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Social Awareness

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Empathetic skill development through emotion recognition, cultural diversity appreciation, and bias confrontation. Targets multi-perspective analysis to support respectful interactions and complex social responses.

Counseling & Life SkillsSelf-AwarenessBasic Emotion RecognitionComplex Emotion IdentificationEmotional Nuance & Mixed FeelingsBuilding Positive Self-ImageRecognizing Strengths & Growth AreasAccurate Self-AssessmentPersonal Values IdentificationCultural & Individual Identity ExplorationValues-Based Decision MakingSelf-ManagementStop-and-Think StrategiesDelaying GratificationIndependent Impulse ManagementIdentifying Stress TriggersShort-Term Goal SettingSMART Goals DevelopmentGoal Monitoring & AdjustmentBuilding Perseverance & ResilienceInternal Motivation DevelopmentComprehensive Stress Reduction PlanningSocial AwarenessRecognizing Others' FeelingsDemonstrating EmpathyRespecting Individual DifferencesUnderstanding Cultural DiversityComplex Empathetic ResponsesMultiple Viewpoint ConsiderationMulti-Perspective AnalysisChallenging Stereotypes & BiasRelationship SkillsActive ListeningClear Verbal & Nonverbal CommunicationBuilding Positive FriendshipsWorking Cooperatively in GroupsCommunicating Personal BoundariesRespecting Others' BoundariesAssertive ExpressionPeaceful Problem-SolvingContributing to Team GoalsComplex Conflict NavigationMediation & NegotiationHealthy Romantic RelationshipsResponsible Decision-MakingDaily Problem IdentificationBrainstorming Multiple SolutionsEvaluating Pros & ConsRecognizing Risks & ConsequencesApplying Ethical FrameworksInformed Risk-Benefit DecisionsRoot Cause AnalysisMindfulnessMindful BreathingBody Scan MeditationDaily Mindfulness ApplicationDaily Self-Care RoutinesBalancing Life DemandsAdvocating for Wellness NeedsMental Health SupportUnderstanding Anxiety SymptomsWorry Management StrategiesProgressive Muscle RelaxationRecognizing Depression SignsBuilding Mood-Supporting RoutinesBehavioral Activation for MoodUnderstanding Grief StagesHealthy Grief CopingCreative Expression of LossBehavioral SupportDaily Check-In ProceduresDaily Goal Setting & ReviewRecognizing Escalation Warning SignsRequesting Breaks & SupportSelf-Calming During DistressUnderstanding Positive ReinforcementToken Economy ImplementationBehavior Chart TrackingAnalyzing Behavior PatternsIdentifying Antecedents & ConsequencesDetermining Behavior FunctionFunction-Based InterventionsIndividualized Behavior ContractsData-Driven Behavior AdjustmentTherapeutic ApproachesThoughts-Feelings-Behaviors ConnectionRecognizing Thinking PatternsChallenging Negative ThoughtsPositive Self-Talk PracticeThought Record TrackingAdvanced Cognitive RestructuringComprehensive CBT PlansBehavioral Activation TechniquesBuilding Positive ExperiencesExposure Hierarchies for AnxietyPresent-Moment AwarenessNon-Judgmental ObservationSelf-Soothing & DistractionComplex Emotion LabelingReducing Emotional Vulnerability (PLEASE)DEAR MAN CommunicationGIVE Skills for RelationshipsFAST Skills for Self-RespectRadical Acceptance PracticeCrisis Survival Skills (TIPP)Understanding Trauma EffectsTrauma Responses & TriggersIdentifying Trauma FeelingsGrounding TechniquesRegulation During Trauma DistressSafe Place VisualizationProcessing Through NarrativeDeveloping Trauma StoryPersonalized Safety PlanningGroup SupportTurn-Taking & SharingGroup Conversation SkillsSharing in Supportive EnvironmentLearning from Similar ChallengesBuilding Community & BelongingNavigating Peer RelationshipsGroup Skill PracticeGroup Mental Health EducationStress & Anxiety UnderstandingCrisis Support & SafetyKnowing When to Seek HelpIdentifying Mental Health CrisesGrounding During CrisisUsing Crisis HotlinesBuilding Support NetworksAccessing Mental Health ResourcesWarning Signs & Coping StrategiesDeveloping Personal Safety PlansUnderstanding Suicide Warning SignsGatekeeper Skills for PeersDigital LiteracySocial MediaTechnology BasicsProductivity ToolsInternet and Online ResearchWeb Design and PublishingDigital CitizenshipOnline Safety and PrivacyEmerging TechnologiesFinancial LiteracyMaking Financial DecisionsBanking and AccountsConsumer SkillsSaving and InvestingCredit and DebtEmployment and IncomeTaxesInsuranceMajor PurchasesEconomic ConceptsFinancial PlanningCollege & Post-Secondary PlanningCareer ExplorationUnderstanding Post-Secondary OptionsCollege Research & SelectionAdmission RequirementsCollege Application ProcessPersonal Statement WritingFAFSA CompletionScholarship Search & ApplicationsUnderstanding Student LoansContinuing Education PlanningInterview PreparationResearching EmployersCommon Interview QuestionsSTAR Method ResponsesProfessional Interview PresenceVirtual Interview SkillsInterview Follow-UpJob Search SkillsUnderstanding Job PostingsEffective Job Search StrategiesNetworking for OpportunitiesResume Writing BasicsAction Verbs & AchievementsTailoring Resumes to JobsCover Letter WritingProfessional ReferencesProfessional CommunicationBusiness Email EtiquettePhone & Voicemail ProfessionalismMeeting ParticipationPresentation SkillsProfessional Work EthicTime Management & ProductivityTeamwork & CollaborationAdaptability & FlexibilityProblem-Solving at WorkConstructive FeedbackWorkplace RightsUnderstanding Employment LawsPay & Benefits UnderstandingWorkplace SafetyAnti-Discrimination & Harassment
Recognizing Others' FeelingsIdentification of facial expressions, body language, and tone of voice to understand the emotional states of others. Develops empathy and situational awareness across diverse social contexts.
Demonstrating EmpathyPerspective-taking strategies and recognition of emotional cues in others. Builds skills in active listening, compassionate response, and understanding diverse viewpoints.
Respecting Individual DifferencesRecognition of diverse cultural backgrounds, neurodiversity, and personal identities to foster inclusive communities. Strengthens empathy and perspective-taking skills by addressing stereotypes and valuing unique individual contributions.
Understanding Cultural DiversityCultural identities, traditions, and belief systems across global communities. Develops empathy and cross-cultural communication skills to foster inclusive social environments.
Complex Empathetic ResponsesNuanced perspective-taking strategies and the integration of cognitive and affective empathy. Develops skills for identifying subtle social cues and validating multifaceted emotional experiences.
Multiple Viewpoint ConsiderationPerspective-taking strategies to recognize and value diverse viewpoints across social settings. Builds empathy and conflict resolution skills by examining the impact of personal background and context on individual perceptions.
Multi-Perspective AnalysisExamines diverse viewpoints and social contexts to build empathy and critical thinking skills. Targets identifying personal biases and resolving interpersonal conflicts through active perspective-taking.
Challenging Stereotypes & BiasCritical analysis of unconscious bias and the social impact of harmful stereotypes. Equips learners with strategies for perspective-taking and promoting inclusive environments.
Lesson
Media Mastery Lesson Plan
Mirror Mirror Slides
Beauty Debunked Discussion
Media Critique Activity

