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Relationship Skills

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Active listening, assertive expression, and boundary-setting strategies for interpersonal success. Develops proficiency in conflict mediation, cooperative teamwork, and the cultivation of healthy romantic and platonic connections.

Counseling & Life SkillsSelf-AwarenessBasic Emotion RecognitionComplex Emotion IdentificationEmotional Nuance & Mixed FeelingsBuilding Positive Self-ImageRecognizing Strengths & Growth AreasAccurate Self-AssessmentPersonal Values IdentificationCultural & Individual Identity ExplorationValues-Based Decision MakingSelf-ManagementStop-and-Think StrategiesDelaying GratificationIndependent Impulse ManagementIdentifying Stress TriggersShort-Term Goal SettingSMART Goals DevelopmentGoal Monitoring & AdjustmentBuilding Perseverance & ResilienceInternal Motivation DevelopmentComprehensive Stress Reduction PlanningSocial AwarenessRecognizing Others' FeelingsDemonstrating EmpathyRespecting Individual DifferencesUnderstanding Cultural DiversityComplex Empathetic ResponsesMultiple Viewpoint ConsiderationMulti-Perspective AnalysisChallenging Stereotypes & BiasRelationship SkillsActive ListeningClear Verbal & Nonverbal CommunicationBuilding Positive FriendshipsWorking Cooperatively in GroupsCommunicating Personal BoundariesRespecting Others' BoundariesAssertive ExpressionPeaceful Problem-SolvingContributing to Team GoalsComplex Conflict NavigationMediation & NegotiationHealthy Romantic RelationshipsResponsible Decision-MakingDaily Problem IdentificationBrainstorming Multiple SolutionsEvaluating Pros & ConsRecognizing Risks & ConsequencesApplying Ethical FrameworksInformed Risk-Benefit DecisionsRoot Cause AnalysisMindfulnessMindful BreathingBody Scan MeditationDaily Mindfulness ApplicationDaily Self-Care RoutinesBalancing Life DemandsAdvocating for Wellness NeedsMental Health SupportUnderstanding Anxiety SymptomsWorry Management StrategiesProgressive Muscle RelaxationRecognizing Depression SignsBuilding Mood-Supporting RoutinesBehavioral Activation for MoodUnderstanding Grief StagesHealthy Grief CopingCreative Expression of LossBehavioral SupportDaily Check-In ProceduresDaily Goal Setting & ReviewRecognizing Escalation Warning SignsRequesting Breaks & SupportSelf-Calming During DistressUnderstanding Positive ReinforcementToken Economy ImplementationBehavior Chart TrackingAnalyzing Behavior PatternsIdentifying Antecedents & ConsequencesDetermining Behavior FunctionFunction-Based InterventionsIndividualized Behavior ContractsData-Driven Behavior AdjustmentTherapeutic ApproachesThoughts-Feelings-Behaviors ConnectionRecognizing Thinking PatternsChallenging Negative ThoughtsPositive Self-Talk PracticeThought Record TrackingAdvanced Cognitive RestructuringComprehensive CBT PlansBehavioral Activation TechniquesBuilding Positive ExperiencesExposure Hierarchies for AnxietyPresent-Moment AwarenessNon-Judgmental ObservationSelf-Soothing & DistractionComplex Emotion LabelingReducing Emotional Vulnerability (PLEASE)DEAR MAN CommunicationGIVE Skills for RelationshipsFAST Skills for Self-RespectRadical Acceptance PracticeCrisis Survival Skills (TIPP)Understanding Trauma EffectsTrauma Responses & TriggersIdentifying Trauma FeelingsGrounding TechniquesRegulation During Trauma DistressSafe Place VisualizationProcessing Through NarrativeDeveloping Trauma StoryPersonalized Safety PlanningGroup SupportTurn-Taking & SharingGroup Conversation SkillsSharing in Supportive EnvironmentLearning from Similar ChallengesBuilding Community & BelongingNavigating Peer RelationshipsGroup Skill PracticeGroup Mental Health EducationStress & Anxiety UnderstandingCrisis Support & SafetyKnowing When to Seek HelpIdentifying Mental Health CrisesGrounding During CrisisUsing Crisis HotlinesBuilding Support NetworksAccessing Mental Health ResourcesWarning Signs & Coping StrategiesDeveloping Personal Safety PlansUnderstanding Suicide Warning SignsGatekeeper Skills for PeersDigital LiteracySocial MediaTechnology BasicsProductivity ToolsInternet and Online ResearchWeb Design and PublishingDigital CitizenshipOnline Safety and PrivacyEmerging TechnologiesFinancial LiteracyMaking Financial DecisionsBanking and AccountsConsumer SkillsSaving and InvestingCredit and DebtEmployment and IncomeTaxesInsuranceMajor PurchasesEconomic ConceptsFinancial PlanningCollege & Post-Secondary PlanningCareer ExplorationUnderstanding Post-Secondary OptionsCollege Research & SelectionAdmission RequirementsCollege Application ProcessPersonal Statement WritingFAFSA CompletionScholarship Search & ApplicationsUnderstanding Student LoansContinuing Education PlanningInterview PreparationResearching EmployersCommon Interview QuestionsSTAR Method ResponsesProfessional Interview PresenceVirtual Interview SkillsInterview Follow-UpJob Search SkillsUnderstanding Job PostingsEffective Job Search StrategiesNetworking for OpportunitiesResume Writing BasicsAction Verbs & AchievementsTailoring Resumes to JobsCover Letter WritingProfessional ReferencesProfessional CommunicationBusiness Email EtiquettePhone & Voicemail ProfessionalismMeeting ParticipationPresentation SkillsProfessional Work EthicTime Management & ProductivityTeamwork & CollaborationAdaptability & FlexibilityProblem-Solving at WorkConstructive FeedbackWorkplace RightsUnderstanding Employment LawsPay & Benefits UnderstandingWorkplace SafetyAnti-Discrimination & Harassment
Active ListeningTechniques for non-verbal engagement, reflective listening, and empathetic responding. Develops skills for clarifying understanding and validating others' perspectives in diverse social settings.
Clear Verbal & Nonverbal CommunicationActive listening techniques, clarity of tone, and the interpretation of body language. Builds social competence by aligning spoken messages with physical cues to reduce communication barriers.
Building Positive FriendshipsInterpersonal communication, empathy, and boundary-setting strategies for establishing healthy peer connections. Addresses conflict resolution techniques and identifying qualities of supportive versus toxic friendships.
Working Cooperatively in GroupsCollaborative techniques for role assignment, active listening, and joint problem-solving. Addresses group dynamics, consensus-building strategies, and individual accountability within a team framework.
Communicating Personal BoundariesAssertive communication techniques and 'I' statements for articulating physical and emotional limits. Equips learners with strategies for identifying personal comfort levels and responding to boundary violations.
Respecting Others' BoundariesDistinguishes between physical, emotional, and digital boundaries while teaching communication strategies for consent and personal space. Develops empathy and situational awareness to foster healthy interpersonal relationships.
Assertive ExpressionTechniques for expressing needs and setting boundaries through 'I' statements and direct communication. Distinguishes assertive behavior from passive and aggressive responses in various social contexts.
Peaceful Problem-SolvingActive listening, 'I' statements, and negotiation strategies for resolving interpersonal conflicts. Builds practical skills for de-escalation and collaborative problem-solving in social settings.
Contributing to Team GoalsCollaborative strategies for group success, focusing on active listening, role clarity, and shared accountability. Builds skills in balancing individual effort with collective objectives to meet common milestones.
Complex Conflict NavigationAdvanced mediation techniques and negotiation frameworks for addressing deep-seated interpersonal or professional disputes. Develops skills in identifying root causes, managing high-arousal emotions, and crafting sustainable resolutions.
Mediation & NegotiationTechniques for neutral conflict resolution and interest-based bargaining. Strengthens active listening, de-escalation, and collaborative problem-solving to reach mutual agreements.
Healthy Romantic RelationshipsEffective communication, boundary setting, and mutual respect within dating dynamics. Targets conflict resolution skills and the identification of red/green flags to foster emotional safety.
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Loop Breakers Worksheet

Loop Breakers Worksheet

Student worksheet for Lesson 5, requiring students to analyze a conflict script, diagram a full conflict cycle, and identify strategic intervention points to break negative loops.

