Avoidance Trap Strategy Guide The Avoidance Trap
Strategy Guide • Teacher Resource
Lesson 1 of 5
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Instructional Overview
This lesson introduces students to the Avoidance Cycle . Students will meet Alex, a character whose fear of dogs has led to a series of avoidance behaviors that keep his anxiety alive. The goal is for students to see that while avoidance feels good in the moment (relief), it prevents the brain from learning that the "danger" isn't actually present.
Objectives
Define "Avoidance Behavior."
Identify short-term vs. long-term effects of avoidance.
The Hook: Meet Alex (10 mins)
Introduce Alex using the Case Study worksheet. Read the story aloud or have students read in pairs. Ask: "Why does Alex walk three extra blocks to get to school?" Key Insight: He's trading time and energy for a temporary feeling of safety.
The Cycle Diagram (15 mins)
Use the Presentation Slides to draw the Avoidance Cycle on the board.
Trigger: Alex sees a dog on a leash.Anxiety: Heart races, thoughts say "It will bite!"Avoidance: Alex crosses the street or runs away.Short-term Relief: Anxiety drops! "Whew, I'm safe." Long-term Growth: The brain learns: "The only reason I'm safe is because I ran away." Next time, the fear is even bigger.
Analysis Activity (20 mins)
Students complete the Case Analysis Mission File . They must highlight specific avoidance behaviors and explain the "Short-Term vs. Long-Term" trade-off.
Key Discussion Questions
Critical Thinking
"If Alex keeps avoiding dogs, what will he think about dogs one year from now?"
Empathy Check
"Does avoidance make Alex feel weak, or just stuck? How would you feel in his shoes?"
Answer Key & Teacher Notes
Case Study Analysis: Alex's Avoidance
1. Identify 3 avoidance behaviors:
Taking the long route to school.
Closing his eyes when a dog appears on TV.
Leaving the park early if he hears a bark.
2. What is the "Brain Lie"?
The "Brain Lie" is the thought that the *only* reason he didn't get bitten is because he ran away. In reality, the dog was friendly and behind a fence, but Alex never stayed long enough to learn that.
Common Misconceptions
"Avoidance is just being smart."
Clarify the difference between true danger (a bear) and perceived danger (a leashed, friendly dog). In anxiety, the brain treats "safe but scary" things like "dangerous" things.
"Fear goes away if you wait."
Waiting without action often lets the fear grow. Exposure is about *proving* the fear wrong through action.
Alex Mission File Worksheet Mission File: Alex
Subject: The Avoidance Trap • Case Study 01
Agent Name:
Date:
The Story of the Long Way Home
Meet Alex. Alex is a 6th grader who loves comic books and drawing. But Alex has a secret: he is terrified of dogs. It started last summer when a neighbor's dog barked loudly at him, and now, even the smallest puppy makes his heart race.
To stay "safe," Alex has developed some habits. Every morning, he walks three blocks out of his way to avoid Mr. Henderson’s house because he knows Mr. Henderson has a golden retriever. If Alex is at the park and hears a distant bark, he immediately tells his friends he has to leave. When a dog appears in a movie, Alex closes his eyes or leaves the room.
Alex feels a huge sense of relief whenever he avoids a dog. His heart slows down, and he feels calm again. But lately, Alex has noticed something strange: even seeing a picture of a dog in a book makes him feel shaky. His world is getting smaller, and his fear is getting bigger.
1 Evidence Collection
Identify three specific "Avoidance Behaviors" Alex uses to escape his fear.
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2 The Short-Term vs. Long-Term Analysis
Short-Term: How does Alex feel RIGHT AFTER he avoids a dog?
Long-Term: What is happening to Alex's fear over time?
The Brain's Mistake
When Alex avoids the dog, his brain thinks: "The ONLY reason we are safe is because we ran away!" This is a lie. As a coach, how would you explain to Alex that his brain is making a mistake?