Mirror Mirror

A lesson empowering students to critically analyze media's role in shaping beauty standards and develop a positive self-image through interactive analysis and discussion.

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Media Mirror Lesson Plan
Mirror Mirror Slides
Beyond the Screen Discussion Guide
Image Detective Activity Worksheet

Mirror Mirror Media Lesson

A lesson empowering 8th graders to critically analyze media beauty standards and build a positive self-image through interactive discussion and group analysis.

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Lenny
1/17
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Simulation Briefing Slides
Simulation Catalyst Cards
Simulation Performance Rubric

The Social Simulation

A culminating simulation where students must navigate a high-stakes social conflict using the labeling and validation skills developed throughout the sequence.

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Lenny
1/17
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Room Reader Slides
Masks and Mirrors Worksheet
Room Reader Teacher Guide

Reading the Room

An exploration of social 'display rules' and the cultural norms that dictate how and when emotions are expressed or masked.

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Lenny
1/17
Lesson
Validation Dynamics Slides
Mirror Me Scripts Worksheet
Validation Toolbox Cheat Sheet

The Power of Validation

Students practice reflective listening and the use of emotional labeling as a primary tool for social de-escalation and validation.

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Lenny
1/17
Lesson
Empathy Lens Slides
Empathy Mapping Worksheet
Empathy Lens Teacher Guide

The Empathy Lens

Focuses on the distinction between sympathy and empathy through the creation of empathy maps for complex characters and peers in challenging situations.

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Lenny
1/17
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Human Signals Slides
Signal Blueprint Worksheet
Signal Spotter Teacher Guide

Decoding Human Signals

Students will investigate micro-expressions, body language, and vocal tone to identify emotions without spoken words. The lesson emphasizes the scientific 'tells' of complex human feelings.

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Lenny
1/17
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Negotiating Boundaries Slides
My Personal Manual Reflection

Negotiating Shared Boundaries

Practicing negotiation and compromise to find a 'middle ground' that respects everyone's space needs.

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Lenny
1/17
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Respecting No Slides
Boundary Reflex Worksheet

Respecting the No

Focusing on emotional regulation and respectful reactions when others set boundaries or say 'no'.

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Lenny
1/17
Lesson
Advocacy Scripts Slides
Script Builder Worksheet

Scripts for Self-Advocacy

Developing and practicing scripts to explain sensory needs and social behaviors to others respectfully.

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Lenny
1/17
Lesson
Global Norms Slides
Space Travelers Case Studies
Space Travelers Answer Key

Global Gaze and Space Norms

An exploration of how different cultures and individuals view eye contact and personal space, promoting tolerance and flexibility.

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Lenny
1/17
Lesson
Space Gaze Blueprints Slides
My Space Blueprint Worksheet
Mapping Preferences Teacher Guide

Mapping My Sensory Preferences

Students identify their own sensory preferences for proximity and eye contact to create a personal interaction 'map'.

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Lenny
1/17
Lesson
Sankofa Start Warm Up
Our Collective Story Lesson Plan

Our Collective Story

A 30-minute Tier 1 lesson for 5th-8th grade Black and Brown boys exploring collective heritage through the concept of Sankofa. Designed with visual supports and accessible response methods for students with speech delays.

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Lenny
1/17
Lesson
Soy Increíble Lesson Plan Doc
Soy Increíble Slide Deck
Mi Identidad Secreta Journal

Soy Increíble

A 30-minute lesson for 8th-grade Spanish-speaking students to explore their unique qualities, cultural identity, and linguistic strengths to foster self-esteem and belonging.

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Lenny
1/17
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Be the Change Lesson Plan
Be the Change Slides
Be the Change Script
Scenario Sort Warm Up
Practice Makes Progress Activity
One Word Wonders Cool Down

Be the Change

This workshop empowers 6th-grade students to effectively address name-calling and cursing among peers through empathy building and practical communication strategies.

TS

Taiylor Samuel

Counselor
1/14
Lesson
Understand Autism Lesson Plan
What Is Autism Slide Deck
Teacher Script Understanding Autism
Discussion Prompts My Actions My Impact
Role-Play Activity Empathy in Action

Understand Autism Build Empathy

A 45-minute Tier 3 individual lesson for middle school students to address bullying behavior towards autistic peers by fostering understanding and empathy.

M

mrivera

Counselor
1/12
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Walk a Mile Warm-Up Worksheet
Autism Understanding Slides
Autism Understanding Script
Empathy Discussion Guide
Empathy Actions Activity
Walk a Mile Lesson Plan

Walk a Mile in My Shoes

A 45-minute Tier 2 small group lesson for middle schoolers to foster autism awareness, empathy, and inclusive behavior through perspective-taking activities and discussion.

M

mrivera

Counselor
1/12
Lesson
Your Space Your Rules Lesson Plan
Personal Space Slide Deck
Respecting Boundaries Discussion Guide
The Invisible Bubble Reading
Scenario Cards Activity Sheet
Step In Step Out Game Guide
Scenario Cards Answer Key

Your Space Your Rules

A 30-minute session for 8th-grade male students focused on understanding proxemics, identifying personal space zones, and practicing respectful boundary communication through interactive activities and discussion.

