Power Presence Facilitator Guide Unit 1 Facilitator Guide
Power & Presence: Sessions 1–4
15-Min Small Group
Target: 7th Grade IEP Self-Advocacy
Standard 15-Minute Session Structure
2 Mins Check-In & Goal
5 Mins Skill & Model
6 Mins Active Role-Play
2 Mins Self-Talk Checkout
1 Session 1: Personal Strengths & Superpowers
Objective: Identify 2 Personal Strengths
Warm-Up (2 min): Pass the "Strengths Ball". State one thing you are naturally good at (sports, gaming, helping others, humor).
Skill Instruction (5 min): Explain: "Self-advocacy starts with knowing your worth. When you know your strengths, other people's opinions can't easily shake you." Model completing the Strengths Shield .
Practice (6 min): Students write 2 personal strengths on their Power Card and share one with a partner using confident eye contact.
Self-Statement Checkout (2 min): Each student chants their anchor line: "I bring value to the table every day."
2 Session 2: The 3 Styles (Passive, Aggressive, Assertive)
Objective: Distinguish the 3 Communication Modes
Warm-Up (2 min): Facilitator demonstrates 3 postures (slouching/looking down, clenching fists/glaring, tall stance/calm eyes). Ask: "Which one shows true control?"
Skill Instruction (5 min): Define Passive (doormat), Aggressive (bulldozer), and Assertive (pillar of strength). Emphasize: Assertiveness respects yourself AND the other person.
Practice (6 min): Scenario Card Sort. Read 3 responses to a hallway collision; students identify which is Assertive.
Self-Statement Checkout (2 min): Group repeat: "I speak with calm power and clear respect."
Social Champions Small Group Curriculum Page 1 of 2 • Sessions 1 & 2
Unit 1 Facilitator Guide (Cont.)
Voice Control & Self-Talk Scripts
Sessions 3 & 4
3 Session 3: Assertive Body Language & Voice Tone
Objective: Demonstrate the "Champion Stance"
Warm-Up (2 min): Posture check: Feet shoulder-width, shoulders back, chin level, eye contact at bridge of nose.
Skill Instruction (5 min): Introduce the "Level 3 Voice" (firm, steady, no whining, no yelling). Teach the 2-second breathing pause before speaking when provoked.
Practice (6 min): Partner Drill: Practice saying "Excuse me, I was waiting here" with Champion Stance and Level 3 voice. Peer gives instant thumbs up/down on stance.
Self-Statement Checkout (2 min): Individual checkout: "My voice is strong, clear, and calm."
4 Session 4: Powering Up Positive Self-Talk
Objective: Replace Negative Spirals with Power Talk
Warm-Up (2 min): Quick write on sticky note: What is one negative thought that pops up when something goes wrong? (e.g., "I always mess up").
Skill Instruction (5 min): Teach the "Flip the Script" technique. Transform: "I'm stupid" → "I haven't mastered this yet, but I can ask for help."
Practice (6 min): Students build their customized Pocket Power Statement Card with 2 pre-written emergency phrases.
Self-Statement Checkout (2 min): Students read their chosen power statement aloud with conviction.
IEP Accommodations & Facilitation High-Points
Visual & Tactile Supports:
Keep visual anchor cards on the table. Use physical role-play tokens or cards so students have hands-on cues.
Processing Time & Executive Function:
Give 10-second think time before expecting verbal answers. Allow sentence starters for students with expressive language IEP goals.
Social Champions Small Group Curriculum Page 2 of 2 • Sessions 3 & 4
Power Presence Student Sheets Unit 1 Student Toolkit
Power & Presence Shield
Name:
Date:
Part 1: My 3 Personal Superpowers (Session 1)
When you know your strengths, nobody can make you feel powerless. List 3 real skills or traits you possess:
Superpower #1 (Skill)
Superpower #2 (Character)
Superpower #3 (Social/Humor)
Part 2: Communication Radar (Session 2)
Passive
"I don't matter, you matter."
Looks down / slouches
Mumbles or stays silent
Gives up boundaries
Aggressive
"I matter, you don't."