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Breaking the Loop Slides

Breaking the Loop Slides

Capstome presentation for Lesson 5, synthesizing all previous concepts (Iceberg, Amygdala, Values, Pause) into a 'Conflict Loop' model.

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Toxic Language Translation Teacher Guide

Toxic Language Translation Teacher Guide

Instructional guide for Lesson 5, providing pacing, discussion prompts, simulation instructions, and a worksheet answer key.

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Loop Breakers Teacher Guide

Loop Breakers Teacher Guide

Teacher facilitation guide for Lesson 5, including the 'Conflict Loop' model, pacing, and analysis keys for the culminating script activity.

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Official Resolution Template

Official Resolution Template

A formal template for writing final, binding conflict resolution agreements, used by students in both Lesson 4 and Lesson 5.

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Reframing Relay Worksheet

Reframing Relay Worksheet

A student worksheet for practicing the translation of toxic language into neutral problem statements, including identification exercises and reframing challenges.

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Mediator Certification Award

Mediator Certification Award

A formal, professional-looking certificate awarded to students who successfully pass the mock mediation certification, recognizing their skills as a neutral third party.

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Regulation Toolkit Worksheet

Regulation Toolkit Worksheet

Student worksheet for Lesson 4, requiring students to practice tactical breathing, grounding techniques, and create a personalized emotional regulation plan.

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Mediation Teacher Guide

Mediation Teacher Guide

Teacher-facing facilitation guide and answer keys for the entire Peer Mediation sequence, including coaching tips for mock mediations.

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Negotiation Lab Exit Ticket

Negotiation Lab Exit Ticket

Final exit ticket for the negotiation sequence, assessing students' understanding of compromise, externalizing language, and BATNA.

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Mediation Scenario Pack

Mediation Scenario Pack

A set of three complex conflict scenarios for the mock mediation certification, including background stories and secret interests for role-players to reveal during the session.

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Toxic Language Translation Slides

Toxic Language Translation Slides

Visual presentation slides for Lesson 5, focusing on translating toxic language into neutral problem statements.

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Iceberg Mastery Test Student

Iceberg Mastery Test Student

Final mastery assessment for the unit, testing vocabulary, the Five Whys technique, and deep solution generation.

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BATNA Builder Worksheet

BATNA Builder Worksheet

Student worksheet for identifying and strengthening their BATNA (Best Alternative to a Negotiated Agreement) before entering a conflict resolution.

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The Power Pause Slides

The Power Pause Slides

Introductory presentation for Lesson 4, visually explaining the 'The Power Pause' model and techniques for emotional regulation during conflict.

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Mediator Certification Rubric

Mediator Certification Rubric

A formal evaluation rubric for the mock mediation certification, assessing students on process management, neutrality, summarization, communication, and agreement quality.

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Solution Pitch Worksheet

Solution Pitch Worksheet

A worksheet where students identify positions and interests for a specific case study and pitch a solution that addresses underlying human needs.

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Boundary Setting Teacher Guide

Boundary Setting Teacher Guide

Instructional guide for Lesson 4, providing pacing, discussion prompts, simulation instructions, and a worksheet answer key.

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BATNA Plan B Slides

BATNA Plan B Slides

Visual aids for Lesson 5 explaining the concept of BATNA (Best Alternative to a Negotiated Agreement) to understand their 'walk-away' power.

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Mediation Lab Scripts Handout

Mediation Lab Scripts Handout

Role-play scenarios based on common middle school conflicts to be used during the Mediation Lab simulation.

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SOS Spark Checklist

SOS Spark Checklist

A one-page reference checklist for students featuring 'circuit breaker' coping skills to use when feeling emotionally overwhelmed or 'sucked into' a friend's mood.

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Gaea Ray

Other
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Boundary Bridge Guide

Boundary Bridge Guide

A comprehensive facilitator's guide for teachers or counselors, providing a roadmap for individual and dyad sessions, key talking points, observation checklists, and troubleshooting tips for addressing trauma bonding.

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Gaea Ray

Other
2/6
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Resilience Toolkit Worksheet

Resilience Toolkit Worksheet

A two-page individual 'self-repair' guide for students featuring grounding exercises, strength identification, the 'Yet' reframing technique, and daily journaling prompts to build personal resilience.

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Gaea Ray

Other
2/6
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Friendship Upgrade Cheat Sheet

Friendship Upgrade Cheat Sheet

A one-page 'pocket guide' for students featuring conversation scripts, a friendship agreement, and a menu of emotional regulation tools to maintain healthy boundaries.

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Gaea Ray

Other
2/6
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Boundary Builders Activity

Boundary Builders Activity

A two-page student activity featuring 'The Backpack Exercise' for identifying emotional ownership and three 'Upgrade the Moment' scenarios for practicing healthy boundaries and responses.

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Gaea Ray

Other
2/6
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Mirror Trap Fact Sheet

Mirror Trap Fact Sheet

A two-page student-facing fact sheet and reflection guide that explains the concept of 'emotional mirroring' (trauma bonding) and introduces the 'both can be true' mindset for healthy friendship boundaries.

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Gaea Ray

Other
2/6
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Answer Strategy Playbook Guide

Answer Strategy Playbook Guide

An interview strategy guide providing frameworks like STAR+, "Green Flag" phrases, and specific hints for answering high-stakes Site Coordinator questions.

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Gyzzelle Zepeda

School Administrator
2/6
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Interview Combat Guide Sheet

Interview Combat Guide Sheet

A comprehensive interview preparation guide featuring a master bank of potential questions for Site Coordinators, categorized by leadership, operations, and student engagement.

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Gyzzelle Zepeda

School Administrator
2/6
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Impact Scaling Guide

Impact Scaling Guide

A strategic guide for Site Coordinators on program sustainability and professional growth, focusing on content evolution, leadership pipelines, and community partnerships.

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Gyzzelle Zepeda

School Administrator
2/5
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Recruitment Victory Guide

Recruitment Victory Guide

A guide for Site Coordinators on how to celebrate recruitment milestones, featuring tiered celebration strategies for staff, students, and school partners.

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Gyzzelle Zepeda

School Administrator
2/5
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Growth Loop Guide

Growth Loop Guide

A specialized guide and reflection tool for Site Coordinators to analyze the success of their engagement plans through data, feedback, and iterative pivots.

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Gyzzelle Zepeda

School Administrator
2/5
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Engagement Activation Sprint Guide

Engagement Activation Sprint Guide

A practical three-step action plan designed to help a Site Coordinator implement an engagement strategy during their first 30 days, focusing on intelligence, activation, and ownership.

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Gyzzelle Zepeda

School Administrator
2/5
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Five Step Engagement Plan

Five Step Engagement Plan

A clear, sequential five-step strategy for increasing student participation and retention in high school after-school programs.

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Gyzzelle Zepeda

School Administrator
2/5
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Teen Connection Steps Guide

Teen Connection Steps Guide

A specialized guide outlining the four critical steps for building authentic relationships with high school students, designed to support Site Coordinators in fostering trust and engagement.

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Gyzzelle Zepeda

School Administrator
2/5
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Empathy Texting Worksheet Final

Empathy Texting Worksheet Final

A student worksheet designed to practice digital empathy. It features two smartphone-styled scenarios where students must draft supportive text messages using the 'Notice-Validate-Stay' framework, emphasizing validation over problem-solving. Revised for improved student work area legibility.

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Gold Sparkles Slides

Gold Sparkles Slides

A visual presentation for the 'The Power of Okay' lesson. It includes a hook discussion slide, an embedded YouTube short film, analysis of dismissive advice ('The Dismissal Trap'), and the core 'Notice-Validate-Stay' framework for empathy.