DP

David Patterson

Behavior Interventionist
1/8
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Life Soundtrack Lesson Plan
Music and Emotion Slide Deck
Life Soundtrack Project Guide
Sharing Stories Discussion Guide

Soundtrack of My Life

Students explore how music reflects and influences personal experiences and emotions, creating a personal playlist that tells their story. This resource encourages emotional literacy and self-expression through the universal language of music.

JC

Jennifer Calfee

Music Teacher
1/5
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Brilliance Lesson Plan
Brilliance Slide Deck
Welcome Back Script
Holiday Highlights Worksheet
Charter Check-in Activity
Ganas Goal Setting Journal
New Year New Me Game Guide
Charter Challenge Game Guide
Values Discussion Prompts Resource

Back to Brilliance

A 30-minute welcome-back lesson for 5th-8th grade boys focusing on reflection, community, and goal-setting through the values of Sankofa, Ubuntu, and Ganas. Includes accommodations for diverse learners.

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Joleen Shillingford

Counselor
1/5
Lesson
Trust Roadmap Slides
Roadmap to Repair Project
Rebuilding Trust Teacher Notes

Rebuilding Trust Over Time

Students learn that trust is built slowly over time and create a 'Roadmap to Repair' outlining consistent actions needed to re-establish a friendship.

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Making it Right Slides
Restitution Blueprint Worksheet
Harm Repair Cards

Making Amends Restitution

This lesson moves beyond words to action, brainstorming creative ways to 'make it right' or offer restitution relevant to the harm caused.

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Circle Talk Slides
Restorative Question Cards
Circle Facilitator Guide

Restorative Dialogue Circles

Students participate in a structured circle process to practice sharing feelings and listening to others' experiences of harm using restorative justice questions.

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Apology Architecture Slides
Apology Auditor Worksheet
Celebrity Apology Cards

Architecture of Apology

Students deconstruct apologies to identify key components: acknowledging the act, validating hurt, accepting responsibility, and making a plan for change. They critique public apologies.

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Intent Impact Slides
Impact Investigation Worksheet
Intent Impact Teacher Guide

Intent vs Impact

Students explore the gap between what they meant to do (intent) and how it affected others (impact). They analyze scenarios where good intentions still caused harm and discuss why impact must be addressed first.

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Resolution Lab Slides
Mediation Scenario Cards
Final Resolution Agreement Form
Mediation Rubric

Resolution Lab

A culminating mock mediation simulation where students apply the full protocol—from opening statements to written agreements—using realistic middle school scenarios.

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Bridge Building Slides
Open Ended Question Bank
Brainstorming Guide Worksheet

Bridge Building

Focused on shifting from conflict to collaboration, students practice asking open-ended questions that prompt disputants to generate their own creative solutions.

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
The Echo Effect Slides
Reframing Practice Handout
Active Listening Checklist

The Echo Effect

Students master the skills of summarizing and reframing. They learn to strip away inflammatory language and reflect back the core needs and feelings of disputing parties.

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Setting the Stage Slides
Opening Script Template
Mediation Rules Poster

Setting the Stage

This lesson focuses on the opening stage of mediation. Students learn to set the tone, establish ground rules, and ensure confidentiality to create a safe space for resolution.

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Mediator Mindset Teacher Guide
Mediator Mindset Slides
Neutrality Check Worksheet

Mediator Mindset

Students explore the definition of neutrality and the mediator's role. They practice identifying bias and using objective language to facilitate rather than judge.

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1/18
Lesson
Mediator Roadmap Cheat Sheet
Mediation Lab Scripts Handout
Mediation Teacher Guide

Mediation Lab Simulation

Students engage in full-cycle mock mediations. Groups rotate roles between disputants and mediators, using scripts based on real-life 6th-grade problems (e.g., rumor spreading, exclusion).

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Reframing Toxic Language Slides
Reframing Toxic Lab Worksheet

Reframing Toxic Language

Students learn to 'catch' toxic or inflammatory language used by disputants and reframe it into neutral problem statements. This advanced skill prevents the mediation from turning into a shouting match.

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Active Listening Slides
Mirroring Practice Worksheet

Active Listening and Mirroring

This lesson focuses on the mediator's primary tool: mirroring (reflecting back what was heard). Students practice listening to a complaint and summarizing it neutrally to ensure the speaker feels heard.

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Setting the Stage Slides
Opening Statement Script Handout

Setting the Stage and Ground Rules

Learners practice the opening statement of a mediation: welcoming parties, explaining the process, and establishing rules like 'no interrupting' and 'no name-calling.'

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
The Role of the Mediator Slides
Mediator Case Studies Worksheet

The Role of the Mediator

Students define what a mediator is (a guide, not a judge) and the core principle of neutrality. They discuss confidentiality and identify when a conflict is too dangerous for peer mediation (e.g., bullying or violence).

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Conflict Clinic Slides
Case Study Patient File
Diagnosis Report Form

Conflict Diagnosis Clinic

A final synthesis activity where students act as 'Conflict Doctors' to diagnose a complex scenario using all the tools learned in the sequence.

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Domino Effect Slides
Escalation Map Worksheet
Conflict Brakes Handout

The Domino Effect

Analyzes the cycle of escalation, identifying triggers and turning points where conflicts can be de-escalated before reaching a breaking point.

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Perspective Lens Slides
Double Vision Activity Worksheet
Perspective Facilitator Guide

The Perspective Lens

Focuses on perspective-taking and empathy through visual illusions and story-mapping, teaching students to see multiple truths in a single dispute.

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Conflict Animal Slides
Animal Styles Assessment Worksheet
Animal Styles Teacher Key

Conflict Animal Styles

Students explore five core conflict styles (Shark, Turtle, Teddy Bear, Fox, Owl) to understand their default reactions and the impact on others.

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Iceberg Presentation Slides
Root Cause Investigation Worksheet
Root Cause Facilitation Guide

Root Cause Investigation

Introduces the Iceberg Model to help students differentiate between the surface argument and the underlying needs, fears, and values driving conflict.

