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DBT Group Skills

A comprehensive 13-week curriculum for middle school students focused on the four core modules of Dialectical Behavior Therapy: Mindfulness, Interpersonal Effectiveness, Emotion Regulation, and Distress Tolerance. Students learn and practice key coping strategies in a supportive group setting.

IYilana yakubovich
Discovering Dialectics

Introduction to the concept of Dialectics and the DBT Group approach to building a life worth living.

Wise Mind Balance

Focuses on the Wise Mind concept—the balance between Reasonable Mind and Emotion Mind.

Observe and Describe

Teaching the 'What' skills of Mindfulness: Observe, Describe, and Participate.

Effective Action

Teaching the 'How' skills of Mindfulness: Non-judgmentally, One-mindfully, and Effectively.

Master of Requests

Using the DEAR MAN skill to ask for things or say no effectively while maintaining relationships.

Relationship Repair

Using the GIVE skill to maintain and strengthen relationships during interactions.

Self-Respect Shield

Using the FAST skill to maintain self-respect and remain true to personal values.

Emotion Detective

Learn to identify and name emotions to reduce their power and increase self-understanding.

Body Support System

The PLEASE skill to maintain a healthy body to support a healthy mind and emotional balance.

Impulse Override

The Opposite Action skill to change unwanted emotions by acting contrary to the emotional urge.

Crisis Cooling

The STOP and TIPP skills for immediate crisis management and physiological cooling.

Moment Improver

Self-soothing using the five senses and improving the moment with the IMPROVE skill.

Reality Acceptance

Radical Acceptance and turning the mind toward reality to reduce suffering and pain.

DBT Group Skills

A comprehensive 13-week curriculum for middle school students focused on the four core modules of Dialectical Behavior Therapy: Mindfulness, Interpersonal Effectiveness, Emotion Regulation, and Distress Tolerance. Students learn and practice key coping strategies in a supportive group setting.

IYilana yakubovich

Q10: Radical Acceptance

Desired Outcome: Suffering reduction.

Acceptance does not mean liking the situation. It means stopping the fight against reality to prevent pain from turning into suffering (Pain + Resistance = Suffering).

  • Observe (Inside and outside)
  • Proceed with Wise Mind
  • T.I.P.P. (Emergency)

    • Temperature (Cold water/ice)
    • Intense exercise
    • Paced breathing
    • Paired muscle relaxation

    Radical Acceptance

    Accepting what you cannot change.

    Pain + Resistance = Suffering

    Pain + Acceptance = Freedom

    DBT GROUP SKILLS DIVISION // Reference Manual // MS-2026

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