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Empathy Texting Worksheet

Empathy Texting Worksheet

A worksheet designed for students to practice digital empathy. It includes reflection prompts and two smartphone-styled scenarios where students must craft supportive text messages using the film's framework, focusing on validation rather than problem-solving.

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Silent Struggle Teacher Guide

Silent Struggle Teacher Guide

A comprehensive teacher facilitation guide for the 'The Power of Okay' lesson, featuring learning objectives, a detailed pacing guide with film timestamps, discussion prompts, and an explanation of the film's visual metaphors.

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Assertive Breakups Teacher Guide

Assertive Breakups Teacher Guide

A comprehensive teacher facilitation guide for the Assertive Breakup lesson. Includes grade-specific objectives, a detailed pacing guide with video pause points, and pedagogical tips for managing discussions on healthy communication.

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Pathfinder Teacher Facilitation Guide

Pathfinder Teacher Facilitation Guide

A comprehensive teacher's guide for the Navigating Change lesson, providing pacing, discussion prompts, pause points for the video, and vocabulary definitions.

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Resilience Architecture Plan & Crisis Card

Resilience Architecture Plan & Crisis Card

Final student synthesis materials for Lesson 5, including a comprehensive Resilience Architecture master plan and a portable, pocket-sized Crisis Card for immediate intervention.

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Resilience Capstone Slides

Resilience Capstone Slides

Visual presentation for Lesson 5, synthesizing the sequence and introducing the Resilience Architecture plan and Crisis Card.

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Capacity Budgeting Workshop

Capacity Budgeting Workshop

A student budgeting activity for Lesson 4 that teaches students how to evaluate opportunities and practice declining them to protect their academic capacity.

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Strategic No Slides

Strategic No Slides

Visual presentation for Lesson 4, addressing the economics of energy, role overload, and the "Yes/No/Negotiate" framework in academia.

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Shutdown Ritual Blueprint

Shutdown Ritual Blueprint

A student blueprint for Lesson 3 to design a personalized shutdown ritual and optimize their sleep environment.

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Sleep Science Slides

Sleep Science Slides

Visual presentation for Lesson 3, focusing on the neurobiology of sleep and the concept of revenge bedtime procrastination.

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Schedule Design Worksheet

Schedule Design Worksheet

A student worksheet for Lesson 2 that helps graduate students audit 'phantom time' lost to anxiety and design a schedule with structural buffers.

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Time Management Slides

Time Management Slides

Visual presentation for Lesson 2, reframing time management from a productivity lens to a cognitive load reduction lens.

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Stress Cycle Slides

Stress Cycle Slides

Visual presentation for Lesson 1, introducing the concept of the stress cycle, stressors, and the six ways to complete the cycle physiologically.

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Burnout Audit Worksheet

Burnout Audit Worksheet

A student diagnostic worksheet for Lesson 1, including a burnout risk inventory and a structural audit of stress-completion activities.

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Stress Cycle Teacher Guide

Stress Cycle Teacher Guide

A comprehensive teacher facilitation guide for Lesson 1, focusing on the neurobiology of the stress cycle and strategies for burnout prevention in graduate academia.

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Survival Triage Worksheet

Survival Triage Worksheet

An emergency triage worksheet that guides students through a simulated crisis scenario, helping them identify which tasks to abandon and how to construct a Minimum Viable Day (MVD).

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Survival Flight Plan Slides

Survival Flight Plan Slides

Lesson 5 slide deck on emergency triage and the 'Minimum Viable Day' concept, teaching students how to prioritize critical tasks during periods of crisis or illness.

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Overloaded Ace Case Study

Overloaded Ace Case Study

A case study document about 'Alex the Ace', a student who takes on too much, designed to help students analyze the consequences of over-commitment and practice setting boundaries.

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Boundary Shield Slides

Boundary Shield Slides

Lesson 4 slide deck introducing the concept of opportunity cost and providing a "No Bank" of polite but firm scripts for setting boundaries.

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Self-Advocacy Checklist Rubric

Self-Advocacy Checklist Rubric

A self-assessment rubric for students to track their growth in identifying burnout, setting boundaries, negotiating deadlines, and asking for help.

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Conflict Collision Cards

Conflict Collision Cards

A set of role-play simulation cards for students to practice negotiating scheduling conflicts in various realistic scenarios (sports vs. academics, work vs. family, etc.).

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The Balance Contract Document

The Balance Contract Document

A personal 'Balance Contract' to outline their limits and establish a protocol for managing future stress.

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Contract Prep Slides

Contract Prep Slides

Reviewing the unit and preparing for the final project: the personal Balance Contract.

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Conflict Collision Slides

Conflict Collision Slides

Lesson 3 slide deck focusing on face-to-face negotiation skills for resolving scheduling conflicts, introducing a 3-step negotiation framework.

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Champion Teacher Guide

Champion Teacher Guide

A comprehensive teacher facilitation guide covering the instruction, discussion prompts, activities, and specific listening lab scripts for both behavioral lessons.

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Kellie Walsh

Special Education Teacher
2/7
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Mission Control Worksheet

Mission Control Worksheet

A detective-themed worksheet for first graders to practice following multi-step directions, sequencing steps, and analyzing behavior scenarios.

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Kellie Walsh

Special Education Teacher
2/7
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Direction Detectives Slides

Direction Detectives Slides

A detective-themed presentation for first graders focusing on the four steps of following directions: Stop, Look, Listen, and Do.

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Kellie Walsh

Special Education Teacher
2/7
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Rule Ranger Scenarios Worksheet

Rule Ranger Scenarios Worksheet

A scenario-based worksheet for first graders to identify and differentiate between positive classroom behaviors and rule-breaking actions using a 'Rule Ranger' theme.

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Kellie Walsh

Special Education Teacher
2/7
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Rule Rangers Slides

Rule Rangers Slides

An engaging slide deck for first graders that introduces classroom rules through a 'Rule Rangers' theme, featuring interactive scenarios and clear behavioral expectations.

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Kellie Walsh

Special Education Teacher
2/7
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Humor Filter Answer Key

Humor Filter Answer Key

An answer key for the Humor Filter worksheet, providing correct categorizations for scenarios and an expanded list of suggested boundary-setting scripts.

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sandra cruz

Counselor
2/6
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Humor Filter Worksheet

Humor Filter Worksheet

A student activity sheet for categorizing different types of classroom humor and practicing boundary-setting scripts to address aggressive or mean-spirited jokes, now featuring 6 scenarios and 6 expanded boundary scripts.

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sandra cruz

Counselor
2/6
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Banter Boundary Slides

Banter Boundary Slides

A visual presentation for a 5th-grade SEL lesson on distinguishing between playful banter and aggressive humor, featuring interactive discussion prompts and an expanded set of 6 boundary-setting scripts.

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sandra cruz

Counselor
2/6
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Banter Boundary Teacher Guide

Banter Boundary Teacher Guide

A comprehensive teacher guide for a 30-minute social-emotional learning lesson focused on identifying and addressing aggressive humor and mean-spirited 'jokes' in the classroom. Now includes an expanded scenario bank and 6 boundary scripts.

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sandra cruz

Counselor
2/6
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Activity Answer Key

Activity Answer Key

A visual answer key and assessment guide for the listening skills drawing activity, highlighting common errors and instructional talking points.

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Kerry Kuehn

Counselor
2/6
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Instructional Script

Instructional Script

A comprehensive teacher script for a 30-minute lesson on respect and directions, with explicit prompts for managing classroom behavior and delivering the listening challenge.

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Kerry Kuehn

Counselor
2/6
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Heart to Heart Teacher Guide

Heart to Heart Teacher Guide

A comprehensive teacher facilitation guide for the Heart to Heart Kindness lesson, including objectives, step-by-step instructions, and discussion prompts.

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Erika Hanlon

Counselor
2/6
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Kindness Quest Worksheet

Kindness Quest Worksheet

A sweet Valentine-themed worksheet for 1st grade students featuring scenarios to identify kind actions and a drawing area to visualize friendship.

