Emotion Guests Slides Mindfulness Lesson 1
The Guest House
of Emotions
Who is knocking at your door today?
Morning Check-In
If Anger knocked on your front door right now...
What would he look like?
Does he have fiery hair? Is he wearing heavy boots? Is he carrying a megaphone?
What would he say?
"It's not fair!" or "Out of my way!" or "Listen to me!"
The Guest House Metaphor
Think of your mind like a cozy house. Emotions are like visitors who come to stay for a little while.
Some guests are joyful and bring flowers.
Some guests are messy and loud.
The important part? They all eventually leave.
Meet the Guests
Joy
Arrives with a bounce and makes the house feel bright and airy.
Fear
Checks the locks and hides under the blankets. Wants to keep us safe.
Sadness
Brings a heavy suitcase and needs a quiet place to sit and rest.
"Welcome and entertain them all!"
Your Turn
Visitor Profile Activity
1 Choose one emotion that has visited you recently.
2 Draw what they look like on your worksheet.
3 Write down their "Guest Rules" (what they need while staying).
Welcome the Guest Worksheet Welcome the Guest
Emotion Visitor Profile • Mindfulness Lesson 1
Name:
Date:
"This being human is a guest house. Every morning a new arrival." Think of an emotion that has visited you recently (like Joy, Anger, Worry, or Boredom). Fill out the visitor profile below to get to know them better!
Visitor Portrait
Draw your emotion as a person, animal, or creature.
Guest Name:
What does this visitor look like?
What do they say or sound like?
What message or "gift" do they bring?
(e.g., Fear might bring a "gift" of staying safe. Sadness might bring a "gift" of needing rest.)
How will you "host" this guest?
Mindfulness means noticing the guest without letting them take over the whole house. What can you do to be a kind host while they stay?
I will let them...
But I won't let them...
Visitor Guide Teacher Resource Teacher Guide
Lesson 1: The Guest House of Emotions
Emotional Literacy • 45-60 Mins
Learning Objective
Students will externalize emotions by personifying them as "guests," helping them understand that feelings are temporary and do not define their identity.
The Guest House (Kid-Friendly Adaptation)
This being human is a guest house.
Every morning a new arrival.
A joy, a depression, a meanness,
some momentary awareness comes
as an unexpected visitor.
Welcome and entertain them all!
Even if they are a crowd of sorrows,
who violently sweep your house empty of its furniture,
still, treat each guest honorably.
They may be clearing you out for some new delight.
The dark thought, the shame, the malice,
meet them at the door laughing and invite them in.
Be grateful for whoever comes,
because each has been sent as a guide.
Key Concepts
Impermanence: Emotions come and go; they don't stay forever.
Externalization: You are the house, not the guest.
Non-Judgment: No "good" or "bad" emotions; all are visitors.
Materials Needed
• Emotion Guests Slides
• Welcome the Guest Worksheet
• Art supplies (markers/crayons)
Facilitation Guide
1
The Hook: Who's at the Door? (10 mins)
Teacher Script: "Imagine your mind is a front door. If 'Worry' knocked right now, how would they knock? Softly? A loud rhythmic thumping? What would they be wearing?"
Lead a short discussion based on Slide 2. Encourage creative descriptions.
2
Reading the Poem (15 mins)
"This poem was written 800 years ago by a man named Rumi. He says we should 'welcome and entertain them all.' Even the messy ones. Why would he say that?"
Discussion Prompt: What does it mean for an emotion to 'sweep the house empty'? (Relate to feeling overwhelmed or exhausted).
3
Visitor Profile (25 mins)
Hand out the Welcome the Guest Worksheet . Guide students to think about the "Gift" the emotion brings.
Example: "Anger's gift might be showing us that something is unfair. Fear's gift is keeping us from danger."
Support & Extension
For Struggling Students
"Focus on physical sensations. Does the guest feel hot? Heavy? Sharp? Use those as clues for the drawing."
For Advanced Students
"Think about the 'Room' they stay in. Does Joy stay in the living room while Sadness stays in the basement? How do they interact if two guests arrive at once?"
Surfing the Urge Slides Mindfulness Lesson 2
Surfing
the Urge
How to ride the waves of your feelings.
Emotions are Waves
They start small and build up slowly.
They reach a PEAK where they feel strongest.
Then, they always—eventually—crash and fade.
"You can't stop the waves,
but you can learn to surf."
What is an "Urge"?
The Feeling
An urge is that strong impulse to do something right now.
• The urge to yell when angry.
• The urge to run away when nervous.
• The urge to snatch a toy.
The Surf
Urge Surfing means waiting. You notice the urge, but you don't act on it. You ride the wave until it gets smaller.
How to Ride the Wave
01
NOTICE the sensation.
Where do you feel the wave in your body? Hot chest? Tight hands?
02
BREATHE into it.
Don't fight the feeling. Just let it be there. It's just a wave.
03
WATCH it peak.
The urge will get very strong. Stay on the board! It will pass.
The "No-Itch" Challenge
In a moment, we are going to sit perfectly still for 1 minute. If you feel an itch, don't scratch it. Notice the urge to scratch. Watch it build. See if it fades away on its own.
