Coping Compass Educator Guide Educator Curriculum Manual
The Coping Compass
Grade 11 SEL
Curriculum Philosophy
Welcome to The Coping Compass , a highly structured 8-lesson SEL curriculum specifically designed for Grade 11 counseling groups. Grade 11 is a high-stakes transition year characterized by academic stress, college preparation pressure, and identity consolidation. This curriculum targets CASEL’s five core competencies, delivering evidence-based somatic regulation, perspective-taking, assertive communication, and value-aligned decision-making in highly organized, 30-minute group sessions .
30-Minute Session Framework
1. Somatic Landing (5 M)
Ground students immediately. Transition from hallway stress using structured deep breathing, somatic checklists, or quick-release stretching.
2. Exploration (8 M)
Introduce the core competency skill through a short, interactive discussion or visual anchor. Use inquiry-based guiding questions.
3. Skill Drill (12 M)
Hands-on application: paired role-play, empathy mapping, communication practice, or goal time-blocking. Student-to-student interaction.
4. Integration (5 M)
Synthesize learning. Quick personal journaling, group share-outs, or brief exit cards to lock in key takeaways for immediate real-world use.
The 8-Lesson Path
Session Title CASEL Core Competency Core Skill Practice Session 1 Internal Coordinates Self-Awareness Precise emotion labeling & body sensations Session 2 Anchors & Sails Self-Awareness Strengths identification & application examples Session 3 Steadying the Helm Self-Management Somatic regulation routines (Breathing, PMR) Session 4 Drafting the Course Self-Management Goal setting & actionable Coping Plan creation Session 5 Reading the Wind Social Awareness Perspective-taking & empathy mapping Session 6 Crew Communications Relationship Skills "I" statements & assertive communication drills Session 7 Steering Decisions Responsible Decision-Making Flowcharting pros/cons & value alignment Session 8 Safe Harbor Competency Synthesis Post-assessment, portfolio review & integration
The Coping Compass — Curriculum Map Page 1 of 4
The Coping Compass — Facilitator Manual
Sessions 1 – 4 Plans
Session 1: Internal Coordinates (Self-Awareness) CASEL Component 1
Objective: Students identify fine-grained emotions and locate somatic sensations in the body.
Somatic Landing: Handout 1.1 body scan. Notice physical tension.
Exploration: Talk through the difference between "mad" vs. "frustrated" or "devastated."
Skill Drill: Pair up. Distribute Emotion Scenario Cards. Express and locate tension in the body.
Integration: Journal Reflection: "When I feel stressed, my body notices first by..."
Counselor Prompt: "When stress enters your frame, does it hit your chest, stomach, or shoulders first? Let's trace it."
Session 2: Anchors & Sails (Self-Awareness) CASEL Component 1
Objective: Students inventory 3 signature strengths and connect them to stress management.
Somatic Landing: Focused breathing. Lengthening the spine to feel sturdy.
Exploration: Define signature strengths (e.g., perseverance, curiosity, loyalty, humor).
Skill Drill: Strengths Quick-Share. Students identify 3 strengths on their compass wheel.
Integration: Draft one sentence detailing how strength X will help solve problem Y.
Counselor Prompt: "We spend so much time on what's wrong. Today, we map what's right. What keeps you anchored in a storm?"
Session 3: Steadying the Helm (Self-Management) CASEL Component 2
Objective: Direct instruction and practice of somatic grounding and progressive muscle relaxation (PMR).
Somatic Landing: 3 rounds of box breathing (4-4-4-4 technique).
Exploration: Explain fight/flight/freeze mechanics. Somatic regulation resets the nervous system.
Skill Drill: Practice 4 PMR muscle groups (hands, shoulders, jaw, toes) using 10-sec contraction/release steps.
Integration: Note physical state ratings on exit ticket before leaving.
Counselor Prompt: "Tension is an alarm system. Progressive relaxation overrides the alarm so we can think clearly."
Session 4: Drafting the Course (Self-Management) CASEL Component 2
Objective: Build a highly structured Coping Blueprint with triggers, coping behaviors, and accountability.
Somatic Landing: 5-4-3-2-1 Sensory Grounding exercise to focus the room.
Exploration: Review the structure of an effective coping plan. It must be specific, simple, and tested.
Skill Drill: Fill out the Coping Blueprint document. Circle primary stress triggers, select 2 somatic routines.
Integration: Accountability check: share coping buddies and review the check-in script.
Counselor Prompt: "A blueprint isn't magic. It's a rescue drill. When high-pressure hits, we follow the blueprint step-by-step."