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Erika Hanlon

Counselor
2/6
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Boundary Lesson Script

Boundary Lesson Script

A minute-by-minute instructional script for teachers to deliver the Boundary Blueprint lesson, including slide-specific talking points and transition cues.

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Yvonne Brown

Psychologist
2/6
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Lead the Way Teacher Guide

Lead the Way Teacher Guide

Universal teacher guide for the Lead the Way lesson. Includes inquiry-based pacing, a breakdown of the 4 Pillars (Empathy, Integrity, Initiative, Influence), and strategies for teaching social "Steering" and "The Pivot".

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Chanie Selevan

Social Worker
2/6
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Leadership Compass Worksheet

Leadership Compass Worksheet

Universal leadership worksheet for 6th graders featuring discovery-based reflection, scenario analysis using the 4 Pillars, and a personal leadership commitment.

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Chanie Selevan

Social Worker
2/6
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Lead the Way Slides

Lead the Way Slides

Universal leadership slide deck for 6th graders focusing on 4 pillars: Empathy, Integrity, Initiative, and Influence. Includes myth-busting, discovery-based brainstorming, and the concept of "Steering the Energy".

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Chanie Selevan

Social Worker
2/6
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Boundary Coach Guide

Boundary Coach Guide

A facilitation guide for teachers/coaches to deliver the 30-minute boundary lesson, specifically addressing cross-gender social dynamics and respecting female peers.

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Yvonne Brown

Psychologist
2/6
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Social Success Worksheet

Social Success Worksheet

A 3-part worksheet for a 7th-grade student to practice identifying boundaries, specifically focusing on respecting the personal space and belongings of female peers.

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Yvonne Brown

Psychologist
2/6
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Boundary Blueprint Slides

Boundary Blueprint Slides

A comprehensive 6-slide presentation designed for a 7th-grade student with Autism, focusing on personal space, respecting female peers, and the meaning of 'no.'

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Yvonne Brown

Psychologist
2/6
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Ocean Path Puzzle Activity

Ocean Path Puzzle Activity

A story sequencing activity where kindergarteners cut and paste scenes from the Ocean Adventure to put them in order.

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Ashly Nolan

General Education Teacher
2/6
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Bubble Buddy Sort Worksheet

Bubble Buddy Sort Worksheet

A cut-and-paste sorting activity for kindergarteners to distinguish between "Body In" and "Body Out" social behaviors.

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Ashly Nolan

General Education Teacher
2/6
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Deep Sea Slides

Deep Sea Slides

Visual presentation slides for the Body in the Group lesson, explaining the Group Plan, physical proximity, and the emotional impact of social cues using an underwater theme.

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Ashly Nolan

General Education Teacher
2/6
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Deep Sea Captain Guide

Deep Sea Captain Guide

A comprehensive teacher guide for the Body in the Group ocean adventure lesson, including learning objectives, a scripted hook, and a timed activity mission timeline.

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Ashly Nolan

General Education Teacher
2/6
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Honesty Hero Reflection Worksheet

Honesty Hero Reflection Worksheet

A reflection worksheet for 4th graders to practice decision-making in honesty scenarios, explore the feelings associated with lying, and sign an 'Integrity Promise.'

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Ruth Portocarrero

Social Worker
2/6
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Truth and Trust Slides

Truth and Trust Slides

A visual presentation for 4th graders on honesty and trust, featuring the 'Tangled Web' and 'Trust Bridge' metaphors, plus practical tips for telling the hard truth.

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Ruth Portocarrero

Social Worker
2/6
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The Honest Heart Teacher Guide

The Honest Heart Teacher Guide

A comprehensive teacher guide for teaching 4th graders about honesty, featuring 'The Tangled Web' yarn activity, scenario analysis, and discussion prompts.

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Ruth Portocarrero

Social Worker
2/6
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Happy Crew Worksheet

Happy Crew Worksheet

A simple coloring and checkbox activity for Kindergarteners to identify the body parts used for "Whole Body Listening."

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Ruth Portocarrero

Social Worker
2/6
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Happy Crew Slides

Happy Crew Slides

A visual slide deck for Kindergarteners featuring "Whole Body Listening" and the "Fast Follower" concept for classroom expectations.

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Ruth Portocarrero

Social Worker
2/6
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Happy Classroom Crew Teacher Guide

Happy Classroom Crew Teacher Guide

A teacher guide for a Kindergarten lesson on classroom expectations, providing strategies for teaching "Whole Body Listening" and immediate cooperation through games and positive reinforcement.

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Ruth Portocarrero

Social Worker
2/6
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Calm Down Kit Worksheet

Calm Down Kit Worksheet

An interactive worksheet for 4th graders to build their "Calm Down Kit," identifying physical body signals and selecting personalized coping strategies. Revised with better contrast and student-friendly work areas.

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Ruth Portocarrero

Social Worker
2/6
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Cooling the Storm Slides

Cooling the Storm Slides

A slide deck for teaching coping skills, featuring the "Inner Weather" metaphor, identifying body signals, and step-by-step guides for breathing and grounding techniques. Revised for better legibility and contrast.

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Ruth Portocarrero

Social Worker
2/6
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Cooling the Storm Teacher Guide

Cooling the Storm Teacher Guide

A comprehensive teacher guide for teaching 4th graders coping skills, including discussion prompts, breathing exercises, and sensory grounding techniques.

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Ruth Portocarrero

Social Worker
2/6
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Kindness Quest Worksheet

Kindness Quest Worksheet

An activity worksheet for students to brainstorm acts of kindness and plan a 'Secret Kindness Mission' within the school community.

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Ruth Portocarrero

Social Worker
2/6
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Kindness Culture Slides

Kindness Culture Slides

A visual presentation for the Kindness Connection lesson, featuring definitions of kindness, school community roles, and interactive scenarios for class discussion.

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Ruth Portocarrero

Social Worker
2/6
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Kindness Connection Teacher Guide

Kindness Connection Teacher Guide

A comprehensive teacher guide for leading a lesson on school-wide kindness, including discussion prompts, roleplay scenarios, and instructions for the Kindness Quest activity.

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Ruth Portocarrero

Social Worker
2/6
Material
Activity Answer Key

Activity Answer Key

A visual answer key and assessment guide for the listening skills drawing activity, highlighting common errors and instructional talking points.

KK

Kerry Kuehn

Counselor
2/6
Material
Instructional Script

Instructional Script

A comprehensive teacher script for a 30-minute lesson on respect and directions, with explicit prompts for managing classroom behavior and delivering the listening challenge.

KK

Kerry Kuehn

Counselor
2/6
Material
Shipshape Strategies Worksheet

Shipshape Strategies Worksheet

A student-facing worksheet for self-reflection on avoidance triggers (icebergs), coping strategies (buckets), and communication plans (radio check).

KA

Kourtney Adams

Counselor
2/6
Material
Captain Conversation Guide

Captain Conversation Guide

A facilitation guide for counselors to use the loopable slide deck effectively, focusing on the witty tone, community impact, and communication strategies.

KA

Kourtney Adams

Counselor
2/6
Material
SOS Spark Checklist

SOS Spark Checklist

A one-page reference checklist for students featuring 'circuit breaker' coping skills to use when feeling emotionally overwhelmed or 'sucked into' a friend's mood.

GR

Gaea Ray

Other
2/6
Material
Boundary Bridge Guide

Boundary Bridge Guide

A comprehensive facilitator's guide for teachers or counselors, providing a roadmap for individual and dyad sessions, key talking points, observation checklists, and troubleshooting tips for addressing trauma bonding.

GR

Gaea Ray

Other
2/6
Material
Resilience Toolkit Worksheet

Resilience Toolkit Worksheet

A two-page individual 'self-repair' guide for students featuring grounding exercises, strength identification, the 'Yet' reframing technique, and daily journaling prompts to build personal resilience.