Ready to Surf?
Wave Watcher Log Worksheet Wave Watcher Log
Impulse Control • Mindfulness Lesson 2
Name:
Date:
1
The No-Itch Challenge
Think about the minute we spent sitting still. When you felt an itch (an urge), what happened?
Where did the urge start?
(e.g., my nose, my elbow, my foot...)
How strong was the wave?
Small
Medium
Big
PEAK!
What happened to the itch after a few seconds?
2
Real-Life Wave
Think of a time you felt a strong emotion (like anger, frustration, or excitement). Use the "Wave Map" below to show how you surfed it.
The Arrival
The Peak
The Crash
The Urge: What did you want to do?
The Surf: How did you breathe or wait?
The After: How did it feel when it passed?
Pro Surfer Tip: When the wave is at its PEAK, that's when it's hardest to stay on the board. Take 3 slow breaths and remind yourself: "This wave is just passing through."
Surfing Session Teacher Guide Teacher Guide
Lesson 2: Surfing the Urge
Impulse Control • 45 Mins
The Big Idea
Urge Surfing is a technique for managing unwanted impulses. Instead of fighting the impulse (which often makes it stronger) or giving in to it, we learn to "ride" the sensation until it naturally subsides.
Activity: The No-Itch Challenge
Objective: Experience an urge peaking and crashing in a safe, controlled way.
Ask students to sit comfortably but perfectly still. No fidgeting, no scratching.
Set a timer for 1 or 2 minutes.
Tell them: "An itch will likely appear. Your job is to notice it . See where it is. Watch it get itchy-er. But do not scratch it. Just watch the wave."
If the itch gets unbearable, they can take a deep breath into the spot that itches.
Discussion Prompts
"Did your itch eventually go away without you touching it?"
"How did your body feel when the wave was at its highest point?"
"Is it easier to surf a physical itch or an emotional urge (like wanting to yell)?"
Pro Surfer Phrases
• "Ride the wave."
• "Wait for the crash."
• "Breath is the surfboard."
Guided Practice Script
"Close your eyes if you’re comfortable, or just look down at your desk. We are going to find a wave inside us right now."
"If you feel an itch on your nose, don't scratch. Just notice it. Say to yourself, 'Ah, there is the itch wave. It's starting to rise.'"
"Now, it's getting stronger. It feels like you MUST scratch it. This is the PEAK . Stay on your board. Take a slow breath. In... and out..."
"Notice how the sensation starts to change. It might tingle, or feel hot, or slowly get quieter. That is the wave CRASHING back into the ocean."
"You did it. You surfed a wave. Every feeling in your life is just like that itch—it has a beginning, a middle, and an end."
Troubleshooting
"What if they scratch it?"
That's okay! It's hard to surf. Remind them that even professional surfers fall off their boards. The goal is just to notice the urge next time.
"Can this work for anger?"
Absolutely. Explain that the "urge" to yell is the peak of the anger wave. If we can wait 30 seconds (3 big breaths), the wave usually starts to crash on its own.
Recess Remix Slides Mindfulness Lesson 3
Recess
Remix
Changing the ending with a pause.
What Happened?
THE CASE STUDY
"Leo is playing basketball. Sam calls a foul, but Leo disagrees. Sam grabs the ball and refuses to give it back. Leo’s face gets hot. He feels the urge to push Sam. He yells a mean word, and Sam yells back. A teacher has to come over and both boys lose their recess for the rest of the week."
Let's Rewind...
In that story, when was the WAVE PEAKING for Leo?
When Sam called the foul?
When Leo's face got hot?
When he felt the urge to push?
The Power of the Pause
The Reaction
Feeling an urge and acting on it immediately. (Autopilot Mode)
Consequence: Lost Recess
The Response
Feeling an urge, taking a breath, and choosing what to do. (Mindful Mode)
Consequence: Conflict Resolved
Group Challenge
In your small groups, you will receive a Recess Remix Card .
Identify the exact moment the "Wave" reached its peak.
Write a "Remix" ending where the character uses a mindfulness pause.
Conflict Chronology Worksheet Conflict Chronology
Reaction vs. Response • Mindfulness Lesson 3
Name:
Group:
The Basketball Blow-Up
"Sam grabs the ball and refuses to give it back. Leo’s face gets hot. He feels the urge to push Sam. He yells a mean word, and Sam yells back."
Step 1: The Trigger
What happened at the very beginning?
Step 2: The Wave
What did Leo feel in his body/mind?
Step 3: The Reaction
What did he do on "autopilot"?
The Mindful Remix
Imagine Leo takes a Mindfulness Pause at Step 2.
The Pause Choice:
What could he do to surf the urge? (e.g., walk away, breathe)
The New Outcome:
How does the story end now?
Group Scenario
Read the scenario card your teacher gave you. Map it out below:
1
2
3
Trigger
The Wave (Peak)
Mindful Response
Mindful Moments Cards Recess Remix Scenario Cards
Cut along the dotted lines • Lesson 3 Group Activity
Scenario A
The Lunchroom Line
Maya is waiting in the lunch line. Someone accidentally bumps into her and steps on her brand-new shoes. Maya feels her face getting hot. She wants to turn around and shove them. She thinks, "They did that on purpose!"