Avoidance Trap Slides Anxiety Lab Academy • Phase 1
The Avoidance Trap
Discovering how running away from fear keeps us stuck in the loop.
Meet Alex
The 3-Block Detour
Alex walks 3 blocks extra every day to avoid a barking dog.
"I'm just being safe. It's better to avoid it than to deal with the panic, right?"
What is Avoidance?
Physical
Leaving the room, running away, or taking the long route.
Sensory
Closing eyes, plugging ears, or looking away from the trigger.
Social
Stopping the conversation or changing the subject.
The Avoidance Cycle
1. TRIGGER
Alex sees a dog
2. ANXIETY
"I'm in danger!"
3. AVOIDANCE
He runs away
4. RELIEF
"Phew! Safety."
"The brain learns: I'm only safe because I ran!"
The Big Trade-Off
Short-Term
You feel RELIEF . Your anxiety drops to zero immediately.
FEELS GOOD NOW
Long-Term
The fear grows BIGGER . You feel less capable and more stuck.
FEELS BAD LATER
Mission Briefing
Open your Mission File: Alex .
GO COACH!
Sizing Up Fear Slides Anxiety Lab Academy • Phase 2
Sizing Up Fear
Learning to measure anxiety using the SUDS Scale.
How big is the fear?
Saying "I'm scared" isn't enough for a coach. We need to know exactly how scared.
Is it a "10" (mild worry) or a "100" (total panic)?
10 Butterflies
50 Nervous
80 Scared
100 Panic
The SUDS Scale
Subjective Units of Distress Scale
0 Calm
25 Mild
50 Moderate
75 High
100 Extreme
"Subjective" means it belongs to YOU . My 50 might be your 80.
Case File 02
Taylor
"I just... I can't do the cafeteria. It's too loud, too crowded, and everyone is looking at me. I'd rather eat in the library bathroom."
#SocialAnxiety #SensoryOverload
The Data Harvest
What to Ask
"How would you feel if you just walked past the door?"
"What about sitting at a table for 1 minute?"
"Who would you want with you?"
What to Record
SUDS Rating (0-100)
Specific "Worst Case" thoughts
What makes it slightly easier?
Taylor Client Intake Worksheet Client Intake: Taylor
Consultancy Mission • Subjective Units of Distress (SUDS)
Coach(es):
Date:
Client 002
"I just feel like everyone is watching me... or judging me. The cafeteria is too loud and too much."
Target Fear: The School Cafeteria (Social & Sensory Overload).Goal: Successfully eat lunch in the cafeteria for 20 minutes with friends.
SUDS Reference Scale
0
CALM
25
MILD
50
MODERATE
75
HIGH
100
EXTREME
Trigger Interview Log
Record Taylor's estimated SUDS for each situation
Scenario / Trigger Step Estimated SUDS (0-100) Looking at a photo of the school cafeteria at lunchtime. Walking past the cafeteria doors while they are closed.
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| Standing just inside the door for 10 seconds. |
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| Sitting at an empty table at the very edge of the room. |
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| Sitting at a table with one friend for 5 minutes. |
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| Sitting in the middle of the room for the whole lunch period. |
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Worst-Case Thought
What is the "scary thought" Taylor has about the cafeteria?
Safety Crutches
What does Taylor do now to "stay safe" (Avoidance)?
Sizing Up Fear Strategy Guide Sizing Up Fear
Strategy Guide • Teacher Interview Script
Lesson 2 of 5
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The "Taylor" Persona
In this lesson, you will role-play Taylor , a student with social anxiety and sensory sensitivity. Your goal is to provide students with the data they need to understand SUDS. Don't volunteer info—let them ask!
Role-Play Vibe
Soft-spoken, avoids eye contact.
Fidgety with a pencil or sleeve.