GR

Gaea Ray

Other
2/6
Material
Friendship Upgrade Cheat Sheet

Friendship Upgrade Cheat Sheet

A one-page 'pocket guide' for students featuring conversation scripts, a friendship agreement, and a menu of emotional regulation tools to maintain healthy boundaries.

GR

Gaea Ray

Other
2/6
Material
Boundary Builders Activity

Boundary Builders Activity

A two-page student activity featuring 'The Backpack Exercise' for identifying emotional ownership and three 'Upgrade the Moment' scenarios for practicing healthy boundaries and responses.

GR

Gaea Ray

Other
2/6
Material
Mirror Trap Fact Sheet

Mirror Trap Fact Sheet

A two-page student-facing fact sheet and reflection guide that explains the concept of 'emotional mirroring' (trauma bonding) and introduces the 'both can be true' mindset for healthy friendship boundaries.

GR

Gaea Ray

Other
2/6
Material
Humor Filter Answer Key

Humor Filter Answer Key

An answer key for the Humor Filter worksheet, providing correct categorizations for scenarios and an expanded list of suggested boundary-setting scripts.

SC

sandra cruz

Counselor
2/6
Material
Humor Filter Worksheet

Humor Filter Worksheet

A student activity sheet for categorizing different types of classroom humor and practicing boundary-setting scripts to address aggressive or mean-spirited jokes, now featuring 6 scenarios and 6 expanded boundary scripts.

SC

sandra cruz

Counselor
2/6
Material
Banter Boundary Slides

Banter Boundary Slides

A visual presentation for a 5th-grade SEL lesson on distinguishing between playful banter and aggressive humor, featuring interactive discussion prompts and an expanded set of 6 boundary-setting scripts.

SC

sandra cruz

Counselor
2/6
Material
Banter Boundary Teacher Guide

Banter Boundary Teacher Guide

A comprehensive teacher guide for a 30-minute social-emotional learning lesson focused on identifying and addressing aggressive humor and mean-spirited 'jokes' in the classroom. Now includes an expanded scenario bank and 6 boundary scripts.

SC

sandra cruz

Counselor
2/6
Material
Calm Cards Middle School Deck

Calm Cards Middle School Deck

An advanced version of the Calm Cards matching game specifically tailored for middle schoolers. Features 12 pairs of sophisticated coping strategies like cognitive reframing, digital boundaries, and assertive communication, with a mature journal-style design.

ZG

Zyra Guyon

Counselor
2/6
Material
Calm Cards Match Game Slice-and-Dice

Calm Cards Match Game Slice-and-Dice

A printer-optimized set of 24 matching cards (12 pairs) with tightened layout and fixed height grids to ensure zero content cutoff during printing. Includes clear cutting guides and compact instructional header.

ZG

Zyra Guyon

Counselor
2/6
Material
Integrity Impact Rubric

Integrity Impact Rubric

An assessment rubric for evaluating student understanding of academic integrity, focusing on four key criteria: understanding pressure, impact analysis, ethical strategy, and self-reflection.

RL

Richard Latham

Behavior Interventionist
2/6
Material
Decision Detectives Scenarios

Decision Detectives Scenarios

An interactive student activity featuring three realistic scenarios (Case Files) where students must analyze the pressures to cheat and develop ethical 'Blueprint Actions.' Includes a personal reflection section.

RL

Richard Latham

Behavior Interventionist
2/6
Material
Integrity Insights Slides

Integrity Insights Slides

A visual presentation for the 'Honesty Blueprint' lesson, covering the definition of integrity, the 'Pressure Cooker' of why students cheat, and the long-term impact of dishonesty on trust and character.

RL

Richard Latham

Behavior Interventionist
2/6
Material
Honesty Blueprint Teacher Guide

Honesty Blueprint Teacher Guide

A comprehensive teacher facilitation guide for the 'Honesty Blueprint' lesson, featuring learning objectives, a minute-by-minute instructional sequence, and pedagogical insights into why students cheat.

RL

Richard Latham

Behavior Interventionist
2/6
Material
Boundary Lesson Script

Boundary Lesson Script

A minute-by-minute instructional script for teachers to deliver the Boundary Blueprint lesson, including slide-specific talking points and transition cues.

YB

Yvonne Brown

Psychologist
2/6
Material
Communication Mastery Rubric

Communication Mastery Rubric

A comprehensive rubric for assessing student communication skills across four categories: Verbal Mastery, Vocal Delivery, Visual Impact, and Social Respect.

LM

Laura McIntyre

Physical Education Teacher
2/6
Material
Assertive Anchor Chart

Assertive Anchor Chart

A high-impact visual anchor chart comparing communication styles and providing the step-by-step 'I' statement formula.

LM

Laura McIntyre

Physical Education Teacher
2/6
Material
Scenario Studio Worksheet

Scenario Studio Worksheet

A practice worksheet for students to identify communication styles and practice writing assertive 'I' statements for various social scenarios.

LM

Laura McIntyre

Physical Education Teacher
2/6
Material
Champion Teacher Guide

Champion Teacher Guide

A comprehensive teacher facilitation guide covering the instruction, discussion prompts, activities, and specific listening lab scripts for both behavioral lessons.

KW

Kellie Walsh

Special Education Teacher
2/7
Material
Mission Control Worksheet

Mission Control Worksheet

A detective-themed worksheet for first graders to practice following multi-step directions, sequencing steps, and analyzing behavior scenarios.

KW

Kellie Walsh

Special Education Teacher
2/7
Material
Direction Detectives Slides

Direction Detectives Slides

A detective-themed presentation for first graders focusing on the four steps of following directions: Stop, Look, Listen, and Do.

KW

Kellie Walsh

Special Education Teacher
2/7
Material
Rule Ranger Scenarios Worksheet

Rule Ranger Scenarios Worksheet

A scenario-based worksheet for first graders to identify and differentiate between positive classroom behaviors and rule-breaking actions using a 'Rule Ranger' theme.

KW

Kellie Walsh

Special Education Teacher
2/7
Material
Rule Rangers Slides

Rule Rangers Slides

An engaging slide deck for first graders that introduces classroom rules through a 'Rule Rangers' theme, featuring interactive scenarios and clear behavioral expectations.

KW

Kellie Walsh

Special Education Teacher
2/7
Material
SOS Spark Checklist

SOS Spark Checklist

A one-page reference checklist for students featuring 'circuit breaker' coping skills to use when feeling emotionally overwhelmed or 'sucked into' a friend's mood.

GR

Gaea Ray

Other
2/6
Material
Boundary Bridge Guide

Boundary Bridge Guide

A comprehensive facilitator's guide for teachers or counselors, providing a roadmap for individual and dyad sessions, key talking points, observation checklists, and troubleshooting tips for addressing trauma bonding.

GR

Gaea Ray

Other
2/6
Material
Resilience Toolkit Worksheet

Resilience Toolkit Worksheet

A two-page individual 'self-repair' guide for students featuring grounding exercises, strength identification, the 'Yet' reframing technique, and daily journaling prompts to build personal resilience.

GR

Gaea Ray

Other
2/6
Material
Friendship Upgrade Cheat Sheet

Friendship Upgrade Cheat Sheet

A one-page 'pocket guide' for students featuring conversation scripts, a friendship agreement, and a menu of emotional regulation tools to maintain healthy boundaries.

GR

Gaea Ray

Other
2/6
Material
Boundary Builders Activity

Boundary Builders Activity

A two-page student activity featuring 'The Backpack Exercise' for identifying emotional ownership and three 'Upgrade the Moment' scenarios for practicing healthy boundaries and responses.

GR

Gaea Ray

Other
2/6
Material
Mirror Trap Fact Sheet

Mirror Trap Fact Sheet

A two-page student-facing fact sheet and reflection guide that explains the concept of 'emotional mirroring' (trauma bonding) and introduces the 'both can be true' mindset for healthy friendship boundaries.

GR

Gaea Ray

Other
2/6
Material
Conversation Starter Cards Document

Conversation Starter Cards Document

A set of conversation starter cards updated to replace 'Me Too' moments with 'Interest Match' terminology.

