Feeling Detectives Facilitator Guide Week 1 of 6 Kindergarten Lunch Bunch
Feeling Detectives Facilitator Guide
Session Time 25 Minutes
Weekly Skill Goal
Introduce lunch group norms, build psychological safety, and teach students to recognize and name 4 core feelings: Happy, Sad, Mad, and Calm .
Supplies Needed
Feeling Faces Activity Mat (1 per student), crayons, hand wipes/napkins, student lunchboxes/cafeteria trays, detective magnifying glass prop (optional).
Step-by-Step Session Plan (25 Minutes)
1. Settle & Lunch Circle Agreements (5 Min) Arrival & Food Setup
Help students open juice boxes, thermos containers, and wrappers. Introduce the 3 Calm Club Promises:
1. Safe Hands & Mouths 2. Kind Ears Listening 3. All Feelings Welcome
2. The Feeling Detective Clue Game (8 Min) Modeling & Chewing
While students chew, model detective clues. Show facial expressions and body posture.
Script Prompt: "Detectives look for clues! When I smile and bounce, my clue says I feel HAPPY. What does my face do when I feel MAD? Eyebrows go down, lips get tight!"
Have students silently copy each emotion face while swallowing food (Happy, Sad, Mad, Calm).
3. Check-In Mat & Share Time (8 Min) Hands-on Practice
Hand out the Feeling Faces Activity Mat . Students point with their index finger to how they felt this morning, then draw a quick feeling face. Go around circle: "Today I felt [emotion] when..."
4. Wrap-Up & Calming Cheer (4 Min) Clean Up & Line Up
Pack lunchboxes and wipe tables. Lead group cheer: "Hands on heart, take a breath in... Calm Club Explorers are ready to win!" Line up safely.
Kindergarten Lunch Pro-Tips
Managing Spills & Talking: Keep wet paper towels nearby. Establish the rule: "Food in mouth = ears are listening; mouth empty = ready to talk."
Reluctant Sharers: If a student shrugs or says "I don't know," offer two choices: "Did your morning feel more like a bouncy puppy (happy) or a sleepy bear (calm)?"
Feeling Faces Activity Mat 🔍
Calm Club • Week 1 Lunch Bunch Mat
Feeling Faces Activity Mat
Name:
Date:
1
Finger Check-In: How do you feel right now?
Point with your finger!
😊
Happy Smiling & Sunny
😌
Calm Quiet & Ready
😢
Sad Teary or Heavy
😠
Mad Hot or Grumpy
2
Detective Artist: Draw the eyes and mouths!
Look at the emotion clue, then draw the face inside the blank circle.
Happy Face
Big happy smile!
Mad Face
V-eyebrows & frown
Calm Face
Gentle soft smile
3
Feeling Match: Draw a line from the story to the feeling!
🍦 Leo gets his favorite ice cream scoop.
Happy 😊
🧱 A tall block tower gets knocked down.
Mad 😠
🧸 Resting on the soft rug with a blanket.
Calm 😌
Calm Club Detective Rule: "All feelings are okay! What we do with them matters."
Body Signals Facilitator Guide Week 2 of 6 Kindergarten Lunch Bunch
Body Signals Facilitator Guide
Session Time 25 Minutes
Weekly Skill Goal
Help students connect physical body sensations (racing heart, clutched fists, fluttering tummy, wiggly toes) to emotional states so they can catch big feelings early.
Supplies Needed
Body Clues Explorer Sheets, red/yellow/green/blue crayons, wet wipes for hands, paper towels for lunch trays.
Step-by-Step Session Plan (25 Minutes)
1. Lunch Setup & Feeling Review (5 Min) Arrival Routine
Settle students with their lunches. Review Week 1's 3 Calm Club Promises. Ask for a quick thumb check: "Thumbs up if your morning was smooth, thumbs sideways if it had a bump."
2. "My Body is a Smoke Alarm" Story (7 Min) Instruction & Modeling
Explain that our bodies send us text messages or siren beeps before a big meltdown happens.
Script: "Your body talks to you! Before you shout or cry, your body gives CLUES. Your heart goes thump-thump-thump! Your hands make tight rocks! Or your tummy feels like jumping frogs!"
Model hand to chest: "Put your palm on your heart. Can you feel your quiet beat?"
3. Body Clues Explorer Activity (9 Min) Targeted Practice
Hand out the Body Clues Explorer Sheet . Guide students to color the body clues:
Heart: Color green if quiet, color red if fast like a race car!
Tummy: Color yellow if it feels twisty or full of butterflies.
