STEP Solvers Slides
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Grade 3 Conflict Unit
Master the
Conflict Code
Disagreements happen, but friendship is stronger! Learn how to use the STEP method to construct fair, kind solutions to any problem.
Welcome, Conflict Resolvers!
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Case File #1
What is a Conflict?
A conflict isn't a fight—it's just a simple roadblock! It happens when two classmates want different things at the same time.
The Problem: When feelings get hot, we blame others. Blaming blocks our thinking brain from finding a solution.
The Empathy Bridge
Instead of yelling, we can pause, calm down, and listen to what both people want.
🛠️ THE STEP BLUEPRINT:
We have a 4-step tool that cracks open any conflict like a safe. Let's see how it works!
Conflicts are healthy chances to make friendships stronger.
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The STEP Blueprint
S
Say the Problem
Say the problem without blaming. Describe what each character wants.
Name both wants!
T
Think Solutions
Brainstorm multiple ideas. Make sure they are safe, fair, and kind!
Be highly creative!
E
Explore Outcomes
Think about what would happen. Does it meet the wants of both people?
Predict results!
P
Pick & Explain
Choose the absolute best solution. Explain why it is the fairest choice.
Lock in compromise!
Four simple steps to turn roadblocks into superhighways!
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Step One
Say the Problem
Without Blaming!
To solve a conflict, we must state what each person wants in the scenario. This removes blame and builds an empathy bridge!
Check out this crucial difference:
The Blaming Way (Wrong ❌)
"He's hogging the silver marker and won't let me draw!"
The STEP Way (Correct- Say the Wants! Option 🚀)
"Ben wants to use the silver marker to color, and Chloe also wants to use the silver marker to color."
When we state both wants, everyone feels heard and respected.
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Step Three & Four
Explore & Pick!
Explore Outcomes
Think ahead. If we choose this solution, does it meet the wants of both characters?
Use your imagination!
Pick & Compromise
Choose the solution that is the most fair. Avoid choices where only one person is happy!
Fair is friendly!
Explain Your Choice
Always be ready to answer: "I picked this solution because it helps both people by..."
Speak with clarity!
Great leaders explain the 'why' behind their compromise decisions.
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Case Assignment
Open Your STEP Solve Journals
It's time to put your conflict-resolution blueprints to work. Open your case sheets and solve your first official peer disagreement using STEP!
Complete the Blueprint Sheet
Unlock your Conflict Solver Badge
Fair solutions make lifelong friends!
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STEP Solvers Workbook
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Conflict Solving Journal
Say the problem, Think of ideas, Explore outcomes, and Pick a fair choice!
Name:
Date:
The STEP Rule: No Blame!
When we describe a problem, we don't point fingers. Instead, we use empathy and describe exactly what each person wants in the scenario. This cools down angry feelings and helps us start building a compromise!
The Active Conflict Scenario
The Field Tug-of-War
"During recess, Liam wants to play kickball on the small grass field. His best friend Lucas wants to use that exact same grass field to play a game of tag. They both stand on the grass, cross their arms, glare at each other, and start raising their voices."
S Say the Problem (Stating the Wants)
Fill in the blanks to say the problem without blaming either person. Use empathy to state both wants:
Liam wants to:
Lucas wants to:
T Think of Solutions
Brainstorm three creative ways Liam and Lucas could settle this disagreement. (Make sure they are safe, fair, and kind!):
Solution 1
Solution 2
Solution 3
Turn the page to explore outcomes and pick the best choice! 🚀 Page 1 of 2
STEP Solvers Blueprint
Outcome Explorer & Pick
Evaluate your solutions and lock in the ultimate compromise!
Conflict Expert
E
Explore Outcomes
For each of your solutions on Page 1, explore the outcomes. If they pick this choice, would both characters get what they want? Is it fair?
Idea
How Liam would feel:
How Lucas would feel:
#1
#2
#3
P
Pick a Solution & Explain Why
Review your outcomes. Which solution is the most fair and keeps their friendship strong? Mark your selection and explain your reasoning.
I pick Solution Number:
#1 #2 #3
Explain your "Why": How does this choice meet the wants of BOTH friends?
My Certified STEP Solver Oath
I pledge to use the STEP blueprint whenever I face a roadblock with a classmate. I know that stating our wants, brainstorming kind solutions, and cooperating on compromises is the ultimate way to keep our classroom happy and fair.
I signed this conflict solver blueprint:
You have unlocked your Conflict Solver Badge! 🛠️🏅 Page 2 of 2