Recess Reset Worksheet
Recess Reset Worksheet
Pause • Reflect • Resolve Friendship Conflicts
Name:
Date:
Location:
Basketball Court Four-Square / Blacktop Field Other:
1
What Happened? (Stick to the Facts)
Who was involved?
Describe what took place without using insults (what could a video camera see or hear?):
2
Feelings & Perspective Check
My Emotions Check all that fit:
Excluded Frustrated Embarrassed Hurt Misunderstood Angry
Intensity (1=Mild, 5=Severe):
1 2 3 4 5
Their Lens
How might the other person have felt? Why do you think they reacted that way?
3
Choice & Consequence Map
Choice I Made at Recess
What did I do or say when the problem started?
What was the consequence/result?
Better Alternative for Next Time
What could I do instead if this happens again?
What better outcome would that create?
4
The Repair Plan: Fix It Forward
Next Action Step:
Talk 1-on-1 calmly Give each other space Apologize for my part Request teacher support
Draft Your "I-Statement": “I felt ___ when ___. Next time, let's ___.”
Class Readiness:
Ready to learn Need a 2-minute water break Need to speak with teacher
Student Sign-off:
Teacher Initials:
