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Group Dynamics Lab

A comprehensive lesson on Benne and Sheats' functional group roles, tailored for graduate-level school counseling students to understand group dynamics in educational settings.

JLJessica Lowe

Group Dynamics Lab

A comprehensive lesson on Benne and Sheats' functional group roles, tailored for graduate-level school counseling students to understand group dynamics in educational settings.

JLJessica Lowe

3. Recognition-Seeker

Works in various ways to call attention to self (boasting, acting out).

4. Self-Confessor

Uses the group as an audience to express personal feelings or insights.

5. Playboy/Playgirl

Makes a display of lack of involvement (cynicism, nonchalance, horseplay).

6. Dominator

Tries to assert authority or superiority; may use flattery or interruption.

7. Help-Seeker

Tries to evoke "sympathy" from other members or the group.

8. Special Interest Pleader

Speaks for the "grass roots," the "housewife," etc., masking bias.

Validate

"Jordan, I hear how frustrated you are with the rules."

Acknowledge the Need

Invite

"How can we use that energy to improve our group plan?"

Shift to Task Role


Reflect & Connect

"Which role is hardest for you to facilitate in a K-12 setting, and why? Is it about the student, or your own comfort with that behavior?"

• What structural changes could you make to the group to "contain" this member without removal?

Activity 2: Post-Departure Care

A student has been removed for hostility. They now see you in the hallway and feel "kicked out."

Design a Follow-up Plan:

Check-in Schedule

Alternative Supports

CASE STUDY: THE SUCCESSFUL BLOCKER

Leo is a 7th grader in a social skills group. For 4 weeks, he has successfully played the Blocker role, derailing every activity with "This is boring" and "I don't need this." However, in individual sessions, he admits he likes the group but is afraid of looking "weak" in front of his peers. The other members are now refusing to participate because of Leo's negativity.

Is removal justified here, or is this a facilitation failure?

If you keep him, how do you address the group's frustration with him staying?

If you remove him, how do you phrase the conversation so he doesn't feel his "fear of looking weak" was confirmed?

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