Spotlight Signals Lesson Plan
Tier 2 SEL & Behavioral Intervention Guide
Spotlight Signals Lesson Plan
Grade 2 • 1-on-1 Session
Session Duration: 30 Minutes
Target: Appropriate Attention Seeking
Core Need: Connection & Validation
Outcome: 3 Independent Signals
Behavior Reframe: Connection Over Correction
For a 2nd grader, "attention-seeking" is fundamentally connection-seeking. Negative attention (scolding, stopping class) still fills their connection tank. This session equips the child with dignity-preserving, high-efficiency non-verbal and verbal tools while helping them recognize what their emotional engine is asking for.
Materials Needed
- 1 Double-sided signal tent (Green "Ready" / Amber "Need You")
- 3 Cue Cards: Look at Work, Need Help, Say Hi
- 1 Desk reminder sticker / visual token
- Stopwatch or sand timer (for patience interval practice)
Educator Tone & Stance
- Warm & Conspiratorial: Frame as "Secret Agent Codes."
- Non-Punitive: Never say "You interrupt too much."
- Pre-Load Praise: Give heavy warmth in min 0–3.
- Model Waiting: Practice the 10-second hold together.
1 The Connection Bank (0:00 – 5:00) 5 Minutes
Objective: Fill the student's emotional tank with unconditional positive attention before introducing any skills.
Educator Dialogue Script:
"I'm so glad we have our special one-on-one time today. Before we jump in, tell me the coolest thing you did at recess or in art this week! ... I love hearing your ideas. Today, you and I are creating a secret superpower code so you can get my attention whenever you need it, fast and smooth, like a pro agent."
2 The Radar: Decoding What You Need (5:00 – 12:00) 7 Minutes
Objective: Guide the student to identify what their brain wants when they feel the urge to call out, make silly noises, or leave their seat.
| The Feeling / Urge | What My Brain is Saying | The Siren vs. The Radar |
|---|
| "Look at me!" | "I finished something cool and want someone to be proud of me." | Siren: Yelling out • Radar: Desk Tent |
| "I'm stuck!" | "This worksheet is confusing and I feel worried or frustrated." | Siren: Clowning/drops • Radar: 2-Finger Signal |
| "I feel lonely/bored" | "My connection tank is low; I need a quick high-five or smile." | Siren: Poking peer • Radar: Silent Code Card |
Part 1: Diagnostic Foundation & Needs Awareness Page 1 of 2
Part 2
Action Rehearsal & Classroom Carryover
Pacing: Minutes 12:00 – 30:00
3 The 3 Secret Signals Rehearsal (12:00 – 21:00) 9 Minutes
Teach and physically rehearse the 3 agreed-upon replacement signals. Ensure student demonstrates each at least twice.
1. The Flip Beacon
Student keeps a folded card on the desk corner. Green side = working smoothly. Amber side ("Need a check-in") = flipped silently.
✓ Zero voice needed • Visible across room
2. The 2-Finger Peace Sign
Rest two fingers flat against the chest or desk. Teacher catches eyes and returns a thumbs-up or "nod" to acknowledge within 30s.
✓ Subtle • Prevents wave/flailing arm
3. The VIP Power Phrase
Scripted spoken sentence: "Excuse me, [Name], check-in when you're at a good stopping spot." Then step back 2 feet.
✓ Teaches patience pause • Polite & mature
4 The "Signal Showdown" Simulation (21:00 – 27:00) 6 Minutes
Gamified roleplay: Teacher acts out 3 realistic classroom scenarios. Student chooses the best tool and practices the "5-Second Patience Breath".
Scenario A: Teacher is at small group table
Student wants to show a completed spelling drawing. Target Action: Flip the desk beacon to Amber, keep reading.
Scenario B: Stuck on difficult math problem
Student feels panic rising. Target Action: Give 2-finger chest signal, count 5 slow breaths while waiting.
Scenario C: Sudden funny story pops into mind
Urge to shout it out to whole table. Target Action: Jot word on Post-It note, save for scheduled check-in.
Scenario D: Another student bumps their desk
Urge to react loudly. Target Action: Use VIP Power Phrase calmly or place "Need Help" card.
5 Partnership Agreement & Secret Handshake (27:00 – 30:00) 3 Minutes
Lock in connection through a concrete routine: Co-agree on 2 guaranteed daily connection windows (e.g., 9:15 AM desk tap & 1:45 PM quick share).
The Secret Agent Promise: "I use my signal and wait with patience. My teacher always sees my beacon." 🤝 Sealed with Secret Tap
Educator De-escalation & Response Protocol (During Classroom Transfer)
When Child Reverts to Calling Out / Silliness:
Do not engage verbally. Point silently to their Flip Beacon or tap their desk code without making eye contact. Reward immediately upon correction: "Thank you for flipping your beacon. I see you."