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Mediator Roadmap Cheat Sheet
Mediation Lab Scripts Handout
Mediation Teacher Guide

Mediation Lab Simulation

Students engage in full-cycle mock mediations. Groups rotate roles between disputants and mediators, using scripts based on real-life 6th-grade problems (e.g., rumor spreading, exclusion).

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Reframing Toxic Language Slides
Reframing Toxic Lab Worksheet

Reframing Toxic Language

Students learn to 'catch' toxic or inflammatory language used by disputants and reframe it into neutral problem statements. This advanced skill prevents the mediation from turning into a shouting match.

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Active Listening Slides
Mirroring Practice Worksheet

Active Listening and Mirroring

This lesson focuses on the mediator's primary tool: mirroring (reflecting back what was heard). Students practice listening to a complaint and summarizing it neutrally to ensure the speaker feels heard.

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Setting the Stage Slides
Opening Statement Script Handout

Setting the Stage and Ground Rules

Learners practice the opening statement of a mediation: welcoming parties, explaining the process, and establishing rules like 'no interrupting' and 'no name-calling.'

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
The Role of the Mediator Slides
Mediator Case Studies Worksheet

The Role of the Mediator

Students define what a mediator is (a guide, not a judge) and the core principle of neutrality. They discuss confidentiality and identify when a conflict is too dangerous for peer mediation (e.g., bullying or violence).

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Practicum Scenario Cards
Official Mediation Agreement
Mediation Mastery Reflection

Mediation Mastery Practicum

A culminating simulation where students apply all their skills to facilitate full-length peer mediation sessions.

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Agreement Architecture Slides
Solution Blueprint Worksheet

Agreement Architecture

Students practice transitioning from the venting phase of conflict to collaborative brainstorming and reaching consensus.

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Curiosity Core Slides
Mystery Conflict Challenge Cards
Questioning Toolkit Reference

The Curiosity Core

Focuses on open-ended questioning to move disputants from a 'blame' mindset to sharing their personal perspectives and underlying needs.

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Language Flip Slides
Toxic Text Translator Worksheet
Reframing Cheat Sheet

The Language Flip

Students learn to de-escalate conflict by stripping away inflammatory language and identifying core issues through reframing techniques.

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Neutral Ground Slides
Opening Statement Worksheet
Neutral Ground Teacher Guide

Neutral Ground Foundation

Students explore the foundational concept of neutrality and practice the 'Opening Statement' to establish ground rules and safety in mediation.

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Media Mastery Lesson Plan
Mirror Mirror Slides
Beauty Debunked Discussion
Media Critique Activity

Mirror Mirror

A lesson empowering students to critically analyze media's role in shaping beauty standards and develop a positive self-image through interactive analysis and discussion.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/17
Lesson
Media Mirror Lesson Plan
Mirror Mirror Slides
Beyond the Screen Discussion Guide
Image Detective Activity Worksheet

Mirror Mirror Media Lesson

A lesson empowering 8th graders to critically analyze media beauty standards and build a positive self-image through interactive discussion and group analysis.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/17
Lesson
Your Relationship Radar Slides
My Relationship Standards Checklist
Letter to My Future Self Template
Relationship Radar Final Quiz

Your Relationship Radar

Students reflect on the previous lessons to create a personal guide or 'standard' for future relationships. They outline what they will accept and what are non-negotiables. This final lesson empowers student autonomy and self-worth.

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Lenny
1/17
Lesson
The Slow Boil Slides
Pattern Recognition Map Worksheet
Cycle of Control Facilitation Guide

The Slow Boil

This lesson introduces the subtle progression of unhealthy control, moving from 'love bombing' to tension building. Students learn to recognize early warning signs that a relationship is becoming unbalanced. The focus is on recognizing patterns rather than isolated incidents.

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Lenny
1/17
Lesson
Screen Dynamics Slides
Relationship Detective Case Files Worksheet
Media Examples Teacher Resource

Screen Dynamics

Students critique fictional couples from popular movies, TV shows, or books to apply their understanding of healthy vs. unhealthy dynamics. They discuss how media often romanticizes toxic behaviors like stalking or relentless pursuit. This promotes media literacy regarding romantic myths.

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Lenny
1/17
Lesson
Navigating the Flags Slides
Flag Sort Activity Deck
Decoding the Flags Worksheet
Indicators and Action Guide Teacher Resource

Navigating the Flags

Learners differentiate between positive indicators (green flags) and warning signs (red flags) in dating dynamics. The lesson introduces concepts like jealousy, isolation, and possessiveness as distinct from caring. Students sort behavior cards into healthy, unhealthy, and abusive categories.

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Lenny
1/17
Lesson
Heart Foundations Slides
Relationship Rights Charter Worksheet
Four Corners Facilitation Guide

Heart Foundations

Students explore core values like respect, trust, and individuality to define what they deserve in a relationship. They will create a personal 'Relationship Rights' charter.

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Lenny
1/17
Lesson
The Survival Filter Slides
Solution Stress Test Worksheet
Solution Storming Exit Ticket

The Survival Filter

Students apply a filtration process to identify the most realistic and safe solution, discarding options that are socially damaging.

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Lenny
1/17
Lesson
The Three Paths Slides
Three Path Sort Worksheet
Path Mastery Reference Sheet

Three Path Analysis

Students categorize their brainstormed list into 'Passive,' 'Aggressive,' and 'Assertive' solutions to understand different interaction trajectories.

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Lenny
1/17
Lesson
Brainstorming Power Slides
Solution Storming Map Worksheet
The 20-Ways Challenge Activity Sheet

Solution Storming Phase

Students learn to generate a high quantity of potential solutions to a single problem through divergent thinking exercises.