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The Coping Compass — Facilitator Manual
Sessions 5 – 8 Plans
Session 5: Reading the Wind (Social Awareness) CASEL Component 3
Objective: Map perspectives using high-stakes teenage conflict scenarios to build empathy.
Somatic Landing: Silent deep breathing while scanning non-verbal cues in neighbors.
Exploration: Introduce Empathy Mapping: Think, Feel, Do, Hear. What is their background perspective?
Skill Drill: In pairs, work through Scenario: "The Unsent Group Text." Map both viewpoints.
Integration: Journal: "Whose perspective in my life is hardest for me to map, and why?"
Counselor Prompt: "People react based on their own pressure, histories, and fears. Let's look at the iceberg below the water."
Session 6: Crew Communications (Relationship Skills) CASEL Component 4
Objective: Master "I" statements and active paraphrasing during difficult conversations.
Somatic Landing: Sound-focus breathing. Focus on listening to small classroom sounds.
Exploration: Review the anatomy of a terrible "I" statement ("I feel you are jerking me around") vs. a correct one.
Skill Drill: Use Communication Skill Drills. Practice specific role-plays under timed rounds.
Integration: Reflection cards: write down a real communication request they need to make this week.
Counselor Prompt: "An 'I' statement isn't a magic wand. It's clean communication. It keeps the other person's shields down."
Session 7: Steering Decisions (Responsible Decision-Making) CASEL Component 5
Objective: Apply decision flowcharts to real-life conflicts, analyzing pros, cons, and value alignment.
Somatic Landing: Progressive shoulder rolls and relaxation. Clear the mental slate.
Exploration: How values act as compass headings. Contrast value-aligned choices vs. reaction-driven ones.
Skill Drill: Decision Flowchart worksheet. Analyze case: "The Caught Friend Cheating." Evaluate paths.
Integration: Circle share: name one core personal value that guides your life.
Counselor Prompt: "When stress is high, we react. If we map out our choices ahead of time, we steer by our values, not our stress."
Session 8: Safe Harbor (Synthesis & Integration) CASEL Component 1 – 5
Objective: Synthesize curriculum learning, execute post-assessments, and establish peer accountability circles.
Somatic Landing: Double-inhale, long-exhale sigh (physiological sigh) 3 rounds.
Exploration: Celebrate group growth. Highlight how students navigated hard topics.
Skill Drill: Distribute Post-Assessment Tool. Students complete scales and compare to Week 1.
Integration: Create "Anchor Cards" - tiny cardboards students place in pockets as reminders.
Counselor Prompt: "We've built a compass over 8 weeks. In moments when you feel adrift, check your coordinate, anchor, and steer forward."
The Coping Compass — Curriculum Map Page 3 of 4
The Coping Compass — Group Facilitation Rubric
Group Assessment Framework
Group Assessment Strategy
Evaluating SEL growth in counseling groups requires dual tracking: assessing student progress through self-report instruments, and counselor-guided qualitative observation. This rubric is designed for quick marking by the therapist/counselor after every session, or as a comprehensive evaluation tool at the end of the 8-lesson sequence.
Metric 1 — Beginning 2 — Developing 3 — Mastery Somatic Awareness Unable to locate emotion in the body; rejects breathing or regulation drills. Names broad areas of tension (e.g., "my chest"); complies with somatic practices with support. Articulates specific bodily signs of distress; independently uses or initiates regulation steps. Active Communication Interrupts peers, uses blame-heavy "you" statements, or stays completely silent. Participates in drills; attempts "I" statements but slips back into defensive phrasing. Uses clean "I" statements; paraphrases peers accurately and validates feelings without interrupting. Perspective-Taking Cannot articulate another person’s likely thoughts/feelings; locked in own viewpoint. Can map simple perspectives in scenarios but struggles with high-stakes peers' views. Demonstrates nuanced empathy; charts thoughts, fears, and support systems for multiple characters. Coping Execution No concrete coping plan drafted; unable to list effective strategies. Has a basic plan drafted, but lacks measurable triggers or follow-through partner. Drafts complete coping plan with concrete, sensory steps, triggers, and buddy accountability.
Counselor Quick-Check: Active Group Norms
• Psychological Safety: Direct students back to group norms if someone minimizes another's vulnerability.
• Inclusive Pacing: If a student finishes writing/exploring early, pair them as an active-listening mirror.
• Somatic Integration Check: Watch for high-anxiety behaviors (fidgeting, avoidance) and call for an impromptu "physiological sigh" group breath.