Your Challenge:
Where is the peak of Maya's wave? How can she remix her response?
Scenario B
The Math Mix-Up
David is working on a hard math problem. He keeps getting the wrong answer. He feels a tight knot in his stomach. He grabs his pencil so hard it almost breaks. He wants to rip up his paper and quit the whole lesson.
Your Challenge:
Identify David's body clues. What "Guest" is visiting him right now?
Scenario C
The Friend Frown
Chloe waves at her best friend across the playground, but the friend doesn't wave back. Chloe feels a "drop" in her chest. She thinks her friend is mad at her. She decides to ignore her friend for the rest of the day and act mean.
Your Challenge:
Is Chloe's wave a fast wave or a slow, heavy wave? How can she "surf" it?
Scenario D
The Video Game Vibe
Ben is playing a game with his brother. His brother beats him by one point. Ben feels a surge of energy in his arms. He wants to throw the controller. He opens his mouth to yell something mean about his brother's skill.
Your Challenge:
Remix this story! What is the mindful response that saves the controller?
Cut and Distribute to Groups
Heart Power Slides Mindfulness Lesson 4
Heart
Power
Sending secret kindness beams.
Kindness Beams
Can thinking kind thoughts about someone actually change how you feel?
"We aren't trying to change the other person. We are changing the way our own heart feels."
Who do we send kindness to?
Yourself
Because you deserve your own kindness first!
A Friend
Someone who makes you smile easily.
Someone New
Someone you don't know well (like a store clerk or a kid in the hall).
What do we say?
Repeat these words in your head:
May you be safe.
May you be happy.
May you be kind to yourself.
The Secret Signal
Today, your mission is to send "Kindness Beams" to 3 different people in the school. Don't tell them! Just look at them, say the words in your head, and see how you feel afterwards.
Mission Accepted
Secret Kindness Log Worksheet Secret Kindness Log
Metta Practice • Mindfulness Lesson 4
Name:
Mission Date:
Your Mission: Today, you are sending "Secret Kindness Beams" to three different people. Look at them, say the heart phrases in your head, and then notice how you feel. Remember, they don't have to know!
Target 1: Yourself
The Reflection
When you said kind words to yourself, how did your chest or stomach feel?
I felt warmer/softer
It felt a bit silly or strange
I felt more relaxed
Target 2: A Friend
The Mission
Think of a friend. When you sent them a kindness beam, what happened to your mood?
Quick Check
Color in the hearts that describe how your heart feels right now:
Target 3: Someone Neutral
The Observations
Choose someone you don't know well. How did it feel to wish them well without them knowing?
The Reflection:
"When I send kindness to others, I feel..."
Neuroscience Note: When we practice "Heart Power," we are training our brains to be less reactive and more compassionate. It's like a workout for your empathy muscles!
RAIN Storm Slides Mindfulness Lesson 5
The RAIN
Technique
An umbrella for the stormy days.
What is R.A.I.N.?
R
Recognize
Notice what is happening right now.
A
Allow
Let the feeling be there. Don't fight it.
I
Investigate
Check your body. Where is the wave?
N
Nurture
Be kind to yourself. Offer a "heart-power" thought.
R Recognize
"Oh, look! Sadness is knocking at the door." or "Wow, my anger wave is starting to rise."
A Allow
"It's okay that I feel this way right now. I don't have to push it away. I can just let it stay for a while."
I Investigate
Scan your body. Is your chest tight? Are your hands hot? Is your breath fast?
N Nurture
Put a hand on your heart. Say something kind: "I am safe. This will pass. I'm doing my best."
Pocket Guide
We are going to create a foldable RAIN Guide that you can keep in your desk or pocket for whenever a "storm" happens.
1. Cut
2. Decorate
3. Fold
Pocket RAIN Guide Template My Pocket RAIN Guide
Fold along the center and side lines to create a mini-booklet
R
Recognize
What is happening right now?
"I notice that..."
A
Allow
Let the feeling be there.
"It's okay to feel..."
I
Investigate
Check your body clues.
My Heart
My Hands
"I feel it in my..."
N
Nurture
Show yourself kindness.
"I am doing my best."
"This wave will pass."
"I am safe right now."
"Kind thought..."
Cover Art
Your Name
Emotion Weather Map Exit Ticket Emotion Weather Map
Unit Reflection • Lesson 5 Exit Ticket
1. What is your weather right now?
Sunny
Cloudy
Rainy
Stormy
Windy
Why did you choose this weather? What "Guest" is visiting you?
2. Your Mindfulness Toolbox
Which of these strategies do you think is the most helpful for you?
The Guest House
Thinking of feelings as visitors.
Urge Surfing
Riding the wave until it crashes.
Heart Power
Sending secret kindness beams.
The RAIN Checklist
Recognize, Allow, Investigate, Nurture.
Final Thought
Next time you feel a very strong emotion (at the peak of the wave), what is one thing you will try to do before you react?
Mindfulness Strategies Unit Well done!