Yelling, insults, threats
Invades physical space
Creates more conflict
Assertive (The Champion)
"I matter AND you matter."
Direct eye contact
Calm, firm voice (Level 3)
Stands up without attacking
Part 3: Champion Stance Checklist (Session 3)
Feet: Planted firmly shoulder-width Eyes: Focused calmly on the other person Shoulders: Relaxed, rolled back and down Voice: Level 3 (Clear, steady, firm)
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Unit 1 Student Toolkit (Cont.)
Pocket Power Self-Talk Cards
Session 4 Tool
Cut out these pocket cards. When faced with a tough moment, read your chosen power statement to reset your brain.
Power Card #1 • Reset
When I feel overwhelmed or angry:
"I am in control of my words and my reactions. I take a breath before I speak."
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Power Card #2 • Mistakes
When I make a mistake or get stuck:
"Mistakes mean I am learning. I have the power to ask for what I need."
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Power Card #3 • Peer Pressure
When someone tries to push me:
"My opinion matters. I don't need anyone's permission to stand my ground."
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Power Card #4 • Custom
My Personal Emergency Self-Talk:
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Unit 1 Reflection: Where will you keep your cards?
Write 2 safe spots where you can keep your power card handy (e.g., student ID badge holder, binder pocket, locker door):
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Assertive Power RolePlay Cards Unit 1 Role-Play Cards
Assertive Action Scenarios (Set A)
Sessions 2 & 3 Cards
Instructions for 15-Min Role-Play: Draw a card. One student plays the peer, one student demonstrates the Champion Stance and Assertive Voice .
Card 1 • Hallway Collision Role-Play
Scenario: You are opening your locker. A classmate bumps into your shoulder hard and mutters, "Get out of the way."
Passive: Look down, shrink into locker, say nothing.
Aggressive: Shove back, scream, "Watch it or else!"
Assertive: Stand tall, look them in the eye: "Hey, this is my locker. You need to watch where you're walking."
Focus: Keep voice steady (Level 3), no clenched fists.
Card 2 • Group Project Takeover Role-Play
Scenario: In science class, your partner assigns you the hardest slide to build and grabs all the easy supplies without asking.
Passive: Sigh, accept the unfair work, stay quiet.
Aggressive: Slam your folder down and yell, "I'm not doing this junk!"
Assertive: "Let's split this fairly. I'll take slide 2, you take slide 3, and we share the markers."
Focus: Champion stance, clear solution proposal.
Card 3 • Lunch Table Cut-In Role-Play
Scenario: You sit down with your tray. A student sits right in front of you and says, "This seat is saved for someone else, move."
Passive: Pick up tray instantly, look embarrassed.
Aggressive: Knock their drink over, yell insults.
Assertive: "There was nobody here when I sat down. There is plenty of room down there."
Focus: Calm eye contact, no whining tone.
Card 4 • PE / Gym Game Exclusion Role-Play
Scenario: You go to join a 3-on-3 basketball game in gym class. A team captain says, "We don't need you."
Passive: Walk away and sit on the bleachers alone.
Aggressive: Kick the ball across the gym and curse.
Assertive: "It's open play for everyone. I'm taking next game or jumping in right now."
Focus: Upright posture, firm statement of rules.
Boundaries Facilitator Guide Unit 2 Facilitator Guide
Boundaries & Backbone: Sessions 5–8
15-Min Small Group
Target: Saying No & Peer Pressure
15-Min Flow: 2m Check-in → 5m Direct Instruction & Anchor Script → 6m Rapid Role-Play Drill → 2m Positive Self-Statement.
5 Session 5: The "Saying No Kindly" Formula
Objective: Deliver a 2-Step Kind "No"
Warm-Up (2 min): Prompt: "Why is it so hard to say 'no' to a classmate?" (fear of looking uncool, fear of anger).
Skill Instruction (5 min): Teach the 2-Part Formula: 1. Acknowledge/Direct "No" + 2. Alternative or Firm Stop (e.g., "No thanks, I'm holding onto this right now" or "Nah, I'm not into that, let's play knockout instead" ).