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Lenny
1/17
Lesson
Trust Roadmap Slides
Roadmap to Repair Project
Rebuilding Trust Teacher Notes

Rebuilding Trust Over Time

Students learn that trust is built slowly over time and create a 'Roadmap to Repair' outlining consistent actions needed to re-establish a friendship.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Making it Right Slides
Restitution Blueprint Worksheet
Harm Repair Cards

Making Amends Restitution

This lesson moves beyond words to action, brainstorming creative ways to 'make it right' or offer restitution relevant to the harm caused.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Circle Talk Slides
Restorative Question Cards
Circle Facilitator Guide

Restorative Dialogue Circles

Students participate in a structured circle process to practice sharing feelings and listening to others' experiences of harm using restorative justice questions.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Apology Architecture Slides
Apology Auditor Worksheet
Celebrity Apology Cards

Architecture of Apology

Students deconstruct apologies to identify key components: acknowledging the act, validating hurt, accepting responsibility, and making a plan for change. They critique public apologies.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Intent Impact Slides
Impact Investigation Worksheet
Intent Impact Teacher Guide

Intent vs Impact

Students explore the gap between what they meant to do (intent) and how it affected others (impact). They analyze scenarios where good intentions still caused harm and discuss why impact must be addressed first.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Lesson
BATNA Plan B Slides
BATNA Builder Worksheet
Negotiation Lab Exit Ticket

Power of Plan B

Students learn the concept of BATNA (Best Alternative to a Negotiated Agreement) to understand their 'walk-away' power.

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Fairness Standard Slides
Fair Value Challenge Worksheet

The Fairness Standard

Students learn to use fair standards (rules, precedents, market value) to resolve impasses fairly.

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Expanding the Pie Slides
Option Generator Worksheet

Expanding the Pie

This lesson focuses on the 'invention' phase of negotiation. Students learn to suspend judgment and generate a wide array of potential solutions before deciding on one.

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Attack Problem Slides
Problem Flip Workshop Worksheet
Attack Problem Teacher Guide

Attack the Problem

Students learn techniques to attack the problem, not the person. They practice rephrasing personal attacks into problem statements using externalizing language.

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Plus One Strategy Slides
Trade Tracker Worksheet
Game Master Guide Lesson 1

The Plus One Strategy

Students define and contrast compromise with collaboration. They engage in a trading game to experience the difference between zero-sum and positive-sum outcomes.

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Resolution Lab Slides
Mediation Scenario Cards
Final Resolution Agreement Form
Mediation Rubric

Resolution Lab

A culminating mock mediation simulation where students apply the full protocol—from opening statements to written agreements—using realistic middle school scenarios.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Bridge Building Slides
Open Ended Question Bank
Brainstorming Guide Worksheet

Bridge Building

Focused on shifting from conflict to collaboration, students practice asking open-ended questions that prompt disputants to generate their own creative solutions.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Lesson
The Echo Effect Slides
Reframing Practice Handout
Active Listening Checklist

The Echo Effect

Students master the skills of summarizing and reframing. They learn to strip away inflammatory language and reflect back the core needs and feelings of disputing parties.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Setting the Stage Slides
Opening Script Template
Mediation Rules Poster

Setting the Stage

This lesson focuses on the opening stage of mediation. Students learn to set the tone, establish ground rules, and ensure confidentiality to create a safe space for resolution.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Mediator Mindset Teacher Guide
Mediator Mindset Slides
Neutrality Check Worksheet

Mediator Mindset

Students explore the definition of neutrality and the mediator's role. They practice identifying bias and using objective language to facilitate rather than judge.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Conflict Clinic Slides
Case Study Patient File
Diagnosis Report Form

Conflict Diagnosis Clinic

A final synthesis activity where students act as 'Conflict Doctors' to diagnose a complex scenario using all the tools learned in the sequence.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Domino Effect Slides
Escalation Map Worksheet
Conflict Brakes Handout

The Domino Effect

Analyzes the cycle of escalation, identifying triggers and turning points where conflicts can be de-escalated before reaching a breaking point.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Perspective Lens Slides
Double Vision Activity Worksheet
Perspective Facilitator Guide

The Perspective Lens

Focuses on perspective-taking and empathy through visual illusions and story-mapping, teaching students to see multiple truths in a single dispute.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Conflict Animal Slides
Animal Styles Assessment Worksheet
Animal Styles Teacher Key

Conflict Animal Styles

Students explore five core conflict styles (Shark, Turtle, Teddy Bear, Fox, Owl) to understand their default reactions and the impact on others.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Iceberg Presentation Slides
Root Cause Investigation Worksheet
Root Cause Facilitation Guide

Root Cause Investigation

Introduces the Iceberg Model to help students differentiate between the surface argument and the underlying needs, fears, and values driving conflict.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Trust Roadmap Slides
Roadmap to Repair Project
Rebuilding Trust Teacher Notes

Rebuilding Trust Over Time

Students learn that trust is built slowly over time and create a 'Roadmap to Repair' outlining consistent actions needed to re-establish a friendship.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Making it Right Slides
Restitution Blueprint Worksheet
Harm Repair Cards

Making Amends Restitution

This lesson moves beyond words to action, brainstorming creative ways to 'make it right' or offer restitution relevant to the harm caused.

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Circle Talk Slides
Restorative Question Cards
Circle Facilitator Guide

Restorative Dialogue Circles

Students participate in a structured circle process to practice sharing feelings and listening to others' experiences of harm using restorative justice questions.

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1/18
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Apology Architecture Slides
Apology Auditor Worksheet
Celebrity Apology Cards

Architecture of Apology

Students deconstruct apologies to identify key components: acknowledging the act, validating hurt, accepting responsibility, and making a plan for change. They critique public apologies.

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Intent Impact Slides
Impact Investigation Worksheet
Intent Impact Teacher Guide

Intent vs Impact

Students explore the gap between what they meant to do (intent) and how it affected others (impact). They analyze scenarios where good intentions still caused harm and discuss why impact must be addressed first.

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1/18
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BATNA Plan B Slides
BATNA Builder Worksheet
Negotiation Lab Exit Ticket

Power of Plan B

Students learn the concept of BATNA (Best Alternative to a Negotiated Agreement) to understand their 'walk-away' power.

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1/18
Lesson
Fairness Standard Slides
Fair Value Challenge Worksheet

The Fairness Standard

Students learn to use fair standards (rules, precedents, market value) to resolve impasses fairly.

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Expanding the Pie Slides
Option Generator Worksheet

Expanding the Pie

This lesson focuses on the 'invention' phase of negotiation. Students learn to suspend judgment and generate a wide array of potential solutions before deciding on one.

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Attack Problem Slides
Problem Flip Workshop Worksheet
Attack Problem Teacher Guide

Attack the Problem

Students learn techniques to attack the problem, not the person. They practice rephrasing personal attacks into problem statements using externalizing language.