The Coping Compass — Counselor Assessment Rubric Page 4 of 4
Coping Compass Student Portfolio My personal ship's log
The Coping Compass
Navigating Grade 11 with Somatic Strength & Clear Vision
Student Name
Group / Period
Date Commenced
Setting the Coordinates
This portfolio is your personal toolkit for managing the stress, choices, and relationships of junior year. Through these pages, you will map your emotions, draft an emergency stress blueprint, and hone your communication skills. Keep this log safe; it belongs entirely to you.
Baseline Self-Report Scale (Pre-Assessment)
Read each statement below. Rate how confident or true it feels for you right now, using the scale from 1 to 5. Circle your choice.
Statement
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1. I can name exactly what emotion I am feeling in stressful moments.
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2. I notice physical warning signs in my body before I lose control.
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3. I have concrete coping strategies that I actually use when anxious.
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4. I can express my frustrations calmly without blaming others.
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5. I evaluate multiple options and consequences before making big decisions.
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SUM OF RATINGS (PRE-ASSESSMENT SCORE):
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Session 1 & 2: Mapping Internal Terrain
Self-Awareness Map
Coordinate 1: Somatic Emotion Mapping
Label three distinct emotions on the spectrum lines below (e.g., irritation, vulnerability, overwhelm). Then, describe where that sensation physically "lands" in your body (e.g., tight chest, clenched jaw, racing heart).
Emotion Label 1
Body Coordinates / Sensations
Emotion Label 2
Body Coordinates / Sensations
Emotion Label 3
Body Coordinates / Sensations
Coordinate 2: The Strengths Compass
Your personal strengths keep you anchored in a storm. In the compass cards below, identify two signature strengths (e.g., adaptability, integrity, humor, loyalty) and write a brief real-life example of when you relied on each strength.
Coping Compass Slides Group Counseling Series
The Coping Compass
Welcome to Today's Counseling Circle
This is your dedicated 30-minute space to step back, regulate, and navigate the pressures of high school with clarity and focus.
Support Respect Safety
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Step 1: Somatic Landing
5 Minutes
Box Breathing Reset
Slow, deliberate abdominal breathing signals safety to your nervous system, allowing your prefrontal cortex to come back online.
Let's take three complete rounds together as a circle.
1. Inhale 4 Seconds
2. Hold 4 Seconds
3. Exhale 4 Seconds
4. Pause 4 Seconds
Focus fully on the sensation of air filling your lungs.
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Step 2: Exploration Focus
8 Minutes
Notice Alarm
How does stress let you know it has arrived? Where do you carry physical tension?
Find Anchors
What are your personal signature strengths? How do you deploy them under pressure?
Connect Buddies
Who in your crew can you alert when you feel yourself drifting off-course?
Circle Prompt: "What is one academic stressor that triggers your body's alarm system?"
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Step 3: Active Skill Drill
12 Minutes
Paired Practice Session
Find your designated skill partner. Pull out your student portfolios and open to today's coordinate card. You will complete your mapping drills together.
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Draft Coordinates: Put ink to paper. Map your somatic hotspots or signature strengths.
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Mirror Sharing: Practice describing your triggers and coping strategies aloud without self-judgment.
Drill Countdown 12:00
Be ready to share out one key finding from your peer map!
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Step 4: Circle Integration
5 Minutes
Logbook Journaling
Let's finalize today's log. Write a brief reflection in your student portfolio work area based on the following prompt:
Today's Prompt:
"When stressful moments enter my frame, I will consciously anchor myself using..."
Provide highly specific answers: which somatic drill, which specific signature strength, or which buddy will you rely on?
Coping Compass Assessment Packet Student Measurement Tool
Coping Compass Assessment Packet
Pre-Assessment
Student Name
Counselor / Facilitator
Date Administered
Baseline Instructions
Please complete this self-assessment honestly before starting the 8-session program. Your answers will help us map your current strengths and focus areas. For each statement, circle the number that best reflects how often you behave or feel this way (1 = Never, 5 = Always ).
Competency Statement
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1. I can accurately identify when I am feeling stressed vs. when I am feeling tired.
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2. I understand how my emotional states influence my behavior and school choices.
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3. I regularly use somatic breathing or physical grounding when I feel overwhelmed.
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4. I am able to set concrete, step-by-step goals for managing academic stressors.
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5. I can summarize a peer's perspective on a topic, even if I completely disagree.
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6. I notice and respond appropriately to nonverbal signals (body language, tone).
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7. I use calm "I" statements to express my concerns instead of blaming others.
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8. I practice active listening (no interrupting, paraphrasing) in group discussions.
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9. I evaluate multiple potential options and their consequences before choosing.
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10. I align my choices with my core personal values, even under peer pressure.