Hands: Open and wiggle fingers (soft) vs squeezing tight (angry rocks).
4. Clean Up & "Freeze and Soften" Reset (4 Min) Transition
Students pack up trays. Lead 10-second muscle release: "Squeeze hands into tight lemons... now drop them like warm cooked spaghetti! Ahhh." Walk calmly to line.
Developmental Coaching Note
Concrete Language: Kindergarteners struggle with abstract terms like "anxiety" or "tension." Always use tangible words: tight rocks, buzz bees, race car heart, melted butter.
Physical Safety Check: If a student shows clenched fists often, reinforce that clenching hands is normal, but hands must always stay on our own body.
Body Clues Explorer Sheet ⚡
Calm Club • Week 2 Body Map Activity
Body Clues Explorer Sheet
Name:
Date:
Detective Color Key: How does your body feel?
Green = Calm & Soft
Yellow = Wiggly / Fast
Red = Hot / Super Mad
Blue = Slow / Tired
Color or circle the body clues that happen to YOU!
🧠 Head Clue
Does your head feel dizzy, noisy, or nice and quiet?
✊ Hands Clue
Are hands tight rocks or soft waving flowers?
❤️ 🦋 Me & My Body
❤️ Heart Clue
Thumping fast like a train, or soft and quiet?
🦋 Tummy Clue
Butterflies fluttering or calm and hungry?
👟 Feet Clue
Stomping and kicking, or calm on the floor?
⭐ My Body Detective Power:
"When I feel my clues, I can take a pause!"
Calming Breaths Facilitator Guide Week 3 of 6 Kindergarten Lunch Bunch
Calming Breaths Facilitator Guide
Session Time 25 Minutes
Weekly Skill Goal
Equip 5- and 6-year-olds with three tactile, imaginative breath strategies that calm the central nervous system when big emotions feel overwhelming.
Supplies Needed
Rainbow Breaths Tracing Mats, small pinwheels or cotton balls for demonstration (optional), crayons, student lunches, wet wipes.
Step-by-Step Session Plan (25 Minutes)
1. Lunch Settle & Engine Speed Check (5 Min) Arrival Routine
Help unpack lunches. Ask: "Is your engine running Slow (blue), Just Right (green), or Fast (red) today?" Students chew while listening to the breath mission.
2. Teach The "Big 3" Calming Breaths (8 Min) Sensory Modeling
🥣 Hot Soup Breath
Hold hands like a bowl. Smell the yummy soup in (nose)... gently blow to cool it down (mouth).
🎈 Belly Balloon
Both hands on tummy. Breathe in to puff the balloon out big! Exhale with a gentle hiss: sssss .
⭐ Starfish Trace
Spread one hand out. Trace up a finger (breathe in), trace down a finger (breathe out). 5 full breaths!
3. Finger Tracing on Rainbow Mats (8 Min) Guided Practice
Distribute Rainbow Breaths Tracing Mats . Practice sliding pointer fingers along the curved rainbow track:
"Slide up the rainbow: Breathe in sunshine! Touch the fluffy cloud: Hold a tiny second. Slide down to the pot of gold: Blow out the gray clouds!"
4. Clean Up & "Secret Breath" Challenge (4 Min) Classroom Bridge
Clean lunch table. Challenge: "When you sit on your classroom rug this afternoon, try 1 Hot Soup breath without anyone even noticing!"
Facilitator Troubleshooting
Preventing Hyperventilating: Young children often gasp fast and hard. Emphasize: "Gentle and slow like blowing a soap bubble without popping it."
Food in Mouth Safety: Always make sure students swallow their food before attempting deep breathing or belly breaths to prevent choking.
Rainbow Breaths Tracing Mat 🌈
Calm Club • Week 3 Breathing Mat
Rainbow Breaths Tracing Mat
Name:
Date:
☝️ Put your pointer finger on the START circle. Trace and breathe!
Slow & Gentle
1. The Rainbow Sky Finger Trace Trace 3 times!
PAUSE START Breathe IN ⬆️ FINISH Breathe OUT ⬇️
🖐️ Starfish
2. Five-Finger Starfish
Trace up your thumb (in), slide down (out). Go up and down all five fingers to feel calm!
🥣 Hot Soup
3. Bowl of Hot Soup
Hold the bowl in both hands. Smell the warm soup (breathe in), blow gently to cool it down (breathe out).
✨ Color a star each time you complete a rainbow breath:
1 2 3
Reset Toolbox Facilitator Guide Week 4 of 6 Kindergarten Lunch Bunch
Reset Toolbox Facilitator Guide
Session Time 25 Minutes
Weekly Skill Goal
Introduce physical sensory resets and tactile coping choices that students can carry in their pockets or use independently when big feelings surge.