Practice (6 min): "Borrowing my stuff" drill. Facilitator aggressively asks to take student's favorite pen/phone/jacket. Student executes the 2-part kind but firm "no".
Self-Statement Checkout (2 min): Chanted together: "Saying 'no' protects my peace. I can be kind and firm at the same time."
6 Session 6: Personal Space & Physical Boundaries
Objective: Set Clear Physical Boundaries
Warm-Up (2 min): The "Invisible Hula Hoop" demo. What happens when someone invades your 2-foot zone without permission?
Skill Instruction (5 min): Introduce the "Step Back + Stop Hand" gesture (palm at chest height, step 1 foot back). Teach the boundary cue: "Take a step back, please give me space."
Practice (6 min): Partner space drill. Partner steps into personal bubble during locker or line scenario. Student steps back and delivers verbal cue without pushing or hitting.
Self-Statement Checkout (2 min): Group repeat: "My body and space belong to me. I set clear boundaries with calm words."
Social Champions Small Group Curriculum Page 1 of 2 • Sessions 5 & 6
Unit 2 Facilitator Guide (Cont.)
Teasing Defense & Clean Exits
Sessions 7 & 8
7 Session 7: Neutralizing Teasing & Roasting
Objective: The "Disarm & Deflect" Technique
Warm-Up (2 min): Discuss: "What does a teaser want most?" (A big upset reaction, yelling, or crying).
Skill Instruction (5 min): Teach "The Disarming Agree" and "The Shrug Line" : or When you don't feed the fire, it dies out.
Boundary Builder Student Sheets Unit 2 Student Toolkit
Boundary & Backbone Builder
Name:
Date:
Part 1: The "Say No Kindly" 2-Step Formula (Session 5)
You don't have to be mean to say no. Use this formula to protect your stuff and your time:
Step 1: Direct Answer
"No thanks," "I can't do that," or "Nah, I'm good."
Step 2: Simple Reason or Alternative
"I'm using it right now," or "Let's do this instead."
Practice: Write your response to a classmate asking to copy your homework:
Part 2: Physical Space Blueprint (Session 6)
Close Zone (0-1.5 ft)
Only for close family/trusted friends with permission.
School Zone (2-3 ft)
Arm's length. Normal talking space with peers & teachers.
Public Zone (4+ ft)
Hallways, cafeterias, and crowds.
What to do when someone is crowding your space:
1. Take one calm step backward (maintain balance).
2. Keep hands relaxed at chest level (non-aggressive stop signal).
3. Say clearly: "Give me a step of space, please."
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Unit 2 Student Toolkit (Cont.)
Teasing Shield & Clean Exits
Sessions 7 & 8
The Teasing Deflector Shield (Session 7)
When someone throws shade or tries to roast you, don't get angry. Fire back with one of these 4 neutral deflector phrases:
Option 1: The Agree & Shrug
"Okay, if that's what you think."
Option 2: The Bored Response
"Cool story, bro."
Option 3: The Reality Check
"Why are you so worried about me?"
Option 4: The Direct Stop
"I'm not interested in this. Stop."
Pick your favorite deflector phrase and write it here:
The Fast-3 Clean Exit (Session 8)
When a situation feels unsafe, illegal, or like a trap, use the Fast-3:
1. State Reason "I gotta get to 3rd period."
2. Pivot Body Turn smoothly, head up.
3. Walk to Safe Zone Directly to staff / busy area.
My Personal Exit Excuse (Write one you will always remember):
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Boundary Defense RolePlay Cards Unit 2 Role-Play Cards
Boundary Defense Cards (Set B)
Sessions 5–8 Cards
15-Minute Role-Play Routine: Student A reads the challenge prompt. Student B executes the Kind "No" , Teasing Deflector , or Clean Exit .
Card 1 • The "Lend Me Money" Push Session 5
Scenario: In the cafeteria line, an acquaintance says, "Hey, give me $3 for chips. Don't be cheap, I'll pay you back next week."