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PRE-ASSESSMENT TOTAL SCORE (Sum of items 1-10; range: 10 - 50):
Session 1 Internal Coordinates Worksheet Session 1 — Self-Awareness
Internal Coordinates Map
Finding and naming emotional signals in the body
Student Name
Group / Period
Date
Part 1: Emotional Vocabulary Expansion
Instead of broad labels like "mad" or "sad," high-stakes situations demand precision. Examine the scenarios below. Select and write a highly precise emotion word (e.g., *overwhelmed, dismissed, hyper-vigilant, isolated*) that represents the peak feeling.
Scenario A: You see a group text where peers are discussing weekend plans you weren't invited to.
Precise Emotion Coordinate:
Scenario B: You walk into your third test of the day, knowing you didn't have enough time to review.
Precise Emotion Coordinate:
Part 2: Mapping Physical Stress Hotspots
Our nervous system notices threat signals before our conscious mind does. Where does stress accumulate in your body? Identify two distinct regions and outline the physical signals (e.g., tight shoulders, cold hands, racing pulse, shallow breath).
Hotspot Region 1 (e.g., shoulders, stomach)
Sensation Description
Hotspot Region 2 (e.g., jaw, chest)
Sensation Description
Somatic Reflection
"When my stress levels begin to rise, my body notices first by..."
The Coping Compass — Grade 11 SEL Curriculum Session 1 Worksheet
Session 2 Anchors and Sails Worksheet Session 2 — Self-Awareness
Anchors & Sails Map
Identifying and deploying your core signature strengths
Student Name
Group / Period
Date
Part 1: Personal Anchors Checklist
Look over the core adolescent character strengths below. Check the boxes of three strengths that resonate most strongly with who you are at your best.
Perseverance I finish what I start.
Adaptability I adjust well to change.
Humor & Wit I find light in darkness.
Integrity I am honest and authentic.
Curiosity I love exploring new ideas.
Loyalty I am a reliable team player.
Part 2: Deploying Strengths Under Wind/Stress
Choose one signature strength checked above. Describe how this specific strength functions as your "anchor" during a real high-pressure situation (e.g., college exam prep, family conflict, or friend drama).
Strength Selected
What does using this strength look like?
Practical Application Write a specific scenario where you will use it this week.
Strengths Reflection
"When peers or stress challenge my course, my core strength of ________ helps me stay anchored because..."
The Coping Compass — Grade 11 SEL Curriculum Session 2 Worksheet
Session 3 Steadying the Helm Worksheet Session 3 — Self-Management
Steadying the Helm
Direct practice of somatic breathing and muscle relaxation
Student Name
Group / Period
Date
Part 1: Nervous System State Tracker
Somatic practice shifts our body out of alert states. Record your somatic score before we begin our somatic drills and immediately after .
BEFORE Practice: State Rating
Tense / Racing
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Calm / Steady
AFTER Practice: State Rating
Tense / Racing
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Calm / Steady
Part 2: Somatic Reset Log
Complete both guided practices in class today. Note any physical changes you observed during each somatic reset.
Guided Box Breathing (4s-4s-4s-4s) What physical release signals occurred? (e.g., warm extremities, deeper sighs)
Progressive Muscle Relaxation (PMR) Which muscle group felt the most profound release (jaw, shoulders, hands)?
Log Reflection prompt
"When my chest begins to tighten and breathing becomes shallow, my immediate somatic exit strategy will be..."
The Coping Compass — Grade 11 SEL Curriculum Session 3 Worksheet
Session 4 Coping Blueprint Worksheet Session 4 — Self-Management
Drafting the Course Worksheet
My Emergency Coping Blueprint & Accountability Contract
Student Name
Coping Buddy / Partner
Date
Part 1: Identifying the Hazard Areas
Before implementing your recovery drill, you must know what hazards trigger your system and how your system alarms ring. Fill in your top triggers and somatic warning signs.
Top 2 Hazard Stressors (Academic/Social)
Primary Physical Alarm Signals
Part 2: Emergency Reset Steps
When the alarm goes off, what specific, actionable steps will you execute to calm your nervous system? Make them highly specific and sensory-focused (e.g., "Step 1: Inhale double breath; Step 2: Unclench hands").
Step 1:
Step 2:
Step 3:
Part 3: Safe Harbor Buddy Contract
An emergency blueprint works best with back-up support. In pairs, agree to a "Coping Buddy" partnership. Review the text-message script below and write down your pledge of peer support.
Coping Buddy Quick Text Script "Hey [Buddy Name], I'm hitting some storm winds right now and my alarms are ringing. Just wanted to alert my check-in partner. I'm going to run my reset steps now."