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1/18
Lesson
Plus One Strategy Slides
Trade Tracker Worksheet
Game Master Guide Lesson 1

The Plus One Strategy

Students define and contrast compromise with collaboration. They engage in a trading game to experience the difference between zero-sum and positive-sum outcomes.

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1/18
Lesson
Resolution Lab Slides
Mediation Scenario Cards
Final Resolution Agreement Form
Mediation Rubric

Resolution Lab

A culminating mock mediation simulation where students apply the full protocol—from opening statements to written agreements—using realistic middle school scenarios.

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Lenny
1/18
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Bridge Building Slides
Open Ended Question Bank
Brainstorming Guide Worksheet

Bridge Building

Focused on shifting from conflict to collaboration, students practice asking open-ended questions that prompt disputants to generate their own creative solutions.

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
The Echo Effect Slides
Reframing Practice Handout
Active Listening Checklist

The Echo Effect

Students master the skills of summarizing and reframing. They learn to strip away inflammatory language and reflect back the core needs and feelings of disputing parties.

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1/18
Lesson
Setting the Stage Slides
Opening Script Template
Mediation Rules Poster

Setting the Stage

This lesson focuses on the opening stage of mediation. Students learn to set the tone, establish ground rules, and ensure confidentiality to create a safe space for resolution.

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Lenny
1/18
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Mediator Mindset Teacher Guide
Mediator Mindset Slides
Neutrality Check Worksheet

Mediator Mindset

Students explore the definition of neutrality and the mediator's role. They practice identifying bias and using objective language to facilitate rather than judge.

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Negotiation Tournament Teacher Guide
Negotiation Role Profiles Handout
Final Negotiation Agreement Template

The Great Negotiation Tournament

Teams represent different stakeholders in a complex, multi-party simulation. They must draft a written agreement that addresses the interests of all groups, applying all negotiation tools learned (interests, options, criteria, BATNA).

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1/18
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Mediator Roadmap Cheat Sheet
Mediation Lab Scripts Handout
Mediation Teacher Guide

Mediation Lab Simulation

Students engage in full-cycle mock mediations. Groups rotate roles between disputants and mediators, using scripts based on real-life 6th-grade problems (e.g., rumor spreading, exclusion).

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Reframing Toxic Language Slides
Reframing Toxic Lab Worksheet

Reframing Toxic Language

Students learn to 'catch' toxic or inflammatory language used by disputants and reframe it into neutral problem statements. This advanced skill prevents the mediation from turning into a shouting match.

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Active Listening Slides
Mirroring Practice Worksheet

Active Listening and Mirroring

This lesson focuses on the mediator's primary tool: mirroring (reflecting back what was heard). Students practice listening to a complaint and summarizing it neutrally to ensure the speaker feels heard.

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
BATNA Walk Away Teacher Guide
BATNA Walk Away Slides
Knowing Your BATNA Worksheet

The Walk Away Power

Students explore the concept of BATNA—knowing what you will do if a negotiation fails. This lesson teaches students how to assess their leverage and decide when to accept a deal or walk away.

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Trust Roadmap Slides
Roadmap to Repair Project
Rebuilding Trust Teacher Notes

Rebuilding Trust Over Time

Students learn that trust is built slowly over time and create a 'Roadmap to Repair' outlining consistent actions needed to re-establish a friendship.

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Making it Right Slides
Restitution Blueprint Worksheet
Harm Repair Cards

Making Amends Restitution

This lesson moves beyond words to action, brainstorming creative ways to 'make it right' or offer restitution relevant to the harm caused.

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Circle Talk Slides
Restorative Question Cards
Circle Facilitator Guide

Restorative Dialogue Circles

Students participate in a structured circle process to practice sharing feelings and listening to others' experiences of harm using restorative justice questions.

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Apology Architecture Slides
Apology Auditor Worksheet
Celebrity Apology Cards

Architecture of Apology

Students deconstruct apologies to identify key components: acknowledging the act, validating hurt, accepting responsibility, and making a plan for change. They critique public apologies.

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Intent Impact Slides
Impact Investigation Worksheet
Intent Impact Teacher Guide

Intent vs Impact

Students explore the gap between what they meant to do (intent) and how it affected others (impact). They analyze scenarios where good intentions still caused harm and discuss why impact must be addressed first.

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
BATNA Plan B Slides
BATNA Builder Worksheet
Negotiation Lab Exit Ticket

Power of Plan B

Students learn the concept of BATNA (Best Alternative to a Negotiated Agreement) to understand their 'walk-away' power.

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1/18
Lesson
Fairness Standard Slides
Fair Value Challenge Worksheet

The Fairness Standard

Students learn to use fair standards (rules, precedents, market value) to resolve impasses fairly.

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Expanding the Pie Slides
Option Generator Worksheet

Expanding the Pie

This lesson focuses on the 'invention' phase of negotiation. Students learn to suspend judgment and generate a wide array of potential solutions before deciding on one.

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Attack Problem Slides
Problem Flip Workshop Worksheet
Attack Problem Teacher Guide

Attack the Problem

Students learn techniques to attack the problem, not the person. They practice rephrasing personal attacks into problem statements using externalizing language.

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Plus One Strategy Slides
Trade Tracker Worksheet
Game Master Guide Lesson 1

The Plus One Strategy

Students define and contrast compromise with collaboration. They engage in a trading game to experience the difference between zero-sum and positive-sum outcomes.

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Resolution Lab Slides
Mediation Scenario Cards
Final Resolution Agreement Form
Mediation Rubric

Resolution Lab

A culminating mock mediation simulation where students apply the full protocol—from opening statements to written agreements—using realistic middle school scenarios.

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Bridge Building Slides
Open Ended Question Bank
Brainstorming Guide Worksheet

Bridge Building

Focused on shifting from conflict to collaboration, students practice asking open-ended questions that prompt disputants to generate their own creative solutions.

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
The Echo Effect Slides
Reframing Practice Handout
Active Listening Checklist

The Echo Effect

Students master the skills of summarizing and reframing. They learn to strip away inflammatory language and reflect back the core needs and feelings of disputing parties.