MH

Melissa Hordynski

Other
2/6
Material
Friendship Success Checklist Document

Friendship Success Checklist Document

A highly visual, full-page checklist for students to track their friendship skills, updated to use 'Interest Match' terminology.

MH

Melissa Hordynski

Other
2/6
Material
Friendship Coach Guide Teacher Resource

Friendship Coach Guide Teacher Resource

A teacher guide for instructing students on friendship skills, including role-play prompts, troubleshooting tips for common social hurdles, and a progress tracking table.

MH

Melissa Hordynski

Other
2/6
Material
Making Friends Story Document

Making Friends Story Document

A 6-page illustrated social story for first graders that teaches the step-by-step process of making friends, updated to use 'Interest Match' verbiage for shared connections.

MH

Melissa Hordynski

Other
2/6
Material
Ocean Path Puzzle Activity

Ocean Path Puzzle Activity

A story sequencing activity where kindergarteners cut and paste scenes from the Ocean Adventure to put them in order.

AN

Ashly Nolan

General Education Teacher
2/6
Material
Bubble Buddy Sort Worksheet

Bubble Buddy Sort Worksheet

A cut-and-paste sorting activity for kindergarteners to distinguish between "Body In" and "Body Out" social behaviors.

AN

Ashly Nolan

General Education Teacher
2/6
Material
Deep Sea Slides

Deep Sea Slides

Visual presentation slides for the Body in the Group lesson, explaining the Group Plan, physical proximity, and the emotional impact of social cues using an underwater theme.

AN

Ashly Nolan

General Education Teacher
2/6
Material
Deep Sea Captain Guide

Deep Sea Captain Guide

A comprehensive teacher guide for the Body in the Group ocean adventure lesson, including learning objectives, a scripted hook, and a timed activity mission timeline.

AN

Ashly Nolan

General Education Teacher
2/6
Material
Social Signal Decoder Slides Final

Social Signal Decoder Slides Final

Engaging slides for a middle school counseling lesson on reading social signals, understanding perspectives, and choosing responses with natural consequences. This version separates the definition of natural consequences from the escalation/de-escalation outcomes and inquiry questions into three distinct slides.

YB

Yvonne Brown

Psychologist
2/6
Material
Peer Support Rubric

Peer Support Rubric

An assessment rubric for the final Community Charter project, evaluating theory application, safety planning, and sustainability.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Material
Community Care Project Rubric

Community Care Project Rubric

Final project rubric for evaluating the Community Care Initiative, focusing on rationale, boundaries, referral pathways, and sustainability.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Material
Community Care Design Template

Community Care Design Template

Student design workbook for planning the Community Care initiative, covering problem definition, logistics, safety boundaries, and sustainability.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Material
Community Charter Template

Community Charter Template

A design framework for a community care plan, producing a 'Community Charter' for peer support in a specific campus context.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Material
Community Care Project Brief

Community Care Project Brief

Final project brief for the Community Care initiative, detailing requirements, core components, and the "Department Pitch" assessment.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Material
Community Care Slides

Community Care Slides

Visual slide deck for Lesson 5, introducing the concepts of mutual aid, sustainable networks, and the "Community Charter" project.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Material
Group Dynamics Observer Tool

Group Dynamics Observer Tool

Observation and feedback tool for students to use while observing peer-led group facilitation simulations, focusing on psychological safety and dynamic management.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Material
Collective Coping Toolkit

Collective Coping Toolkit

A brainstorming worksheet for identifying collective coping strategies for common undergraduate stressors.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Material
Circle Facilitation Script

Circle Facilitation Script

Practical script for students to lead a brief check-in circle, featuring opening ground rules, modeling prompts, and intervention strategies.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Material
Stressor Sorting Activity

Stressor Sorting Activity

A sorting activity where students categorize shared stressors from an anonymous "drop box" into personal or systemic categories to facilitate normalization.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Material
Facilitation Fundamentals Slides

Facilitation Fundamentals Slides

Facilitation Fundamentals Slides focusing on group dynamics, psychological safety, and managing difficult participants.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Material
Group Facilitation Slides

Group Facilitation Slides

Visual slide deck for Lesson 4, introducing group facilitation skills, the power of normalization, and the distinction between individual and systemic stressors.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Material
Referral Resource Guide

Referral Resource Guide

Reference guide and template for students to identify professional resources and practice the "warm handoff" referral protocol.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Material
Campus Referral Organizer

Campus Referral Organizer

A resource guide template for students to collect and categorize campus professional resources.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Material
Boundary Case Studies

Boundary Case Studies

Case studies focusing on temporal and emotional boundary failures in peer support, including scripting exercises for boundary resetting.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Material
Sustainable Support Slides

Sustainable Support Slides

Sustainable Support Slides focusing on compassion fatigue, different types of boundaries, and the professional referral process.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Material
Peer Support Case Studies

Peer Support Case Studies

Case study scenarios for Lesson 3 focusing on identifying red flags, setting internal limits, and drafting referral scripts.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Material
Best Part Circle Guide

Best Part Circle Guide

Teacher-facing guide for facilitating the end-of-day "Best Part" reflection circle with Pre-K students.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Material
Gratitude Garden Worksheet

Gratitude Garden Worksheet

A Kindergarten reflection and gratitude worksheet for the final lesson, where students identify traits they appreciate in their peers.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Material
Active Listening Cheat Sheet

Active Listening Cheat Sheet

Reference sheet for students featuring micro-skills definitions, validation hierarchy levels, and helpful open-ended question prompts.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Material
SOS Spark Checklist

SOS Spark Checklist

A one-page reference checklist for students featuring 'circuit breaker' coping skills to use when feeling emotionally overwhelmed or 'sucked into' a friend's mood.

GR

Gaea Ray

Other
2/6
Material
Boundary Bridge Guide

Boundary Bridge Guide

A comprehensive facilitator's guide for teachers or counselors, providing a roadmap for individual and dyad sessions, key talking points, observation checklists, and troubleshooting tips for addressing trauma bonding.

GR

Gaea Ray

Other
2/6
Material
Resilience Toolkit Worksheet

Resilience Toolkit Worksheet

A two-page individual 'self-repair' guide for students featuring grounding exercises, strength identification, the 'Yet' reframing technique, and daily journaling prompts to build personal resilience.

GR

Gaea Ray

Other
2/6
Material
Friendship Upgrade Cheat Sheet

Friendship Upgrade Cheat Sheet

A one-page 'pocket guide' for students featuring conversation scripts, a friendship agreement, and a menu of emotional regulation tools to maintain healthy boundaries.

GR

Gaea Ray

Other
2/6
Material
Boundary Builders Activity

Boundary Builders Activity

A two-page student activity featuring 'The Backpack Exercise' for identifying emotional ownership and three 'Upgrade the Moment' scenarios for practicing healthy boundaries and responses.

GR

Gaea Ray

Other
2/6
Material
Mirror Trap Fact Sheet

Mirror Trap Fact Sheet

A two-page student-facing fact sheet and reflection guide that explains the concept of 'emotional mirroring' (trauma bonding) and introduces the 'both can be true' mindset for healthy friendship boundaries.

GR

Gaea Ray

Other
2/6
Material
Master Inventory Checklist

Master Inventory Checklist

A comprehensive one-page master checklist of all coping skills, organized by tactical 'Sectors' (Hardware, Software, Base Camp, Toolkits, Advanced Ops) with rating and field note sections.

GR

Gaea Ray

Other
2/6
Material
Master Inventory Checklist

Master Inventory Checklist

A refined one-page master checklist of coping skills for middle school students, featuring a tactical 'Master Inventory' aesthetic with space for ratings and observations.

GR

Gaea Ray

Other
2/6
Material
Master Inventory Checklist

Master Inventory Checklist

A comprehensive one-page master checklist of all coping skills, organized by tactical 'Sectors' (Hardware, Software, Base Camp, Toolkits, Advanced Ops) with rating and field note sections.