Passive: Hesitantly hand over your money even though you need it for lunch.
Aggressive: "Get your own money, you bum!"
Assertive: "No, I only brought enough for my own lunch today."
Focus: Direct "No", firm tone, eye contact.
Card 2 • Space Crowding Session 6
Scenario: While waiting in line for gym equipment, another student leans on you and stands inches from your face laughing with friends.
Passive: Endure being pushed and feel furious inside.
Aggressive: Shove them to the ground and start a fight.
Assertive: Step back, raise hand at chest level: "Hey, take a step back. I need some space."
Focus: Step back + palm up + calm voice.
Card 3 • The Public Roast Session 7
Scenario: At recess, a peer laughs loudly and yells: "Look at his haircut, who cut that in the dark?!" Others turn to watch.
Passive: Put hood up and leave crying.
Aggressive: Yell insults about their family and try to swing.
Assertive: Shrug shoulders, bored smile: "Cool story. Glad you're obsessed with my hair," and keep walking.
Focus: Do not feed the fire with anger.
Card 4 • Bathroom Vandalism Dare Session 8
Scenario: In the bathroom, a group of boys is pulling down a soap dispenser. They hand you a marker and say, "Tag your name on the mirror, don't be scared."
Passive: Take the marker and tag it because you're afraid they'll make fun of you.
Aggressive: Threaten to get them all suspended right now.
Assertive (Clean Exit): "Nah, I'm not getting ISS for that. I'm heading to class." Turn and walk immediately to hallway.
Allies Facilitator Guide Unit 3 Facilitator Guide
Allies & Advocacy: Sessions 9–12
15-Min Small Group
Target: Safe Adults & IEP Advocacy
15-Min Flow: 2m Check-in → 5m Direct Instruction → 6m Applied Advocacy Role-Play → 2m Positive Self-Statement.
9 Session 9: Mapping Safe Adults & Safe Havens
Objective: Identify 3 Safe Staff & 2 Safe Rooms
Warm-Up (2 min): Quick Poll: Who in the school building has your back right now when things get chaotic?
Skill Instruction (5 min): Teach the "Safe Network Rule" : Champions have at least 3 go-to adults (Case Manager, Counselor, Dean, Coach, Favorite Teacher) and know physical reset rooms (Resource Room, Counseling Office).
Practice (6 min): Students fill out their Safe Adult Radar sheet with actual names, room numbers, and best times to check in.
Self-Statement Checkout (2 min): Group repeat: "I am never alone in this building. Asking for support is what leaders do."
10 Session 10: Reporting vs. Snitching
Objective: Distinguish Safety from Tattling
Warm-Up (2 min): Ask: "What makes middle schoolers afraid to report dangerous situations?" ("Snitches get stitches" myth).
Skill Instruction (5 min): Break down the core difference: Snitching = Trying to get someone IN trouble over petty drama; Reporting = Trying to keep yourself or others SAFE from physical harm, bullying, or illegal actions.
Practice (6 min): "Report or Let Go?" rapid sort cards. Students categorize 4 real-world middle school scenarios.
Self-Statement Checkout (2 min): Individual checkout: "Keeping myself and my peers safe is real loyalty."
Social Champions Small Group Curriculum Page 1 of 2 • Sessions 9 & 10
Unit 3 Facilitator Guide (Cont.)
IEP Accommodations & Teacher Talk
Sessions 11 & 12
11 Session 11: Knowing & Claiming Your IEP Rights
Objective: Memorize 2 Main IEP Accommodations
Warm-Up (2 min): "What is an accommodation? It's not a cheat code, it's eyeglasses for learning."
Skill Instruction (5 min): Review common IEP supports (extra time, break pass, small group testing, graphic organizers). Teach the "Pass Request" protocol (discreet, respectful).
Practice (6 min): Students identify their specific 2 IEP tools and write them on their portable advocacy card.