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Setting the Stage Slides
Opening Script Template
Mediation Rules Poster

Setting the Stage

This lesson focuses on the opening stage of mediation. Students learn to set the tone, establish ground rules, and ensure confidentiality to create a safe space for resolution.

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Mediator Mindset Teacher Guide
Mediator Mindset Slides
Neutrality Check Worksheet

Mediator Mindset

Students explore the definition of neutrality and the mediator's role. They practice identifying bias and using objective language to facilitate rather than judge.

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Negotiation Tournament Teacher Guide
Negotiation Role Profiles Handout
Final Negotiation Agreement Template

The Great Negotiation Tournament

Teams represent different stakeholders in a complex, multi-party simulation. They must draft a written agreement that addresses the interests of all groups, applying all negotiation tools learned (interests, options, criteria, BATNA).

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Mediator Roadmap Cheat Sheet
Mediation Lab Scripts Handout
Mediation Teacher Guide

Mediation Lab Simulation

Students engage in full-cycle mock mediations. Groups rotate roles between disputants and mediators, using scripts based on real-life 6th-grade problems (e.g., rumor spreading, exclusion).

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Reframing Toxic Language Slides
Reframing Toxic Lab Worksheet

Reframing Toxic Language

Students learn to 'catch' toxic or inflammatory language used by disputants and reframe it into neutral problem statements. This advanced skill prevents the mediation from turning into a shouting match.

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Active Listening Slides
Mirroring Practice Worksheet

Active Listening and Mirroring

This lesson focuses on the mediator's primary tool: mirroring (reflecting back what was heard). Students practice listening to a complaint and summarizing it neutrally to ensure the speaker feels heard.

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
BATNA Walk Away Teacher Guide
BATNA Walk Away Slides
Knowing Your BATNA Worksheet

The Walk Away Power

Students explore the concept of BATNA—knowing what you will do if a negotiation fails. This lesson teaches students how to assess their leverage and decide when to accept a deal or walk away.

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Upstander Action Game Instructions

Part 2: The Upstander Rally

A 45-minute high-energy assembly featuring a team-based competition and a community pledge ceremony.

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Lenny
1/17
Lesson
Be a BRAVE Upstander Lesson Plan
Be a BRAVE Upstander Slides
Be a BRAVE Upstander Script
Bullying Scenarios Activity Cards
Kindness Pledge Worksheet
BRAVE Upstander Discussion Prompts

Part 1: The BRAVE Workshop

A 20-minute classroom session focusing on defining bullying, introducing the BRAVE acronym, and practicing scenarios.

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Lenny
1/17
Lesson
Dignity Defense Lesson Plan
Humanity First Handout
Impact Insight Worksheet

Dignity Defense

This lesson helps 8th-grade students understand the connection between human dignity and bullying awareness. By exploring how respecting human dignity can prevent bullying, students will learn to foster a supportive and inclusive environment. This lesson is important as it empowers students to stand against bullying and promotes empathy and respect for all individuals.

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Lenny
1/17
Lesson
Media Mirror Lesson Plan
Mirror Mirror Slides
Beyond the Screen Discussion Guide
Image Detective Activity Worksheet

Mirror Mirror Media Lesson

A lesson empowering 8th graders to critically analyze media beauty standards and build a positive self-image through interactive discussion and group analysis.

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Lenny
1/17
Lesson
Relationship Rights Zine Slides
Zine Blueprint and Rubric
Unit Summary Teacher Guide

Relationship Rights Zine

A cumulative project where students synthesize their learning into a personal Zine outlining their standards for emotional safety and relationship rights.

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Lenny
1/17
Lesson
Power and Fairness Slides
Decision Duel Worksheet

Power and Fairness

An investigation into power dynamics and equality in decision-making. Students identify healthy compromise and recognize subtle signs of control in relationships.

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Lenny
1/17
Lesson
Bounce Back Better Slides
Bounce Back Plan Worksheet

Bounce Back Better

Students learn to view rejection as a matter of compatibility rather than personal failure. They develop self-care strategies and resilience techniques for handling emotional hurt.

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Lenny
1/17
Lesson
Trust Your Gut Slides
Gut Check Journal Worksheet

Trust Your Gut

This lesson focuses on identifying physical and emotional cues that signal safety or discomfort. Students practice trusting their intuition in various social scenarios.

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Lenny
1/17
Lesson
Friendship Balance Teacher Guide
Friendship Balance Slides
Time Pie Worksheet

The Friendship Balance

Students explore the importance of maintaining friendships and personal hobbies while experiencing romantic feelings. They use 'Time Pies' to visualize and plan a healthy social balance.

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Lenny
1/17
Lesson
Negotiating Boundaries Slides
My Personal Manual Reflection

Negotiating Shared Boundaries

Practicing negotiation and compromise to find a 'middle ground' that respects everyone's space needs.

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Lenny
1/17
Lesson
Respecting No Slides
Boundary Reflex Worksheet

Respecting the No

Focusing on emotional regulation and respectful reactions when others set boundaries or say 'no'.

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Lenny
1/17
Lesson
Advocacy Scripts Slides
Script Builder Worksheet

Scripts for Self-Advocacy

Developing and practicing scripts to explain sensory needs and social behaviors to others respectfully.

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Lenny
1/17
Lesson
Global Norms Slides
Space Travelers Case Studies
Space Travelers Answer Key

Global Gaze and Space Norms

An exploration of how different cultures and individuals view eye contact and personal space, promoting tolerance and flexibility.

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Lenny
1/17
Lesson
Space Gaze Blueprints Slides
My Space Blueprint Worksheet
Mapping Preferences Teacher Guide

Mapping My Sensory Preferences

Students identify their own sensory preferences for proximity and eye contact to create a personal interaction 'map'.

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Lenny
1/17
Lesson
Calm Pitch Slides
Pitch Proposal Template
Calm Pitch Rubric

The Calm Pitch

Students present their sensory audit findings and design proposals in a 'Shark Tank' style pitch to advocate for environmental changes.

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Lenny
1/17
Lesson
Portable Peace Kit Slides
Mobile Kit Planner
Hula Hoop Activity Guide

Portable Peace Kits

Students brainstorm and design 'Mobile Modification Kits' to adapt their immediate personal space when the external environment cannot be changed.