GR

Gaea Ray

Other
2/6
Material
Conversation Starter Cards Document

Conversation Starter Cards Document

A set of conversation starter cards updated to replace 'Me Too' moments with 'Interest Match' terminology.

MH

Melissa Hordynski

Other
2/6
Material
Friendship Success Checklist Document

Friendship Success Checklist Document

A highly visual, full-page checklist for students to track their friendship skills, updated to use 'Interest Match' terminology.

MH

Melissa Hordynski

Other
2/6
Material
Mental Toolkits Handout

Mental Toolkits Handout

A handout for middle schoolers focusing on journaling, mental games, art-based expression, and visualization as creative 'Mental Toolkits' for anxiety.

GR

Gaea Ray

Other
2/6
Material
Field Test Mission Log

Field Test Mission Log

Updated master list and tracking worksheet that includes all four phases of coping skills (Hardware, Software, Base Camp, and Toolkits) for student rating and pattern recognition.

GR

Gaea Ray

Other
2/6
Material
Base Camp Maintenance Handout

Base Camp Maintenance Handout

A handout for middle schoolers explaining the biological importance of sleep, exercise, and emotional labeling as foundational 'Base Camp' maintenance for managing anxiety.

GR

Gaea Ray

Other
2/6
Material
Software Overrides Handout

Software Overrides Handout

A tactical handout focused on Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) techniques, explained as 'software overrides' for the brain.

GR

Gaea Ray

Other
2/6
Material
Hardware Hacks Handout

Hardware Hacks Handout

Updated technical handout for middle schoolers explaining breathing, PMR, and grounding skills through the lens of nervous system biology.

GR

Gaea Ray

Other
2/6
Material
Friendship Coach Guide Teacher Resource

Friendship Coach Guide Teacher Resource

A teacher guide for instructing students on friendship skills, including role-play prompts, troubleshooting tips for common social hurdles, and a progress tracking table.

MH

Melissa Hordynski

Other
2/6
Material
Making Friends Story Document

Making Friends Story Document

A 6-page illustrated social story for first graders that teaches the step-by-step process of making friends, updated to use 'Interest Match' verbiage for shared connections.

MH

Melissa Hordynski

Other
2/6
Material
Humor Filter Answer Key

Humor Filter Answer Key

An answer key for the Humor Filter worksheet, providing correct categorizations for scenarios and an expanded list of suggested boundary-setting scripts.

SC

sandra cruz

Counselor
2/6
Material
Humor Filter Worksheet

Humor Filter Worksheet

A student activity sheet for categorizing different types of classroom humor and practicing boundary-setting scripts to address aggressive or mean-spirited jokes, now featuring 6 scenarios and 6 expanded boundary scripts.

SC

sandra cruz

Counselor
2/6
Material
Peer Support Rubric

Peer Support Rubric

An assessment rubric for the final Community Charter project, evaluating theory application, safety planning, and sustainability.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Material
Community Charter Template

Community Charter Template

A design framework for a community care plan, producing a 'Community Charter' for peer support in a specific campus context.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Material
Community Care Slides

Community Care Slides

Visual slide deck for Lesson 5, introducing the concepts of mutual aid, sustainable networks, and the "Community Charter" project.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Material
Collective Coping Toolkit

Collective Coping Toolkit

A brainstorming worksheet for identifying collective coping strategies for common undergraduate stressors.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Material
Stressor Sorting Activity

Stressor Sorting Activity

A sorting activity where students categorize shared stressors from an anonymous "drop box" into personal or systemic categories to facilitate normalization.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Material
Group Facilitation Slides

Group Facilitation Slides

Visual slide deck for Lesson 4, introducing group facilitation skills, the power of normalization, and the distinction between individual and systemic stressors.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Material
Campus Referral Organizer

Campus Referral Organizer

A resource guide template for students to collect and categorize campus professional resources.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Material
Mood Hero Certificate

Mood Hero Certificate

A celebratory completion certificate for students who have finished the 'Mood Makers' sequence, recognizing them as 'official Mood Makers and Reset Heroes'.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Material
Mood Hero Comic Worksheet

Mood Hero Comic Worksheet

A student worksheet for reflecting on emotional change by creating a visual comic story of identifying a problem, choosing a tool, and achieving a positive mood shift.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Material
Peer Support Case Studies

Peer Support Case Studies

Case study scenarios for Lesson 3 focusing on identifying red flags, setting internal limits, and drafting referral scripts.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Material
Best Part Circle Guide

Best Part Circle Guide

Teacher-facing guide for facilitating the end-of-day "Best Part" reflection circle with Pre-K students.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Material
Pride Portfolio Cover Student Lesson 5

Pride Portfolio Cover Student Lesson 5

A decorative cover for the student's final 'Star Power' portfolio, featuring space for a self-portrait and recognition of their growth mindset journey.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Material
Mood Mastery Slides

Mood Mastery Slides

Instructional slides for Lesson 5, reviewing the key concepts of internal weather, movement experiments, and the coping toolbox.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Material
Gratitude Garden Worksheet

Gratitude Garden Worksheet

A Kindergarten reflection and gratitude worksheet for the final lesson, where students identify traits they appreciate in their peers.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Material
Reflection Facilitation Guide Lesson 5

Reflection Facilitation Guide Lesson 5

Comprehensive teacher guide for the final celebration lesson, outlining the 'Soapbox of Pride' activity, gallery walk facilitation, and portfolio assembly.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Material
Boundary Setting Slides

Boundary Setting Slides

Visual slide deck for Lesson 3, covering the scope of peer support, referral red flags, and the prevention of compassion fatigue.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Material
Magic Mover Medal Worksheet

Magic Mover Medal Worksheet

A student activity sheet where Pre-K children color and decorate their own "Magic Mover" medal for mastering classroom transitions.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Material
Celebration Circle Teacher Guide

Celebration Circle Teacher Guide

A teacher guide for the Community Celebration Circle, facilitating a concluding reflection and peer-compliment activity.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Material
Celebration Slides Lesson 5

Celebration Slides Lesson 5

Colorful slides for the final lesson celebration, focusing on internal pride, self-reflection, and the ongoing journey of growth for Pre-K students.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Material
Empathy Scripts Teacher Guide

Empathy Scripts Teacher Guide

A teacher guide with scripted scenarios and facilitation prompts for role-playing emotional resets and building empathy.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Material
Boundary Bridge Guide

Boundary Bridge Guide

A comprehensive facilitator's guide for teachers or counselors, providing a roadmap for individual and dyad sessions, key talking points, observation checklists, and troubleshooting tips for addressing trauma bonding.

GR

Gaea Ray

Other
2/6
Material
Resilience Toolkit Worksheet

Resilience Toolkit Worksheet

A two-page individual 'self-repair' guide for students featuring grounding exercises, strength identification, the 'Yet' reframing technique, and daily journaling prompts to build personal resilience.

GR

Gaea Ray

Other
2/6
Material
Friendship Upgrade Cheat Sheet

Friendship Upgrade Cheat Sheet

A one-page 'pocket guide' for students featuring conversation scripts, a friendship agreement, and a menu of emotional regulation tools to maintain healthy boundaries.

GR

Gaea Ray

Other
2/6
Material
Boundary Builders Activity

Boundary Builders Activity

A two-page student activity featuring 'The Backpack Exercise' for identifying emotional ownership and three 'Upgrade the Moment' scenarios for practicing healthy boundaries and responses.

GR

Gaea Ray

Other
2/6
Material
Mirror Trap Fact Sheet

Mirror Trap Fact Sheet

A two-page student-facing fact sheet and reflection guide that explains the concept of 'emotional mirroring' (trauma bonding) and introduces the 'both can be true' mindset for healthy friendship boundaries.

GR

Gaea Ray

Other
2/6
Material
Humor Filter Answer Key

Humor Filter Answer Key

An answer key for the Humor Filter worksheet, providing correct categorizations for scenarios and an expanded list of suggested boundary-setting scripts.