Interview Cheat Sheet (SUDS Key)
The Scenario (Student Ask) Taylor's SUDS Taylor's Response / Thought "Looking at a photo of the cafeteria?" 15-20 "It's just a picture, but it reminds me of how loud it gets." "Walking past closed doors?" 35 "I can still hear the buzzing through the wood. It makes my stomach drop." "Standing just inside for 10 seconds?" 55-60 "I feel like everyone looks at me the second the door opens." "Sitting at an empty edge table?" 75 "I'm there, but I'm invisible. I still want to hide my face." "Eating for 5 mins with 1 friend?" 65 "The friend helps! It's better than being alone. Maybe a 65?" "The middle of the room?" 95-100 "Total nightmare. I can't breathe just thinking about it."
Key Guiding Questions (to ask students after)
Analysis
"Why did having a friend there make the SUDS go DOWN?"
Prediction
"If we want Taylor to succeed, should we start with a 100 or a 15?"
Anxiety Lab Academy
Courage Map Slides Anxiety Lab Academy • Phase 3
The Courage Map
Designing a step-by-step roadmap to outsmart anxiety.
Why not just jump to 100?
If we force a client to do their biggest fear first, they will panic and run.
The Goal:
Build confidence slowly so the brain has time to learn it is safe.
100: JUMPING IN A LION'S DEN
Result: Trauma & more fear.
40: PETTING A PUPPY ON A LEASH
Result: Challenge & Growth.
5: LOOKING AT A PHOTO
Result: Too easy for a whole week.
The 8-Step Blueprint
Warm Ups (SUDS 10-30)
Things that make the client slightly uncomfortable but are "doable."
The Work (SUDS 40-70)
The "Goldilocks Zone." Heart is racing, but the client can stay in the situation.
The Boss Levels (SUDS 80-100)
The ultimate goal. Facing the core fear in its most challenging form.
Don't Skip Stairs!
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40
55
70
85
100
"The jumps between steps should feel like a ladder, not a cliff."
Mission: Courage Map
Using your interview data for Taylor, design an 8-step roadmap that gets them from SUDS 10 to SUDS 100.
START MAPPING
The Courage Map Worksheet The Courage Map
Strategic Blueprint • Client: Taylor
Coaching Team:
Mission Objective
Design an 8-step ladder for Taylor. Start with something that feels like a 10 (Warm Up) at the bottom and end with the Ultimate Goal (100) at the top. Ensure the jumps between steps aren't too big!
Step 8: The Boss (SUDS 100)
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Step 7: Challenge (SUDS 85)
Step 6: Work Level (SUDS 70)
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Step 5: Work Level (SUDS 55)
Step 4: Push (SUDS 40)
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Step 3: Moderate (SUDS 30)
Step 2: Warm Up (SUDS 20)
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Step 1: The Start (SUDS 10)
The Coaching Lab Slides Anxiety Lab Academy • Phase 4
The Coaching Lab
Practicing the skills of a world-class Anxiety Coach.
The Coach's Toolbox
Empathy
Acknowledging that this is hard. "I see that you're nervous, and that's okay."
Monitoring
Checking the SUDS every 60 seconds. "Where are you on the scale right now?"
Encouragement
Focusing on effort, not results. "You're sticking with it. Great job staying present."
The "Don't" List
Don't Force
"Just do it! It's not a big deal." (This invalidates their fear).
Don't Distract
"Look at this funny video instead!" (Distraction is just another form of avoidance).
Don't Judge
"Why are you still at an 80? You should be a 40 by now." (Everyone heals at a different pace).
Session Protocol
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Set the Scene: Describe the environment.
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Initial SUDS: Get the starting number.
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The Sit: Stay in the fear for 3 minutes.
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Check-Ins: Record SUDS every 60 seconds.
Coaching Simulation
One of you is the Coach , one is the Client .
LIGHTS, CAMERA, ACTION!
Coach Session Log Worksheet Coach's Session Log
Live Simulation • Client: Taylor
Lead Coach:
Session #:
Challenge Description
Exposure Step (from Courage Map):
Example: Standing just inside the cafeteria doors
Initial SUDS Rating:
Active Session Tracker
Goal: 3-5 Minutes
Time Interval Current SUDS Coaching Observation / Notes 0:00 (Start) How does the client look? (Fidgeting, quiet, etc.) 1:00 Minute
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Coach's Encouragement
Write down one specific encouraging phrase you used during the session.
