Dual Feelings Handout
Dual Feelings
Name:
Date:
The Angry Hand
Write or draw what makes you feel mad about the situation. Lies, not being heard, choices made for you.
The Hurt Hand
Write or draw what feels sad or painful underneath. Missing someone, feeling left out, wishing things were different.
Trace both of your hands in the space below. Label one Angry Hand and the other Hurt Hand.
EXPRESS
← Angry Hand
Hurt Hand →
Flip over to reflect on your hands
Reflect & Process
"Both feelings can exist at the same time. You don't have to choose just one."
Which hand do you show people the most? (Surface Feeling)
Which hand is harder for you to show to others? Why?
What helps you take care of the "Hurt Hand" feeling?
Identity & Responsibility
Transitioning from "Adult" to Teen
Sometimes we take on "adult" worries to survive changes in our family. But you deserve space to be a teenager—to feel, to play, and to not have all the answers.
What is one "adult" burden or worry you would like to put down today so you can focus on being yourself?
Your feelings are valid. Take care of yourself.