Pause Think Slides
Second Grade Life Skills
Safe • Kind • Ready to Learn
Before You Report...
PAUSE AND THINK!
Tattling or reporting? Let's figure out the difference!
Our goal is to keep people safe, kind, and ready to learn.
We Can Solve Some Problems on Our Own
And we can always get adult help when someone needs to be safe!
Option 1
TRY IT YOURSELF
If it is safe, use your words, walk away, or try a kind solution.
Example: "Please don't do that, I'm working."
Option 2
GET HELP
If someone could get hurt, feels unsafe, or needs help, tell an adult right away.
Adults are always here to help keep you safe!
💡 Ask yourself: Is anyone in danger right now?
What's the Difference?
Tattling and reporting are not the same!
The important question is:
Are you trying to get someone IN TROUBLE, or get someone HELP?
TATTLING
Telling an adult about a small problem mainly to get someone in trouble.
No one is unsafe, and you could try solving it yourself.
Goal: To get someone in trouble 🛑
REPORTING
Telling an adult because someone may be hurt, unsafe, bullied, or needs help.
This is for a problem that you cannot solve on your own.
Goal: To keep people safe and help 🛡️
Which One Is It?
Let's Compare!
Listen to each example. Is it tattling or reporting?
Example 1
"He is not sitting criss-cross!"
Usually Tattling
Everyone is safe. You can focus on your own learning!
Example 2
"She fell and says her ankle hurts."
REPORTING!
She may be hurt and needs adult help right away.
Example 3
"I asked them to stop, but they won't stop bothering me."
REPORTING!
Repeated unkind behavior needs adult support.
Remember: It's reporting when someone is hurt or being treated unfairly!
Stop & Check
Before You Report, PAUSE AND THINK!
Ask yourself these four questions:
1
Could someone be hurt?
If yes, tell an adult right away!
2
Am I being kind?
Am I trying to help, not get someone in trouble?
3
Am I being helpful?
Will telling an adult help solve the problem?
4
Can I solve this on my own first?
If it is safe, try a calm, kind solution.
✨ If the answer to #1 is YES, don't wait—tell an adult immediately!
Safe & Respectful
Need to Report? You Can Speak Privately!
You do not have to announce the problem in front of everyone.
You can calmly say to your teacher:
"Can I talk to you privately?"
Your teacher will listen and help you find a safe solution.
Then tell the adult these 3 important things:
1
WHAT
What happened?
2
WHERE
Where did it happen?
3
WHO
Who needs help?
Voice Power
Words You Can Use!
Try a calm, clear sentence.
Boundary
"Please stop. I don't like that."
Kind Reset
"Let's try that again kindly."
Asking For Help
"I need help with a problem."
Safety First
"I don't feel safe. I need an adult."
🗣️ Speaking with a calm voice helps everyone listen and solve the problem faster!
Class Challenge
Let's Practice! What Would You Do?
For each situation, think: Pause, try a safe solution, or report.
Situation 1
A classmate accidentally bumps your chair.
Try A Safe Solution
If it is safe, calmly say: "Please be careful."
Situation 2
You see someone being pushed on the playground.
REPORT IT!
Someone could get hurt! Report it to an adult right away.
Situation 3
Someone keeps taking your things after you asked them to stop.
REPORT IT!
You tried on your own. Now ask an adult for help!
👏 Great job! Pausing and thinking helps us make kind, smart choices!
Key Takeaway
REMEMBER!
PAUSE. THINK. THEN CHOOSE.
Safety Rule
If someone could be hurt or unsafe, REPORT IT.
Privacy Rule
If you need help, ask to speak to an adult privately.
You Are Always Supported
You will never be in trouble for asking for help to stay safe!