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Decoding Digital Body Language

This 60-minute lesson for 8th-10th graders explores the nuances of digital body language, teaching students to interpret non-verbal cues in texts, emails, and video calls to improve communication and empathy.

JRJennifer Ruhle

Decoding Digital Body Language

This 60-minute lesson for 8th-10th graders explores the nuances of digital body language, teaching students to interpret non-verbal cues in texts, emails, and video calls to improve communication and empathy.

JRJennifer Ruhle

Eye contact: Looking at camera vs. looking away.

Environment

Background: Tidy vs. messy, distracting vs. professional.

Don't forget posture & active listening cues (nodding)!


1

Scenario: Text Message

"Want to hang out later?"

"idk. maybe."

What could this mean?


"idk. maybe."

Possible Meanings:

  • • Genuinely unsure or busy.
  • • Not enthusiastic but avoiding "no."
  • • Hinting they aren't interested.

Cues to Notice:

  • - Lack of emojis
  • - Short/noncommittal response
  • - Lowercase "idk"
  • - The "aggressive period" at the end

2

Scenario: Email

New Message

Subject: project

"we need to finish this. when u free?"

What impression does this give you?


Time to Practice!

In your groups, you will analyze different digital communication scenarios.

1. Identify the CUES

2. Infer the MEANING

3. Propose a RESPONSE


Sharing Our Insights

  • • What was challenging about the scenarios?
  • • Did any interpretations surprise you?
  • • What strategies did you come up with for responding?

Your Turn

Take a few minutes to complete the worksheet individually.

Reflection Goals:

  • ✓ How can you apply these skills today?
  • ✓ Strategies for being a clearer communicator.
  • ✓ Identifying your own "digital habits."

Key Takeaways

Digital Body Language is REAL!

It's not just what you say, but how you "click," "type," and "display."

Pay attention to cues.

Consider the context.

Mind your own cues.


One New Strategy?

What is ONE thing you will try differently the next time you communicate online to ensure your message is clear?

[ Student Responses ]


Communicate with

Clarity & Empathy

In a world connected by screens, let's strive to connect with understanding.

#DigitalCitizenship #ClearCommunication #EmpathyOnline

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