Coping Buddy Pledge (Student Hand-written sentence)
The Coping Compass — Grade 11 SEL Curriculum Session 4 Worksheet
Session 5 Reading the Wind Worksheet Session 5 — Social Awareness
Reading the Wind Worksheet
Perspective-taking & empathy-mapping adolescent conflicts
Student Name
Group / Period
Date
Part 1: Conflict Under the Microscope
Scenario: The Accusatory Group Project During a high-stakes chemistry project, Marcus fails to upload his slides by the midnight deadline. His group partner, Sarah, sends an angry, public message to the group chat: "Once again, some of us actually care about our GPAs while others just drag everyone down. Thanks for nothing, Marcus." Marcus is dealing with high family stress at home but feels completely humiliated.
Part 2: Mapping Under-the-Surface Perspectives
Select either Marcus or Sarah . Map their perspective using the three core empathy domains below. Write what is happening beneath their surface defense system.
1. What they THINK / FEAR What is their background anxiety?
2. What they FEEL / SOMATICS What body alarms are ringing?
3. What support they NEED What would de-escalate them?
Perspective Integration
"When a peer reacts angrily or let down, I will remind myself that their action might actually be driven by..."
The Coping Compass — Grade 11 SEL Curriculum Session 5 Worksheet
Session 6 Crew Communications Worksheet Session 6 — Relationship Skills
Crew Communications Worksheet
Assertive requests & active-listening skill drills
Student Name
Practice Partner
Date
Part 1: The Anatomy of an "I" Statement
Defensive "You" statements trigger partner defense systems. Clear "I" statements keep conversation channels open. Contrast these examples:
Defensive (You-Heavy) "You always ignore my texts and force me to do all the work in our group project."
Assertive (I-Heavy) "I feel anxious when texts are left unanswered because I need help staying organized."
Part 2: The Three-Part Request Generator
Draft a high-impact, blame-free communication request below, targeting a real conflict or boundary you need to set (e.g., asking a parent for academic breathing room or setting a boundary with a friend).
1. "I feel..."
2. "When..."
3. "I need..."
Part 3: Active Listening Paraphrase Drill
Pair up. Partner Alpha speaks for 1 minute about a hobby or stressor. Partner Beta listens without interrupting, then paraphrases back using: "What I hear you saying is..." Write down your partner's paraphrase of your story.
Partner's Paraphrased Echo (Student Hand-written log)
The Coping Compass — Grade 11 SEL Curriculum Session 6 Worksheet
Session 7 Steering Decisions Worksheet Session 7 — Responsible Decision-Making
Steering Decisions Map
Weighing consequences and aligning choices with core values
Student Name
Group / Period
Date
Part 1: The Decision Intersection
Scenario: The Shared Test Answers Twenty minutes before a final biology exam, your close friend texts you: "Hey, I was up all night working. Send me a photo of your study sheet or the formula guides. I'm desperate. I won't copy directly, just need to see how you structured the answers." Academic integrity is high-stakes at your school, but you don't want to leave your friend stranded.
Part 2: Mapping the Routes
Evaluate the two pathways below. Fill out the likely consequences and the long-term impact on your stress levels and relationships.
Route Alpha
Send the guide immediately Likely consequence & systemic risk:
Route Beta
Politely decline / Offer study support later Likely consequence & core value honored:
My Navigational Heading
"When peer expectations conflict with my academic or personal standards, I will guide my decision using my core value of _________ because..."
The Coping Compass — Grade 11 SEL Curriculum Session 7 Worksheet
Session 8 Safe Harbor Worksheet Session 8 — Synthesis & Graduation
Safe Harbor Summary Map
Reflecting on our 8-week journey and anchoring future habits
Student Name
Group / Period
Date
Part 1: Reviewing My Logbook
Over the past 8 weeks, you have mapped somatic hotspots, built a coping blueprint, practiced de-escalation communication, and evaluated value-aligned routes. Rate your current confidence in applying these skills on a daily basis.
1. Naming and identifying somatic stress alarms:
Needs Work12345Confident
2. Deploying box breathing and somatic PMR:
Needs Work12345Confident
3. Using blame-free "I" statements in conflicts:
Needs Work12345Confident
Part 2: Safe Harbor Personal Pledges
As you graduate from our counseling group, commit to two concrete actions to sustain your SEL growth. Make them specific, achievable, and direct.
Commitment 1 (Somatic/Self-Care) Which somatic reset will you practice weekly?
Commitment 2 (Social/Interpersonal) How will you stay connected with your buddy?
Safe Harbor Reflection
"The single most important coordinate I discovered about myself during this group experience is..."
The Coping Compass — Grade 11 SEL Curriculum Session 8 Worksheet