Safe Network Student Navigator Unit 3 Student Toolkit
Safe Network Navigator
Name:
Date:
Part 1: My Top 3 School Point People (Session 9)
When things get stressful or unsafe, write the actual names and room numbers of adults you trust:
Adult #1 (Primary) e.g. Case Manager / Counselor
Name:
Room #:
Adult #2 (Academic) e.g. Favorite Teacher
Name:
Room #:
Adult #3 (Support/Admin) e.g. Coach / Dean / Social Worker
Name:
Room #:
Part 2: Safe Haven Reset Locations
If you need to cool down before reacting, where can you safely go with permission?
Safe Location 1:
Best time to access: Passing period / With pass
Safe Location 2:
Best time to access: Lunch / After school
The Safe Reporting Sentence Starter (Session 10)
When telling an adult about a safety issue, use this exact line:
"I need to report a safety concern privately. Someone is getting hurt / about to get hurt in [Location]."
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Unit 3 Student Toolkit (Cont.)
IEP Accommodation Scripts
Sessions 11 & 12
My 2 Core IEP Learning Tools (Session 11)
Check or write the 2 accommodations you use most in your classes:
Extra time on tests / quizzes Short sensory / reset break pass Small group testing room Clarification / questions read aloud
Ready-to-Use Teacher Advocacy Scripts (Session 12)
Scenario 1: Asking for Extra Time
"Mr./Ms. [Teacher], I have extended time on my IEP plan. Can I arrange to finish the second half of this test during advisory or 7th period?"
Scenario 2: Needing a Quick Reset Break
"Excuse me, Mr./Ms. [Teacher], I need to use my 3-minute break pass to get a drink of water so I can refocus."
Scenario 3: Unclear Instructions
"Could you please explain step 2 one more time, or show an example? I want to make sure I do this correctly."
My Custom Teacher Request Line:
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Reporting Allies Anchor Chart Visual Anchor Chart
Reporting vs. Snitching
Session 10 Anchor
Tattling / Snitching
Goal: Trying to get someone IN trouble over harmless or minor things.
• Nobody is getting physically hurt or in danger.
• Done to be petty, gain revenge, or look cool to others.
• Can easily be solved by ignoring or walking away.
Example: Running to tell the teacher that someone dropped their pencil or took two napkins at lunch.
Safe Reporting
Goal: Trying to keep yourself or others OUT of trouble and SAFE.
• Someone is in physical danger, being harmed, or threatened.
• Illegal substances, weapons, or severe vandalism are involved.
• A situation is too big/dangerous to handle alone.
Example: Telling a counselor quietly that three students are cornering someone behind the gym.
How to Report Privately (Protecting Your Reputation)
1. Private Timing
Speak during passing, after the bell, or ask for a pass to counseling.
2. State the Facts Only
Who, what, and where. No extra opinions or exaggerations.
3. Request Privacy
"Please keep my name out of this so there are no retaliations."
Social Champions Anchor Series Page 1 of 1 • Safety Allies
Debrief Facilitator Guide Unit 4 Facilitator Guide
Debrief & Level Up: Sessions 13–16
15-Min Small Group
Target: Reflection & Problem Solving
15-Min Flow: 2m Check-in → 5m Framework & Coaching → 6m Real-Event Debrief / Solution Lab → 2m Positive Self-Statement.
13 Session 13: The 4-Step Social Debrief Protocol
Objective: Break Down a Recent Social Challenge
Warm-Up (2 min): "Athletes watch game tape to get better. Champions debrief their week so they don't repeat mistakes."
Skill Instruction (5 min): Introduce the 4-Step Protocol: 1. Challenge (What happened?), 2. My Move (How did I react?), 3. What Went Well (What part was positive?), 4. Next Time Upgrade (What will I do next time?).
Practice (6 min): Facilitator presents a recent school scenario (e.g., getting cut in the lunch line). Students fill out the 4 steps on their debrief sheet.
Self-Statement Checkout (2 min): Group repeat: "I learn from every interaction. Every day is a chance to level up."
14 Session 14: The Peer Solution Lab (Live Debrief)
Objective: Real-Time Challenge Debrief & Peer Coaching
Warm-Up (2 min): Ground rules: Confidentiality, no judgment, solutions only.