SC

sandra cruz

Counselor
2/6
Material
Humor Filter Worksheet

Humor Filter Worksheet

A student activity sheet for categorizing different types of classroom humor and practicing boundary-setting scripts to address aggressive or mean-spirited jokes, now featuring 6 scenarios and 6 expanded boundary scripts.

SC

sandra cruz

Counselor
2/6
Material
Banter Boundary Slides

Banter Boundary Slides

A visual presentation for a 5th-grade SEL lesson on distinguishing between playful banter and aggressive humor, featuring interactive discussion prompts and an expanded set of 6 boundary-setting scripts.

SC

sandra cruz

Counselor
2/6
Material
Banter Boundary Teacher Guide

Banter Boundary Teacher Guide

A comprehensive teacher guide for a 30-minute social-emotional learning lesson focused on identifying and addressing aggressive humor and mean-spirited 'jokes' in the classroom. Now includes an expanded scenario bank and 6 boundary scripts.

SC

sandra cruz

Counselor
2/6
Material
Pulse Pilot Facilitation Guide

Pulse Pilot Facilitation Guide

A facilitation guide for the counselor, providing specific strategies for rapport building, framing impulse control as 'power,' and navigating the student's unique home dynamics as an oldest sibling.

E

Evan

Other
2/6
Material
Hero Habits Checklist Aid

Hero Habits Checklist Aid

A visual aid and checklist that reframes being the oldest sibling as a leadership role, encouraging positive behaviors (Hero Habits) and fostering discussion about home dynamics.

E

Evan

Other
2/6
Material
The Ripple Effect Activity

The Ripple Effect Activity

An activity sheet that visualizes the 'Ripple Effect' of social behavior, helping students understand how their actions (both positive and negative) affect family members and peers.

E

Evan

Other
2/6
Material
Reaction Lab Worksheet

Reaction Lab Worksheet

An activity sheet for practicing 'Pulse Pilot' techniques, identifying physical triggers (The Spark), and mapping out alternative reactions to common stressors.

E

Evan

Other
2/6
Material
Pulse Pilot Slides

Pulse Pilot Slides

Visual aids to introduce the 'Pulse Pilot' concept, focusing on identifying the physical 'spark' of impulsivity and using a mental remote control.

E

Evan

Other
2/6
Material
Calm Cards Middle School Deck

Calm Cards Middle School Deck

An advanced version of the Calm Cards matching game specifically tailored for middle schoolers. Features 12 pairs of sophisticated coping strategies like cognitive reframing, digital boundaries, and assertive communication, with a mature journal-style design.

ZG

Zyra Guyon

Counselor
2/6
Material
Social Signal Decoder Slides Final

Social Signal Decoder Slides Final

Engaging slides for a middle school counseling lesson on reading social signals, understanding perspectives, and choosing responses with natural consequences. This version separates the definition of natural consequences from the escalation/de-escalation outcomes and inquiry questions into three distinct slides.

YB

Yvonne Brown

Psychologist
2/6
Material
Calm Cards Match Game Slice-and-Dice

Calm Cards Match Game Slice-and-Dice

A printer-optimized set of 24 matching cards (12 pairs) with tightened layout and fixed height grids to ensure zero content cutoff during printing. Includes clear cutting guides and compact instructional header.

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Zyra Guyon

Counselor
2/6
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Social Signal Decoder Slides Updated

Social Signal Decoder Slides Updated

Engaging slides for a middle school counseling lesson on reading social signals, understanding perspectives, and choosing responses with natural consequences. updated to include examples, non-examples, inquiry questions, and the original escalation/de-escalation concept.

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Yvonne Brown

Psychologist
2/6
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Integrity Impact Rubric

Integrity Impact Rubric

An assessment rubric for evaluating student understanding of academic integrity, focusing on four key criteria: understanding pressure, impact analysis, ethical strategy, and self-reflection.

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Richard Latham

Behavior Interventionist
2/6
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Decision Detectives Scenarios

Decision Detectives Scenarios

An interactive student activity featuring three realistic scenarios (Case Files) where students must analyze the pressures to cheat and develop ethical 'Blueprint Actions.' Includes a personal reflection section.

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Richard Latham

Behavior Interventionist
2/6
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Peer Support Rubric

Peer Support Rubric

An assessment rubric for the final Community Charter project, evaluating theory application, safety planning, and sustainability.

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Lenny
1/18
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Community Care Project Rubric

Community Care Project Rubric

Final project rubric for evaluating the Community Care Initiative, focusing on rationale, boundaries, referral pathways, and sustainability.

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Lenny
1/18
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Community Care Design Template

Community Care Design Template

Student design workbook for planning the Community Care initiative, covering problem definition, logistics, safety boundaries, and sustainability.

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Lenny
1/18
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Community Charter Template

Community Charter Template

A design framework for a community care plan, producing a 'Community Charter' for peer support in a specific campus context.

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Lenny
1/18
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Community Care Project Brief

Community Care Project Brief

Final project brief for the Community Care initiative, detailing requirements, core components, and the "Department Pitch" assessment.

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Lenny
1/18
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Community Care Slides

Community Care Slides

Visual slide deck for Lesson 5, introducing the concepts of mutual aid, sustainable networks, and the "Community Charter" project.

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Lenny
1/18
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Resilience Architecture Plan & Crisis Card

Resilience Architecture Plan & Crisis Card

Final student synthesis materials for Lesson 5, including a comprehensive Resilience Architecture master plan and a portable, pocket-sized Crisis Card for immediate intervention.

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Lenny
1/18
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Group Dynamics Observer Tool

Group Dynamics Observer Tool

Observation and feedback tool for students to use while observing peer-led group facilitation simulations, focusing on psychological safety and dynamic management.

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Lenny
1/18
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Collective Coping Toolkit

Collective Coping Toolkit

A brainstorming worksheet for identifying collective coping strategies for common undergraduate stressors.

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Lenny
1/18
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Circle Facilitation Script

Circle Facilitation Script

Practical script for students to lead a brief check-in circle, featuring opening ground rules, modeling prompts, and intervention strategies.

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Lenny
1/18
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Resilience Capstone Slides

Resilience Capstone Slides

Visual presentation for Lesson 5, synthesizing the sequence and introducing the Resilience Architecture plan and Crisis Card.

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Lenny
1/18
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Stressor Sorting Activity

Stressor Sorting Activity

A sorting activity where students categorize shared stressors from an anonymous "drop box" into personal or systemic categories to facilitate normalization.

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Lenny
1/18
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Facilitation Fundamentals Slides

Facilitation Fundamentals Slides

Facilitation Fundamentals Slides focusing on group dynamics, psychological safety, and managing difficult participants.

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Lenny
1/18
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Capacity Budgeting Workshop

Capacity Budgeting Workshop

A student budgeting activity for Lesson 4 that teaches students how to evaluate opportunities and practice declining them to protect their academic capacity.

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Lenny
1/18
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Group Facilitation Slides

Group Facilitation Slides

Visual slide deck for Lesson 4, introducing group facilitation skills, the power of normalization, and the distinction between individual and systemic stressors.

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Lenny
1/18
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Referral Resource Guide

Referral Resource Guide

Reference guide and template for students to identify professional resources and practice the "warm handoff" referral protocol.

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Lenny
1/18
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Strategic No Slides

Strategic No Slides

Visual presentation for Lesson 4, addressing the economics of energy, role overload, and the "Yes/No/Negotiate" framework in academia.

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Lenny
1/18
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Campus Referral Organizer

Campus Referral Organizer

A resource guide template for students to collect and categorize campus professional resources.

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Lenny
1/18
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Boundary Case Studies

Boundary Case Studies

Case studies focusing on temporal and emotional boundary failures in peer support, including scripting exercises for boundary resetting.

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Lenny
1/18
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Shutdown Ritual Blueprint

Shutdown Ritual Blueprint

A student blueprint for Lesson 3 to design a personalized shutdown ritual and optimize their sleep environment.

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Lenny
1/18