What Is Grief Warm Up What Is Grief?
A Moment for Reflection
Name: __________________________
Date: ___________________________
Warm-Up Activity
Take a moment to reflect on the word "grief." What comes to mind?
Write down 1–3 words or short phrases that you associate with grief. You can think about feelings, experiences, or even colors or images.
Healing Hearts Lesson Plan Healing Hearts
Understanding Grief Facilitation Guide
Duration
25m
Why This Matters
Grief is a universal human experience, yet it often feels isolating. Understanding grief helps students normalize their feelings, develop empathy for others, and build essential emotional resilience to navigate life's challenges.
Objective
Students will define grief, identify types of loss, recognize emotional responses, and explore healthy coping strategies.
Preparation
Review Slide Deck
Print Warm-Up & Journey handouts
Cut out Game Cards
Prepare Cool Down slips
Segment Time Action Steps Warm-Up 3 min Distribute What Is Grief? warm-up.
Silent reflection for 2 minutes. Briefly discuss general word associations as a class.
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| Core Concept | 5 min |
Present Introduction to Grief slides.
Define grief as a response to loss (not just death). Discuss pets, moves, and friendship changes.
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| Journey Activity | 8 min |
Guided My Grief Journey activity.
Students draw/write about their emotional path after a loss. Emphasize that sharing is optional.
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| Coping Game | 6 min |
Small group Grief Support Game .
Identify healthy strategies vs. unhelpful responses. Highlight peer support.
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| Cool Down | 3 min |
Distribute Circle of Support slips.
Individual reflection on personal support systems. Collect as exit ticket.
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Note: Grief is sensitive. If a student becomes distressed, refer them to the school counselor or designated support staff immediately.
Grief Lesson Slides Healing Hearts:
Understanding Grief
Navigating loss and finding strength. It's okay not to be okay.
Warm-Up: What Is Grief?
What comes to mind when you hear the word "grief"?
Feelings?
Experiences?
Images or colors?
Activity Time
Write down 1–3 words or short phrases on your warm-up sheet.
What is Grief?
Grief is a natural emotional response to loss.
It's not just about death:
End of a friendship
Moving to a new place
Changes in family
Loss of a pet
Missing a dream or goal
It's personal and unique
How Does Grief Feel?
Emotions
Sadness, anger, numbness, confusion, anxiety.
Physical
Tiredness, headaches, stomach aches.
Mental
Hard to concentrate, forgetfulness.
Social
Wanting to be alone, irritable.
All these feelings are normal.
Coping with Grief
Healthy ways to cope:
Talk to someone you trust
Be creative (art, writing)
Spend time in nature
Rest and take care of your body
Finding ways to manage these feelings is important for your healing journey.
Activity: My Grief Journey
Think about a loss (big or small). Draw or write about how your emotions changed over time.
Express Yourself
Private Reflection
Game: Grief Support
The Goal
Identify healthy coping strategies for real-life scenarios.
How to Play
In small groups, discuss scenario cards and build your "Support Toolkits."
You're Not Alone
Healing takes time, and support is available.
Trusted Adults
Close Friends
School Counselors
What's one thing in your circle of support?
My Grief Journey Activity My Grief Journey
Emotions and Coping
Name:
Date:
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Reflecting on Loss
Think about a time you experienced a loss. This could be anything significant to you – the loss of a pet, a friendship changing, moving to a new place, not making a team, or a big family change.
You do NOT need to share what you write or draw with others unless you want to.
Describe the loss you are thinking about (briefly):
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Expressing Emotions
What emotions did you feel when you experienced this loss? How did those emotions change over time? In the space below, draw or write about your emotional journey. Use colors, symbols, words, or drawings.
The Beginning... As time passed...
Your emotional map here
Moving forward...
What was the strongest feeling at first?
Did new feelings emerge later?
How did feelings change over time?
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What Helps?
What are some things that helped you cope with those feelings? Or, what do you think might help someone else cope with similar feelings?
You are resilient. Healing is a journey, not a race.
Grief Support Game Activity Grief Support Game
Building Your Support Toolkit
Group Activity
How to Play
1. Form Groups: Work in teams of 3–4 students.
2. Pick a Card: Read the scenario aloud to your group.
3. Brainstorm: Discuss the type of loss, emotions involved, and 2–3 healthy coping strategies.
4. Support: Identify 1–2 ways friends can help.
Scenario 1
The Empty Leash
Your neighbor, Maria, is really sad because her dog, who she's had since she was little, just passed away. You see her looking out her window a lot and she hasn't been playing outside.
Scenario 2
Friendship Drifting Apart
Liam and his best friend, Sam, have been inseparable since elementary school. Lately, Sam has been hanging out with a new group and ignoring Liam. Liam feels really left out and confused.
Scenario 3
Moving Away
Sarah's family is moving to a new city next month, and she has to leave her school and all her friends behind. She's trying to act brave, but inside she's really scared and lonely.
Scenario 4
The Lost Game
David's basketball team lost the championship game by one point. He feels like it was all his fault, even though he played his best. He's really angry and disappointed.
Scenario 5
Family Changes
Javier's parents recently got divorced. Even though they said it wasn't his fault, Javier feels a mix of sadness, anger, and worry about what his family will be like now.
Scenario 6
The Unfulfilled Dream
Emily practiced for months for the lead role in the play, but someone else got it. She feels a huge sense of loss and disappointment, even though she's still in the play.
Teacher Tip: Print this page on cardstock and cut along the lines for durability.
Circle of Support Cool Down Circle of Support Exit Tickets
Circle of Support
Write down one person, activity, or place that helps you feel supported or brings you comfort when you are sad or struggling.
Name: ________________
Circle of Support
Write down one person, activity, or place that helps you feel supported or brings you comfort when you are sad or struggling.
Name: ________________
Circle of Support
Write down one person, activity, or place that helps you feel supported or brings you comfort when you are sad or struggling.
Name: ________________
Circle of Support
Write down one person, activity, or place that helps you feel supported or brings you comfort when you are sad or struggling.
Name: ________________
Teacher Tip: These can be used as private exit tickets to assess student support networks.
