words
"A peer tells you that you are bad at drawing and laughs at your artwork during center time."
Practice: πΆ Walk away and find a safe spot.
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Scenario 5
Left Out on the Playground
"Your classmates are playing tag. You run up and ask to play, but they shake their heads and say, 'No, you're too slow!'"
Practice: π Think about a kind way to respond.
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Scenario 6
The Dino Dispute
"There is only one green dinosaur toy left. You and another friend grab it at the exact same second."
Practice: β Play Rock-Paper-Scissors!
Classroom Peace Builders β’ K-2 Roleplay Cards Page 1 of 2
Little Peacebuilders Activity Guide
A step-by-step small group peer practice recipe. Total time: 10-15 minutes.
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Gather in a Circle
Divide students into groups of 3 to 4. Each group gets a set of the cut-out scenario cards. Place cards face down in the middle.
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Draw a Scenario Card
One student draws a card and the teacher/facilitator (or a helper student) reads the scenario out loud.
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Pause & Breathe
All students in the group act out the **Stop, Think, Breathe** step. Tell them: "Put your hands on your belly. Breathe in like you're smelling a cookie... blow out like you're cooling it down. Do it three times."
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Act & Choose a Solution
Two students roleplay the situation. They must use one of the tools on the **Peace Wheel** (Share, Walk Away, Say Stop, RPS) to resolve the conflict nicely.
Little Peacebuilders Connection Guide Teacher Resource
One-on-One Restorative Guide
A compassionate dialogue framework for resolving K-2 peer conflicts.
1 Step 1: Cool Down (Prepare)
Do not attempt to resolve conflict while students are escalated. Separate them briefly first.
"I see you both have big feelings right now. Let's take 3 deep belly breaths together before we talk. Let's smell the flower, blow out the candle..."
2 Step 2: Share What Happened
Have each student share their perspective without interruptions. Use a toy or "talking stick" if helpful.
"[Student A], tell me what happened from your side. [Student B], your job is to listen with calm eyes and ears. Then you will have your turn."
3 Step 3: Name the Feelings
Help students connect actions to emotional outcomes. Help them label what they felt.
"How did you feel when that happened? Let's look at our chart. Did you feel mad, sad, or worried? How do you think your classmate felt?"
4 Step 4: Choose to Make It Right
Guide students to choose a real action to repair the relationship.
"What can we do to repair our friendship? Should we share the toys, or take turns, or say a kind apology? Let's check our Peace Wheel."
Active Facilitation Checkpoint
Ensure students focus on behavior ("She grabbed the dino") rather than character indictments ("She is mean"). Rephrase blame into concrete statements to reduce defensiveness.
Classroom Peace Builders β’ K-2 Connection Guide Page 1 of 2
My Reflection
My Peace Builder Reflection
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Name:
Date:
1. How did I feel when it happened? (Circle Yours)
π‘ Angry
π’ Sad
π Worried
π Hurt
2. Draw what happened:
3. Next time, what Peace Wheel tool will I try? (Circle One)
π€ Share/Trade
πΆ Walk Away
β Say Stop
β Play RPS
4. My promise:
I promise to use my kind words and friendly tools to solve my school problems.
My Signature:
Classroom Peace Builders β’ K-2 Incident Reflection Page 2 of 2
Conflict Resolvers Slides Grade 3-5 Lesson
Mastering the Conflict Resolvers Blueprint
The science of emotional regulation, smart negotiation, and building stronger, lasting friendships.
Class Instruction: 15-Minute Workshop
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The Brain Under Pressure
The Biology
What is an "Amygdala Hijack"?
The amygdala is your brain's alarm system. When you are angry or scared, it rings loud, making it hard to think logically!
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Your prefrontal cortex (your thinking brain) goes offline. We must cool the alarm down first!
REFLECT & DISCUSS
Can you feel it?
How does it feel in your body right before you say something you regret? (e.g., clenched fists, loud voice)
Recognize physical signs of escalating anger
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The Self-Regulation Loop
STBG Framework
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1. STOP
Pause your words and hands. Freeze action immediately before escalating.
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2. THINK
Identify your core emotion. Ask: "Is my alarm system overreacting?"
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3. BREATHE
Take 3 deep, balloon breaths to bring your brain online.
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4. GO
Initiate positive action using advanced compromise strategies.
Mastery takes practice. Stop and breathe!
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The Advanced Peace Wheel
Tactical Tools
How to Negotiate
Instead of giving up or fighting, select one of these professional dispute-resolution strategies:
π€ Win-Win Rule: A compromise means both sides give a little and get a little!
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I-Statements
"I feel ___ when ___ because ___."
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Compromise
Find a middle ground where both benefit.
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Active Listen
Repeat back what the other person wants.
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Cool-Down Exit
Politely exit to cool down before speaking.
Choose strategies that resolve rather than blame
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Real-World Case Study
Case Analysis
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The Recess Captain Clash
"Noah and Marcus are picking soccer teams. They both insist they should be the head team captain. Noah says Marcus is bossy. Marcus claims Noah always dominates. They are nose-to-nose and the game is stalled."
Conflict Resolvers Classroom Tools Official Strategy Anchor
The Conflict Resolvers Manual
Science-backed strategies to pause the emotional alarm and negotiate win-win compromises.
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The Brain Check
When conflicts arise, the Amygdala triggers a protective alarm (fight, flight, freeze). To solve problems, we must pause, take deep breaths, and let our Prefrontal Cortex (the logical thinking center) take command.