Supplies Needed
Pocket Coping Card Sets (1 per student), child-safe scissors, small envelopes or baggies for pocket cards, water bottles, lunch supplies.
Step-by-Step Session Plan (25 Minutes)
1. Lunch Settle & Sensory 5-4-3-2-1 (5 Min) Arrival Routine
Guide students through a rapid sensory grounder while eating: "Look around our lunch table: name 3 things you see, 2 things you hear, and 1 crunchy texture in your lunch!"
2. Meet the Calm Tools (8 Min) Interactive Modeling
Model three zero-prop coping tools students can use anywhere without disturbing others:
🦋 Butterfly Hug
Cross arms on chest. Tap left shoulder, then right shoulder gently like fluttering wings.
💧 The Cool Water Reset
Take three slow swallows of water. Feel the cool chill travel down to your tummy.
💪 Desk / Chair Press
Press hands flat against the chair seat or table. Push down for 5 seconds (heavy work).
3. Build Pocket Coping Card Sets (8 Min) Hands-on Craft
Hand out the Pocket Coping Card Set . Students color their favorite 2 tools and cut them out along the dashed lines to store in their "Calm Club Pocket Pouch."
4. Clean Up & "My Favorite Tool" Check-Out (4 Min) Closing Check
Clean table and collect trash. Go around circle: "My favorite reset tool is [tool name]." Students tuck their card into their pocket or backpack.
Lunch Bunch Strategy
Scissor Safety During Lunch: Have students completely finish eating and put away messy containers before handing out child safety scissors.
Classroom Teacher Carryover: Let classroom teachers know students carry these pocket cards so they can prompt: "Check your calm pocket!"
Pocket Coping Card Set 🧰
Calm Club • Week 4 Pocket Coping Cards
Pocket Coping Card Set
Name:
Date:
✂️ Color your favorite calm tools! Cut along the dashed lines to keep in your pocket!
Keep & Use
Tool #1 ✂️ Cut
💧
Cool Water Sips
Take 3 slow sips of water. Feel the cool calm in your tummy!
"Cool water slows my engine down."
Tool #2 ✂️ Cut
🦋
Butterfly Hug
Cross arms over chest. Tap shoulders left, right, left, right gently.
"I am safe. My body can soften."
Tool #3 ✂️ Cut
🖐️
Starfish Hand
Trace 5 fingers. Breathe in going up, breathe out going down.
"5 slow breaths to feel ready."
Tool #4 ✂️ Cut
💪
Seat or Desk Press
Press hands flat into your chair. Push strong for 5 seconds!
"Strong muscles help me focus."
Tool #5 ✂️ Cut
🏖️
Happy Safe Spot
Close eyes. Picture your cozy bed, a puppy, or the swing set!
"My mind is peaceful and sunny."
Tool #6 ✂️ Cut
🗣️
Ask a Grown-Up
Find a teacher or lunch helper: "I feel big feelings. Can you help?"
"It is brave to ask for help!"
Pocket Mission: "Put these cards in your pocket, desk caddy, or backpack zipper!"
Friendship Bumps Facilitator Guide Week 5 of 6 Kindergarten Lunch Bunch
Friendship Bumps Facilitator Guide
Session Time 25 Minutes
Weekly Skill Goal
Teach students to match the size of their reaction to the size of the problem (Pebble vs. Rock vs. Mountain) and practice using calm words during peer bumps.
Supplies Needed
Problem Size Sorting Mats (1 per student), crayons, lunch items, scenario role-play props (small toy blocks or crayons).
Step-by-Step Session Plan (25 Minutes)
1. Lunch Settle & "Bump of the Week" (5 Min) Arrival Routine
Unpack lunches. Ask: "Have you ever had a friend bump at recess or lunch? Like someone sitting in your favorite spot or taking a toy?" Validate that bumps happen every day.
2. The 3 Sizes of Problems (7 Min) Direct Instruction
Explain that our reaction should match the size of the bump:
🪨 Pebble (Glitch)
Tiny bump! Crayon breaks or lost turn. I take a breath and fix it myself.
🧱 Rock (Medium)
Friend won't share or pushes in line. I use my words or ask a teacher.
⛰️ Mountain (Big)
Someone is hurt or unsafe! Get a grown-up right away!
3. Problem Size Sorting Mat (9 Min) Sorting Activity
Hand out the Problem Size Sorting Mat . Read real school scenarios aloud. Students point or draw a line to Pebble, Rock, or Mountain:
Teach the Golden Calm Phrase: "I feel sad when you take my block. Can I please have a turn when you finish?"