Final Habituation
Did the SUDS level decrease? By how much?
The Coaching Lab Strategy Guide The Coaching Lab
Strategy Guide • Role-Play Scenarios
Lesson 4 of 5
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Simulation Instructions
In this lesson, students work in pairs. The Coach uses the Session Log. The Client must use a "Client Profile Card" to simulate anxiety behaviors realistically. Ensure coaches are checking SUDS every minute!
Profile A
The Quiet Freezer
"I'm here, but I'm not really here."
Behaviors: Staring at the floor, monosyllabic answers ("Yeah," "Okay").SUDS: Starts at 80. Drops slowly to 65 after 4 minutes of coaching.Challenge for Coach: They have to keep the client talking and present.
Profile B
The Fidgety Runner
"Can we go now? Is time up? I think I'm done."
Behaviors: Checking watch, tapping feet, asking to leave early.SUDS: Starts at 60. Spikes to 75 at minute 2, then drops to 40 at minute 4.Challenge for Coach: They have to encourage the client to stay despite the urge to run.
Coaching Power Phrases (Share with Students)
For High Anxiety
"I know your heart is racing. That's just your body trying to protect you. We are safe."
For Staying Present
"Stay right here with me. You're doing the hard work right now. Your brain is learning."
Peer Observation Rubric
MONITORING
Did the coach check SUDS at every interval?
EMPATHY
Did the coach acknowledge the client's feelings?
STAYING PUT
Did the coach help the client stay for the full time?
Habituation Hub Slides Presentation Anxiety Lab Academy • Phase 5
The Habituation Hub
Analyzing the data to prove that courage grows over time.
Habituation
The process of your brain getting used to a trigger until it's no longer scary.
"Like getting into a cold swimming pool. At first, it's shocking. After 10 minutes, you don't even notice the cold."
The SUDS Curve
Anxiety (SUDS)
Time (Minutes)
Habituation Point
When SUDS drop by 50% or more.
Decision Time
MOVE UP
If the client’s SUDS dropped from 70 to 30 and they feel "bored" or "ready."
STAY & REPEAT
If the SUDS are still high (above 50) or the client is still using avoidance (closing eyes).
Final Evaluation
Analyze Taylor's session data. Are they ready for the Boss Level?Final Recommendation .
COMPLETE THE MISSION
The Habituation Lab Worksheet Habituation Lab Report
Data Analysis • Client: Taylor • Phase 5
Analyst Name:
Session 03: Results
Step 4: Sitting at an edge table
Time Interval SUDS Rating
Start (0:00) 75
1:00 Min 70
2:00 Min 60
3:00 Min 45
4:00 Min 35
5:00 Min 30
Coach's Observations:
"At the 1-minute mark, Taylor was tapping their foot and looking at the exit. At the 3-minute mark, they stopped tapping and started looking around the room. By the 5-minute mark, Taylor said, 'I actually think I could stay here and finish my apple.'"
Total SUDS Drop
45 Points
1. Habituation Check
Did habituation occur? How do you know? (Hint: Look at the start vs. the finish).
2. Brain Learning
What did Taylor's brain learn during these 5 minutes that it couldn't learn while avoiding the cafeteria?
Official Recommendation
Based on this data, is Taylor ready to move to Step 5 (Sitting with a friend for 5 mins) , or should they repeat Step 4? Explain your coaching decision.
Move Up
Stay & Repeat
Anxiety Coach Certificate Handout Level 5
Certified
Anxiety Coach
This official document recognizes that
Agent Name
Has successfully completed the Anxiety Lab Academy training. They are now qualified to identify avoidance behaviors, calculate SUDS, and design custom Courage Maps to help others outsmart fear.
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