Peer Conflict Reset Worksheet v2
Reset Blueprint
Social Reflection & Values Framework
SESSION TYPE Peer Conflict
Student:
Date:
1
Start With the Situation
"What happened? Who was involved?"
"What were you hoping for?"
2
What Took Over?
"What feeling took over? Assumed intent?"
Anger / Heat
Embarrassment
Jealousy / Exclusion
Feeling hurt / Let down
3
Pattern Check
"Does this happen with certain people?"
4
Choice Point
5
Values Check
6. Rehearse the Next Interaction
Alternative Move
Support Plan
Even during conflict, I am someone who
Counselor Documentation Notes
Reset Blueprint Worksheet v2
Reset Blueprint
Behavioral Reflection & Choice Framework
SESSION TYPE Behavior Reflection
Student:
Date:
1
Start With the Facts
"Walk me through what happened. Where were you? Who was there?"
2
What Took Over?
"Sometimes a reaction takes over before we realize it."
Frustration / Anger
Trying to impress others
Thought it was funny
Excitement / Boredom
Feeling Disrespected
Rushed / Pressure
3
Notice the Pattern
"When does this usually show up? Transitions? Gym?"
4
The Choice Point
Options available:
What I actually chose:
5
Who Were You Trying to Be?
Desired Identity:
Alignment:
Far
Close
6. Rehearse the Next Time
First Move
Backup Plan
Support
Even when things take over, I am someone who
Counselor Documentation Notes
Anxiety Reset Worksheet v2
Reset Blueprint
Emotional Reflection & Grounding Framework
SESSION TYPE Anxiety / Overwhelm
Student:
Date:
1
Start With the Experience
"What felt hard today? What was happening in your body?"
2
What Took Over?
"What feeling or thought got really loud?"
"I can't do this"
Panic / Fear / Worry
Social Pressure
Worry about failure
3
Notice the Pattern
"When does this usually show up?"
4
The Choice Point
Options I had:
What I tried:
5
What Helps Even a Little?
6. Rehearse the Next Time
Strategy
Backup
Support
Even when anxiety shows up, I am still someone who
Counselor Documentation Notes
Reset Framework Guide v2
Reset Facilitator Guide
Brief Narrative Intervention (10-15 Min)
Page 1
Narrative Principles
- Externalize: Person ≠ Problem.
- Reclaim Agency & Choice.
- Values over Behavior.
1. Behavior Reflection Protocol
Use for discipline incidents. Focus on triggers like social pressure, "funny" mistakes, or excitement.
1
The Facts
"Walk me through what happened." Grounding in reality.
2
What Took Over?
Externalize. Triggers: Impressing others? Funny? Excitement?
3-4
Patterns & Choices
Identify "Hot Spots." Locate the choice point before action.
5-6
Identity & Rehearsal
Who were you trying to be? Rehearse the first move.
Reset Blueprint Framework • Version 1.2
Anxiety Reset Protocol
Brief Narrative Intervention
Page 2
1 Somatic Experience
"What was happening in your body? (heart, breathing...)"
2 What Took Over?
"What feeling or thought got really loud?"
3-4 Pattern & Choice
"When does this usually show up at school?"
5-7 Support & Rehearsal
"Rehearse the strategy. I am someone who..."
Reset Blueprint Framework • Version 1.2
Social Reset Protocol
Brief Narrative Intervention
Page 3
1 The Situation
"What happened? What were you hoping for?"
2 What Took Over?
"What feeling took over? Assumed intent?"
3-5 Choice & Values
"What kind of person do you want to be?"
6-7 Rehearsal & Repair
"Rehearse the interaction."
Reset Blueprint Framework • Version 1.2