4. Clean Up & High-Five Affirmation (4 Min) Closure
Clean lunch table. Pass a gentle high-five around the circle: "Small problems don't need giant volcanoes!" Line up safely.
Facilitation Insight
Validating Before Sorting: Never tell a kindergartener "that's not a big deal." Instead say: "That felt really big to you! Let's see if we can turn it into a pebble together."
Tattling vs. Reporting: Clarify: Reporting is keeping someone safe (Mountain). Tattling is trying to get a friend in trouble over a Pebble.
Problem Size Sorting Mat 🪨
Calm Club • Week 5 Problem Sorting Mat
Problem Size Sorting Mat
Name:
Date:
🪨
1. Small Pebble Glitch / Tiny Bump
I can take a breath and solve it myself!
🧱
2. Medium Rock Peer Argument / Bump
I use calm words or ask a friend / teacher.
⛰️
3. Big Mountain Emergency / Unsafe
Someone is hurt! Tell a grown-up right away!
Match the Bump: Draw a line from each story to its size!
Listen & Match
🖍️
Your favorite blue crayon snaps in half.
"Now I have two crayons to share!"
Pebble 🪨
🛝
A friend cuts in front of you at the slide.
"Excuse me, I was waiting for my turn."
Rock 🧱
🩹
A classmate falls off the swing and scrapes a knee.
"Teacher! Someone fell down and needs help!"
Mountain ⛰️
🥪
Your juice box straw bends and won't go in.
"Can you please help me push this in?"
Pebble 🪨
🗣️ My Calm Word Power:
"I feel . Can we please ?"
Remember: "Tiny pebble problems do not need giant dinosaur shouts!"
Calm Champions Facilitator Guide Week 6 of 6 • Finale Kindergarten Lunch Bunch
Calm Champions Facilitator Guide
Session Time 25 Minutes
Weekly Skill Goal
Celebrate individual regulation milestones, review all 6 weeks of coping tools, and create a lasting classroom transition plan with personal graduation certificates.
Supplies Needed
Calm Champion Award Portfolios (1 per student), metallic or star stickers, gold crayons/markers, celebration napkins or paper party hats (optional).
Step-by-Step Session Plan (25 Minutes)
1. Celebration Feast & 6-Week Flashback (6 Min) Arrival Routine
Welcome students with cheerful fanfare! Review the Calm Club Journey while students eat: "We became feeling detectives, listened to body signals, learned rainbow breaths, filled our toolboxes, and solved pebble problems!"
2. Superpower Show & Tell (6 Min) Skill Rehearsal
Each student demonstrates their favorite Calm Club superpower for the group:
Prompts: "Maya, show us your Starfish Breath!" "Liam, demonstrate your Butterfly Hug!" "Sofia, how do you handle a Pebble problem?"
The group echoes the skill and gives a silent "sprinkle cheers" (wiggling fingers in air).
3. Champion Portfolio & Award Ceremony (9 Min) Award Presentation
Hand out the Calm Champion Award Portfolio . Students draw themselves wearing a champion medal and color their earned skill badges. Facilitator signs and places a gold star on each certificate.
4. Clean Up & Final Champion Oath (4 Min) Ceremonial Exit
Pack lunch supplies. Students stand tall, hands on hips like superheroes: "I have feelings, I have power, I can calm down every hour!" Escort students proudly back to class.
Classroom Teacher & Family Hand-off
Teacher Bridge Note: Send a quick email to classroom teachers highlighting each student's chosen coping tool so they can prompt it during transitions or academic frustration.
Backpack Keepsake: Ensure students take their certificate home so parents can reinforce the same vocabulary (Pebble vs Mountain, Soup breath) at home.
Calm Champion Award Portfolio Official Calm Club Graduation
Date:
🏆
Calm Champion Award
This certificate proudly honors a true kindergarten self-regulation superstar!
Super Champion Name
My 5 Superpowers:
🔍 1. Feeling Detective
⚡ 2. Body Clue Listener
🌈 3. Rainbow Breather
🧰 4. Reset Tool Master
🪨 5. Pebble Solver
⭐ All 5 Skills Unlocked! ⭐
Draw Yourself as a Calm Champion! 🎨
"When feelings get big, I know what to do!"
My Calm Champion Promise
"I will listen to my body, take my calming breaths, use my pocket tools, and be kind to my friends!"
Facilitator / Counselor Signature
Calm Club Leader
Champion Student Signature