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Lenny
1/17
Lesson
Recovery Zone Slides
Recovery Zone Blueprint Template
Sensory Furniture Catalog

The Recovery Zone Blueprint

Teams design an ideal 'Recovery Zone' floor plan, justifying their choices of textures and furniture based on sensory needs.

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Lenny
1/17
Lesson
Design Mind Slides
Design Psychology Reference Sheet
Design Analysis Worksheet

Design for the Mind

Learners explore how colors, lighting, and minimalism impact the autonomic nervous system and apply these principles to interior design.

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Lenny
1/17
Lesson
Sensory Audit Slides
Sensory Audit Worksheet
Audit Facilitation Guide

The Sensory Audit

Students learn to identify sensory 'hot spots' in their environment by conducting a formal audit of noise, light, smell, and traffic patterns.

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Lenny
1/17
Lesson
Sankofa Start Warm Up
Our Collective Story Lesson Plan

Our Collective Story

A 30-minute Tier 1 lesson for 5th-8th grade Black and Brown boys exploring collective heritage through the concept of Sankofa. Designed with visual supports and accessible response methods for students with speech delays.

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Lenny
1/17
Lesson
Trust Roadmap Slides
Roadmap to Repair Project
Rebuilding Trust Teacher Notes

Rebuilding Trust Over Time

Students learn that trust is built slowly over time and create a 'Roadmap to Repair' outlining consistent actions needed to re-establish a friendship.

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Making it Right Slides
Restitution Blueprint Worksheet
Harm Repair Cards

Making Amends Restitution

This lesson moves beyond words to action, brainstorming creative ways to 'make it right' or offer restitution relevant to the harm caused.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Circle Talk Slides
Restorative Question Cards
Circle Facilitator Guide

Restorative Dialogue Circles

Students participate in a structured circle process to practice sharing feelings and listening to others' experiences of harm using restorative justice questions.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Apology Architecture Slides
Apology Auditor Worksheet
Celebrity Apology Cards

Architecture of Apology

Students deconstruct apologies to identify key components: acknowledging the act, validating hurt, accepting responsibility, and making a plan for change. They critique public apologies.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Intent Impact Slides
Impact Investigation Worksheet
Intent Impact Teacher Guide

Intent vs Impact

Students explore the gap between what they meant to do (intent) and how it affected others (impact). They analyze scenarios where good intentions still caused harm and discuss why impact must be addressed first.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Lesson
BATNA Plan B Slides
BATNA Builder Worksheet
Negotiation Lab Exit Ticket

Power of Plan B

Students learn the concept of BATNA (Best Alternative to a Negotiated Agreement) to understand their 'walk-away' power.

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Fairness Standard Slides
Fair Value Challenge Worksheet

The Fairness Standard

Students learn to use fair standards (rules, precedents, market value) to resolve impasses fairly.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Expanding the Pie Slides
Option Generator Worksheet

Expanding the Pie

This lesson focuses on the 'invention' phase of negotiation. Students learn to suspend judgment and generate a wide array of potential solutions before deciding on one.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Attack Problem Slides
Problem Flip Workshop Worksheet
Attack Problem Teacher Guide

Attack the Problem

Students learn techniques to attack the problem, not the person. They practice rephrasing personal attacks into problem statements using externalizing language.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Plus One Strategy Slides
Trade Tracker Worksheet
Game Master Guide Lesson 1

The Plus One Strategy

Students define and contrast compromise with collaboration. They engage in a trading game to experience the difference between zero-sum and positive-sum outcomes.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Resolution Lab Slides
Mediation Scenario Cards
Final Resolution Agreement Form
Mediation Rubric

Resolution Lab

A culminating mock mediation simulation where students apply the full protocol—from opening statements to written agreements—using realistic middle school scenarios.

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Bridge Building Slides
Open Ended Question Bank
Brainstorming Guide Worksheet

Bridge Building

Focused on shifting from conflict to collaboration, students practice asking open-ended questions that prompt disputants to generate their own creative solutions.

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
The Echo Effect Slides
Reframing Practice Handout
Active Listening Checklist

The Echo Effect

Students master the skills of summarizing and reframing. They learn to strip away inflammatory language and reflect back the core needs and feelings of disputing parties.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Setting the Stage Slides
Opening Script Template
Mediation Rules Poster

Setting the Stage

This lesson focuses on the opening stage of mediation. Students learn to set the tone, establish ground rules, and ensure confidentiality to create a safe space for resolution.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Mediator Mindset Teacher Guide
Mediator Mindset Slides
Neutrality Check Worksheet

Mediator Mindset

Students explore the definition of neutrality and the mediator's role. They practice identifying bias and using objective language to facilitate rather than judge.

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Negotiation Tournament Teacher Guide
Negotiation Role Profiles Handout
Final Negotiation Agreement Template

The Great Negotiation Tournament

Teams represent different stakeholders in a complex, multi-party simulation. They must draft a written agreement that addresses the interests of all groups, applying all negotiation tools learned (interests, options, criteria, BATNA).

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Mediator Roadmap Cheat Sheet
Mediation Lab Scripts Handout
Mediation Teacher Guide

Mediation Lab Simulation

Students engage in full-cycle mock mediations. Groups rotate roles between disputants and mediators, using scripts based on real-life 6th-grade problems (e.g., rumor spreading, exclusion).

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Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Reframing Toxic Language Slides
Reframing Toxic Lab Worksheet

Reframing Toxic Language

Students learn to 'catch' toxic or inflammatory language used by disputants and reframe it into neutral problem statements. This advanced skill prevents the mediation from turning into a shouting match.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Lesson
Active Listening Slides
Mirroring Practice Worksheet

Active Listening and Mirroring

This lesson focuses on the mediator's primary tool: mirroring (reflecting back what was heard). Students practice listening to a complaint and summarizing it neutrally to ensure the speaker feels heard.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18
Lesson
BATNA Walk Away Teacher Guide
BATNA Walk Away Slides
Knowing Your BATNA Worksheet

The Walk Away Power

Students explore the concept of BATNA—knowing what you will do if a negotiation fails. This lesson teaches students how to assess their leverage and decide when to accept a deal or walk away.

Lenny Avatar
Lenny
1/18