The Proactive "Catch Them Good" Ratio (4:1):
Give 4 brief, unprompted positive check-ins for every 1 corrective prompt. A 3-second hand-on-desk or silent thumbs-up prevents the student's tank from running empty.
Part 2: Replacement Behaviors, Rehearsal & Transfer Page 2 of 2
Signal Agent Challenge Activity
1-on-1 Practice Game • 2nd Grade
Signal Agent Training Mission
10–12 Min Playtime
Special Agent Name:
Mission Date:
Goal: Collect 4 Agent Stars
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How to Play: Roll a die (or flip a coin: Heads = 2, Tails = 1). Move your agent token. Complete the challenge on the tile to collect an Agent Star and advance toward Master Agent HQ!
Base HQ
START HERE Pick your agent token & test your radar!
Step 0
Tile 1
Radar Check
Teacher is helping another kid. Yell "Watch me!" or flip beacon? Pick right to get ⭐!
Reward: 1 Star
Tile 2
5-Sec Freeze
Hold the 2-finger check-in silently while counting 5 belly breaths!
Reward: 1 Star
Tile 3
Need Decoder
"I feel bored." Does my brain need: A) A high-five B) Loud screams?
Reward: 1 Star
Tile 7
Power Phrase
Say the secret phrase in a calm voice: "Excuse me, check-in when ready."
Reward: 1 Star
Tile 6
Desk Tap Code
Give 2 silent taps on your desk corner without looking away from your work.
Reward: 1 Star
Tile 5
Siren Buster!
Clowning around steals class time. What signal works 3x faster?
Reward: 1 Star
Tile 4
Secret Leap!
You gave teacher a silent thumbs-up! Take a bonus star and leap ahead 1 space!
Leap + 1 Star
Tile 8
Patience Master
Teacher is talking to the principal. Show how you wait quietly at your seat!
Reward: 1 Star
Tile 9
Card Mission
Draw a Challenge Card from Page 2 and roleplay the exact agent response!
Reward: 1 Star
Tile 10
Beacon Flip
Flip your desk tent to Amber, then keep drawing quietly until teacher nods.
Reward: 1 Star
Mission End
MASTER AGENT Unlock your Official Desk Beacon & ID Badge!
HQ Certified!
Agent Star Collection Tracker Color in as earned:
Star 1
Star 2
Star 3
Star 4
Agent Debrief Question
"Which secret signal is your favorite to use in the classroom this week?"
Spotlight Questions Facilitation Guide
Educator Dialogue & Questioning Toolkit
Spotlight Questions Facilitation Guide
Grade 2 Intervention
The Golden Rule: Curiosity Over Interrogation
Avoid asking "Why did you do that?"—it triggers defensive shrugs or silly escalation in 2nd graders. Instead, ask questions that decode the underlying need, connect feelings to bodily signals, and offer structured, dignified choices.
The 3-C Question Formula: "Are you looking for a Clue, a Cheer, or a Connection?" Use when student calls out or hovers
1. A CLUE? (Help)
"Are you stuck on a word or problem and feeling unsure where to begin?"
2. A CHEER? (Pride)
"Did you just make something awesome that you want me to notice right now?"
3. A CONNECTION? (Bond)
"Is your energy running low and you just need a quick high-five or smile?"
A Pre-Session: Warming the Tank
Ask before starting tasks to front-load positive attention:
- • "What is the coolest or funniest thing that happened to you today?"
- • "If your energy right now was an engine, is it running smooth or in turbo mode?"
- • "What is one awesome thing you want me to notice about your work today?"
B In-the-Moment Replacement Prompt
Ask quietly when they wave, interrupt, or make silly noises:
- • "Your eyes are looking for me—what does your brain need right now?"
- • "What is our Secret Agent code to let me know you're waiting?"
- • "Can you flip your beacon to Amber so I can finish helping Alex and come right over?"
C Calm Debrief: Decoding the Behavior
Ask 5–10 minutes after a disruption, when emotions are neutral:
- • "When you [made the funny noise], what did you want me to do or say?"
- • "Did getting my attention that way make your body feel proud or tense?"
- • "Next time your brain feels that urge, how can we get you what you need faster?"
D Agency & Contract Check-In
Ask at end of session or during morning routine:
- • "When are our two guaranteed check-in times today so you know I won't miss you?"
- • "What secret thumbs-up or desk tap will tell you I saw your beacon?"
- • "Do you know that I care about you even when I'm helping someone else?"