Skill Instruction (5 min): Teach constructive peer feedback: "What I liked about your reaction was... One upgrade you could try next time is..."
Practice (6 min): One student shares a real challenge from this past week. Group helps them run through the 4-Step Debrief and selects 1 actionable upgrade.
Self-Statement Checkout (2 min): Individual checkout: "I have the courage to reflect honestly and grow stronger."
Social Champions Small Group Curriculum Page 1 of 2 • Sessions 13 & 14
Unit 4 Facilitator Guide (Cont.)
IEP Mastery & Graduation
Sessions 15 & 16
15 Session 15: Self-Advocacy Growth & Goal Radar
Objective: Self-Evaluate IEP Growth Over 16 Sessions
Warm-Up (2 min): Facilitator shares an observation of each boy's growth from Session 1 to now.
Skill Instruction (5 min): Walk through the 5-Domain Self-Advocacy Radar (Strengths, Assertiveness, Boundaries, Safe Adults, Reflection). Explain 1-to-5 rubric scale.
Practice (6 min): Students rate their personal growth across all 5 areas and write their continuing goal for 8th grade / high school.
Social Debrief Student Journal Unit 4 Student Toolkit
4-Step Social Debrief Log
Name:
Date:
Use this 4-step breakdown whenever you face a difficult social situation or conflict to review what happened and level up:
1 The Challenge (What happened?) Where? Who was involved?
2 My Move (How did I react?) What did I say or do? (Passive / Aggressive / Assertive)
3 What Went Well (Celebrate the positive!) Did I stay calm? Walk away? Use a self-statement?
4 Next Time Upgrade (My game plan) What specific skill or script will I use next time?
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Unit 4 Student Toolkit (Cont.)
Self-Advocacy Growth Radar
Session 15 Tool
Rate your confidence on a scale of 1 (Still Learning) to 5 (Master Champion) :
1. Recognizing Strengths & Self-Worth I know what I'm good at and don't let others tear me down.
1 2 3 4 5
2. Assertive Voice & Champion Stance I look people in the eye and speak with a calm Level 3 voice.
1 2 3 4 5
3. Saying "No" & Setting Boundaries I say no kindly and protect my personal space and belongings.
1 2 3 4 5
4. Using Safe Adults & IEP Supports I know who my point people are and ask teachers for accommodations.
1 2 3 4 5
5. Positive Self-Talk & Debriefing I reset my brain with positive statements and learn from challenges.
1 2 3 4 5
My Next Big Goal for the Rest of the Year:
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Champion Field Guide Poster Visual Master Anchor
Social Champions Field Guide
16-Session Blueprint
1
Power & Presence
• Champion Stance: Feet shoulder-width, eyes up.
• Level 3 Voice: Firm, steady, calm tone.
• Power Self-Talk: "I am in control of my reaction."
2
Boundaries & Backbone
• Kind "No": Direct answer + simple alternative.
• Space Bubble: Step back + chest-level palm stop.
• Teasing Deflector: "Cool story, bro" / Shrug off.
3
Safety Allies & IEP Rights
• Safe Network: 3 trusted adults & 2 quiet rooms.
• Reporting: Safety first — speak privately.
• IEP Advocacy: Request extra time/breaks politely.
4
Debrief & Level Up
• The 4 Boxes: Event → Move → Good → Next Time.
• Continuous Growth: Every mistake is game tape.
• Leadership: Support peers with positive solutions.
The Social Champion Code
"I respect myself. I respect others. I speak with strength and stand with backbone."
Social Champions Master Guide Page 1 of 2 • Reference
Social Champions Academy
Certificate of Mastery
Awarded for Outstanding Achievement in Self-Advocacy & Assertiveness
This is proudly presented to
Having successfully completed the 16-session curriculum, demonstrating mastery in recognizing personal strengths, setting kind and firm boundaries, navigating safe school allies, and practicing daily positive self-talk.
Small Group Facilitator / Case Manager
Date Awarded
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