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1. STOP
Pause your words and movement. Do not escalate.
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2. THINK
Label your emotion. Assess your reaction level.
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3. BREATHE
Take 3 slow breaths to soothe your nervous system.
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4. GO
Negotiate using the Strategic Peace Wheel.
Advanced Resolution Tools
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Respectful I-Statement
"I feel [emotion] when you [action] because [reason]."
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Fair Compromise
Create a win-win contract where both parties give up a little.
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Active Listening
Paraphrase or repeat back what your partner has stated.
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Cool-Down Exit
Politely separate until both nervous systems return to normal.
We speak with courage, listen with empathy, and lead with peace.
Grade 3-5 Anchor
Advanced Desk Reminder Strips
Cut along the dotted borders. Affix to workspaces, student planners, or calm-down zones.
βοΈ WORKSPACE CLIP 1
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Brain & Body Regulation
De-escalate the amygdala hijack.
π Stop π Think π¨ Breathe π Go
βοΈ WORKSPACE CLIP 2
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The Respectful I-Statement
Assertive communication helper.
"I feel emotion when you action because reason."
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Active Listening Loop
Ensure mutual comprehension.
1. Listen Silently
2. Paraphrase State
βοΈ WORKSPACE CLIP 4
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Compromise Negotiator
Drafting a balanced win-win contract.
"To resolve this, I will agree to ___, and my friend will agree to ___."
Classroom Peace Builders β’ Grade 3-5 Desk Kit
Conflict Resolvers Role Play Cards Grades 3-5 Small Group
Conflict Resolvers Practice Cards
Cut out these cards to practice active listening, I-Statements, and compromise.
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Case Study 1
Group Project Credit
"You spent 3 hours building a slide deck for your science project. Your partner did nothing, but when presenting, they take all the credit."
Practice: Speak with a respectful I-Statement .
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Case Study 2
The Lunch Rumor
"You walk up to the lunch table and overhear your best friend whispering a fake rumor about you to other classmates."
Practice: Request a private Cool-Down dialogue .
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Case Study 3
The Chat Exclusion
"Your friends created a new gaming group chat but deliberately left you out because they say you aren't good enough."
Practice: De-escalate your amygdala alarm first.
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Case Study 4
Out of Bounds Argument
"In recess kickball, you are certain your kick was in-bounds. The other team screams that it was out. The game is stalled."
Practice: Propose a fair redo-compromise .
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Case Study 5
The Ruined Notebook
"Your peer borrowed your neat math binder and accidentally spilled juice over your study guides, smudging your notes."
Practice: Use Active Listening to hear their explanation.
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Case Study 6
The Seat Squatter
"You got up to sharpen your pencil. When you return, another classmate has taken your favorite carpet sitting square."
Practice: Negotiate a simple, calm sharing agreement .
Conflict Resolvers β’ Grade 3-5 Practice cards Page 1 of 2
Conflict Resolvers Activity Guide
A structured, collaborative workshop recipe for practicing advanced negotiation.
1
Establish the Group
Form small groups of 3 to 4. Designate one student as the **Mediator** (keeps time and guides steps) and the others as the **Actors**.
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Draw & Analyze
Draw a Scenario Card. The Mediator reads it aloud. Together, identify the **triggers**: What would cause an amygdala brain hijack in this situation?
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The 3-Second De-escalation
Actors must model the **Stop, Think, Breathe** sequence physically: stand straight, drop shoulders, take 3 deep diaphragmatic breaths in silence.
Conflict Resolvers Connection Guide Teacher Resource
Restorative Conversation Guide
A structured restorative script to guide 3rd-5th grade peers in resolving disputes.
1 De-escalation & Mental Prep
Acknowledge physical escalation and guide students to execute the Stop, Think, Breathe sequence.
"I can see that we have some intense energy and elevated feelings right now. Before we analyze the problem, let's reset our brains. Let's stand up, drop our shoulders, and take three deep breaths in silence..."
2 Perspective-Taking (Uninterrupted Share)
Have each student state their view using factual language. No interruptions or defensive cross-talk allowed.
"[Student A], tell me what happened from your perspective. [Student B], your task is active listening: do not argue; you will explain your side next."
3 Identifying Emotions & Analyzing Impact
Transition from factual recounting to looking at the personal impact and emotional toll.
"How did you feel when that happened? How do you think this situation impacted your classmate's afternoon and their focus? What needs to happen to fix that feeling?"
4 Co-Authoring the Compromise
Direct students toward action. They co-design a contract stating what they will each do next.
"We want a win-win resolution where you both feel respected. Let's co-author our action plan. What is one concrete action you can commit to, and what will you do in return?"
Mediation Best Practices
Focus on building restorative agreements rather than arbitrary punitive consequences. If an agreement is co-authored by the students themselves, compliance rates increase significantly.
Conflict Resolvers β’ Grade 3-5 Connection Guide Page 1 of 2
Restorative Contract
Resolution Action Plan
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Student Names:
Date:
1. The Core Issue
Summarize the conflict or misunderstanding that occurred. Keep it objective and focused on facts.
2. Emotional Perspectives
How did this conflict affect each of you? Name the feelings involved.
Student A felt:
Student B felt:
3. The Compromise Contract (Win-Win)
What concrete steps will both of you agree to take in order to rebuild your friendship?
Student A agrees to:
Student B agrees to:
4. Our Resolution Pledge
By signing below, we agree to honor our compromise and use Stop, Think, Breathe, Go if we escalate again.
Student A Signature:
Student B Signature: