Day Craft Slides
Day Craft Therapy
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Day Craft
A gentle, step-by-step space to design a routine that works for you, even on the heaviest days.
A Collaborative Space
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Checking In
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What is the weather like inside today?
Sometimes finding the exact word for how we feel is too hard. Choose a weather metaphor that matches your energy right now:
Heavy Fog
Dull, low energy, hard to see the next step ahead.
Overcast
Flat, gray, not necessarily sad but very low spark.
Quiet Rain
Heavy heart, feeling tender, needing to rest.
Sunny Breaks
A little bit of light peeking through the clouds.
No wrong answers—just noticing. Slide 2 of 15
Journaling Prompt
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"Right Now..."
Let's ignore the past week and the upcoming month. Let's focus strictly on the current physical space around you. Take a look or listen around, and finish these thoughts with your therapist or in your notes:
One simple sound I can hear right this second is...
One thing I can see that is a warm or soothing color is...
The physical weight of my body feels mostly (heavy / light / numb) because...
Take all the time you need. There is no rush. Slide 3 of 15
Journaling Prompt
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"The Heavy Blanket"
Depression can feel like a heavy wet blanket laid over us. It keeps us from moving, not because we are lazy, but because it is physically exhausting to fight. Let's externalize that feeling:
The Blanket's Lies:
- "It won't make a difference if you do that anyway."
- "You don't have the energy to care."
- "Just stay exactly where you are."
Reflecting together:
When the heavy blanket tells you these things, what does it feel like to try to lift even one corner of it?
"Even letting a tiny bit of air in is a victory."
Lifting a corner is enough for today. Slide 4 of 15
Why Routines Matter
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Motivation vs. Momentum
When we struggle with depression, we wait to feel like doing something before we do it. But depression makes sure we almost never feel like it. Routines help bypass motivation altogether.
The Motivation Trap
"I feel exhausted/empty" → "I'll wait until I have energy to shower/clean" → "I lie in bed" → "I feel even more exhausted and heavy" (Cycle repeats).
The Momentum Spark
"I feel heavy" → "I follow a pre-planned step without thinking" → "I brush my teeth for 60 seconds" → "My physical state shifts, creating a tiny bit of momentum."
Action precedes emotion. We build momentum first. Slide 5 of 15
Designing Your Day
The Blueprint
The Three Anchors of a Balanced Day
A routine doesn't need to be an 18-hour military schedule. A healthy day simply needs to have at least one small item from each of these three anchors:
1. Care
Actions that signal to your brain that you are worth looking after. Basic physical care, hygiene, and nourishment.
2. Clean
Small actions that restore structure and order to your immediate physical space. Removing external chaos.
3. Connect
Low-stress, planned activities that offer genuine pleasure, rest, or light distraction without feeling like a chore.
Let's look at each of these closely. Slide 6 of 15
Anchor 1: Care
Deep Dive
Daily Hygiene: "The Reset Button"
When motivation is low, hygiene is often the first thing to slide. This is completely normal and common. But a tiny physical reset sends immediate signals to the nervous system that the day has shifted.
The Hot Water Reset
If a full shower feels like running a marathon, try a 2-minute rinse. Just hot water on your back. No soap or hair-washing required unless you want to.
The Fresh Mouth
Brushing teeth changes the literal taste in your mouth. If standing at the sink is too much, try using mouthwash, or keeping a toothbrush right by your bed with a cup of water.
The Uniform Shift
Take off the pajamas you slept in. Even if you change into another comfortable pair of sweatpants and clean socks, you are signaling a boundary between "sleep" and "awake".
None of these require you to feel "perfect" to do them. Slide 7 of 15
Anchor 2: Clean
Deep Dive
Micro-Chores: "Clearing Outer Chaos"
Our physical surroundings often mirror our mental state. A cluttered, messy room can reinforce the heavy feelings of depression. But don't try to clean the whole house—aim for single, tiny zones.
Make the Bed (Roughly)
Just pull the blanket up. It takes 10 seconds. Now, even if the rest of your room is messy, there is one neat, intentional surface waiting for you.
The Cup Roundup
Depression loves gathering empty cups and water bottles. Gather just three cups or wrappers from your nightstand or desk, and move them to the trash or kitchen sink. Stop there.
The 2-Minute Timer
Set a physical timer on your phone for 120 seconds. Clean or tidy whatever is closest to you until the timer rings, then stop immediately. You've won.
Small drops fill the bucket eventually. Slide 8 of 15
Anchor 3: Connect
Deep Dive
Planned Enjoyment: "Fighting the Void"
Depression robs us of interest (anhedonia). We often think, "Why bother playing a game or going outside? I won't enjoy it anyway." The trick is to do it anyway as a mechanical act of connection to the world.
Low-Energy Play
Putting on a familiar comfort show (one you've seen 100 times so it requires no cognitive effort), listening to an audiobook, or lying down and listening to one nostalgic album.
Medium-Energy Play
Playing a low-stress video game (like Minecraft, Animal Crossing, or a puzzle), doodling on an iPad/paper, or texting a friend one meme without expecting a long conversation.
The Outside Air
Stepping onto your porch, balcony, or sidewalk for exactly 3 minutes. Letting the actual sun or cool wind touch your skin. You don't have to walk—just stand or sit.
We do these to participate in life, not to perform joy. Slide 9 of 15
The Daily Blueprint
Structuring Time
No Strict Times: The "Block System"
Hourly schedules ("8:00 AM Shower, 9:00 AM Clean") can cause anxiety and shame if you sleep in or miss a window. Instead, we use loose blocks: Morning, Afternoon, and Evening.
Morning Block
Transitioning to Awake
- Open the blinds/curtains
- Fresh mouth or face wash
- One glass of cool water
Afternoon Block
Gentle Focus & Space
- Micro-chore (tidy desk/bed)
- Have a basic meal/snack
- Change into daytime comfortable clothes
Evening Block
Winding Down & Connecting
- Planned comfort show or game
- Dim the lights in your room
- Write down one "small win"
This system is designed to bend, not break. Slide 10 of 15
Collaborative Workshop
Live Creation
Let's Day-Craft Together
Using the telehealth whiteboard or a notes document, let's plug in exactly one extremely simple activity for each block. Here are some easy examples to choose from:
Inspiration Bank
• Care: Brush teeth, rinse face, brush hair, or stretch for 1 minute.
• Clean: Move 1 trash bag, take 2 dirty plates to sink, or wipe desk.
• Connect: Watch 1 YouTube video, text a sibling, pet an animal, or step outside.
Our Draft Today:
Morning: ________________________
Afternoon: ________________________
Evening: ________________________
We will type or write these together right now.
Keep it so simple that it feels almost "too easy." Slide 11 of 15
The Safety Net
Coping Strategy
When Energy is at 10%
Some days are what we call "10% Days"—days when the wet blanket is incredibly heavy, and getting out of bed feels completely impossible. On these days, we do not follow our normal routine. We switch to the Safety Net Routine.
Hydration First
Keep a bottle of water right next to your bed. If you cannot get up, just take 3 sips of water. That is your physical care for the morning.
The Bedside Sweep
Grab one single piece of trash from your bed or bedside table and drop it on the floor towards the door. We will deal with it later.
Passive Comfort
Play a comforting song or a soothing video on your phone. Close your eyes and just listen. Do not expect yourself to do anything else.
The safety net keeps you from hitting the ground. Slide 12 of 15
Mindset Shift
The 1% Rule
Doing 1% is infinitely bigger than 0%
Depression makes us think in extremes (black-and-white thinking): "If I can't clean my entire room, there's no point in picking up this sock." But mathematically and mentally, doing 1% of a task is a completely different universe than doing 0%:
0% Effort
Leaves your environment exactly the same. Your brain receives the signal: "We are stuck and defeated." The heavy blanket gets slightly heavier.
1% Effort
Alters the physical layout of your room or body. Your brain receives a brand new signal: "We took action." This begins to erode the sense of helplessness.
Lower your standards until you can meet them easily. Slide 13 of 15
Tracking Wins
Momentum Log
The Momentum Log: Noticing the Small Wins
Depression is an filter that selectively deletes positive evidence. It makes you forget every good thing you did today. To fight this, we keep a Momentum Log (not a "To-Do List", but a "What-I-Did List").
Example Momentum Log:
Brushed my teeth for 60 seconds (Care)
Put three water bottles in the kitchen (Clean)
Stretched my neck and shoulders (Care)
Played video game with brother for 10 mins (Connect)
Why this works:
When we write down what we actually completed, we force our brain to see real, physical evidence that we can affect our environment. We prove depression wrong in real-time.
Keep your log visible, like on a notes app or sticky note.
If you did it, it counts. No matter how small. Slide 14 of 15
Session Wrap-up
Closing
Our Agreement
Just One Next Step
We don't need to implement the whole schedule tomorrow. Let's pick just one single action to practice over the next few days. What feels most realistic to start with?
My Chosen Step: (Collaborative agreement here)
You did amazing work today just by showing up.
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